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12FK2 46F  
286 posts
5/24/2020 3:02 pm

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We Know Why We're Here


I've gotten a few messages and seen several statuses on profiles that say "We know why we're here". That's awfully presumptuous. lol Who is included in that 'we'?

WE know why we're here?

Correction. YOU know why YOU'RE here. You have no idea why anyone else is here or their expectations. You hope their expectations and desires are the exact same as yours. But that's not how this works. Everyone is here for their own individual reasons. Their own individual desires. This is NOT a 'one size fits ' situation. Projecting what you want onto everyone else only sets you up for disappointment and misunderstandings.

I'm tempted 2 answer one of those messages with this reply:

"Yes, we DO know why we're here. So you like having sex in front of police stations during shift change also?! Cool. Hmu."

Disclaimer: I do not like having sex in front of police stations. The above statement is for entertainment purposes only and is subject 2 copywrite infringement laws.

12FK2 46F  
539 posts
5/24/2020 3:03 pm

Everyone is different. For that, I'm glad. What a dull world it would be if that wasn't the case.


Brownie202 63F  
1766 posts
5/24/2020 5:35 pm

You are right. We all do not want the same thing. SOME men do not get that. Also that some of us have preferences for age, martial status etc. It's like we should talk with them just because we are here and they are interested in us. Not how this site works as much as some believe it does

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


12FK2 replies on 5/24/2020 6:16 pm:
Exactly. So many approach you and make it clear, right out of the gate, that your preferences don't matter. They literally think we've been waiting for them so we can fulfill their every wish with nothing in return.

cumfundiscreet79 43M
7 posts
5/24/2020 5:39 pm

lol ya if i was getting propositioned by hundreds of sex starved women it wouldnt be all bad though, I could be flexible and play along, although even at that i woulnt be able to play along with every scenario


12FK2 replies on 5/24/2020 6:15 pm:
It's tough to play along with every scenario you're presented with. Plus if you do play along, some don't see it as play. They think that means you want to jump their bones. It also comes across as people not caring at all about what you want or are into. They just want you to play along and fulfill their fantasy. Yours can take a hike. So, no, women don't find it helpful or charming to play along with people that do not have similar interests or compatibility. It's just a waste of time.

CharlesD6996 50M  
212 posts
5/24/2020 5:44 pm

Most of the stuff written here is purely for entertainment purposes. Unfortunately, sometimes it is just for the entertainment of the poster.

All the best,

Post Me


12FK2 replies on 5/24/2020 6:12 pm:
Don't most people blog for their entertainment or even just because they want to say something? I don't see anything wrong with that. You're perfectly welcome not to read or comment on any post.

redrockrascal 61M
21510 posts
5/24/2020 5:49 pm

"Disclaimer: I do not like having sex in front of police stations."

So I presume you prefer sex behind police stations.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


12FK2 replies on 5/24/2020 6:09 pm:
Precisely.

CedarsPrince 40M
1176 posts
5/24/2020 5:55 pm

I thought we were here to exchange favorite recipes


12FK2 replies on 5/24/2020 6:18 pm:
Yes that. And police station sex.

Hawkfan533333 30M
652 posts
5/24/2020 5:57 pm

AdultFriendFinder description on there site is a company primarily deals in adult entertainment, online dating, and social networking services. So if you take those, and break them down into several more categories in which one could use them for, it would be hard to imagine we are all here for the same thing. So to shay.

Feel free to message my private mailbox


12FK2 replies on 5/24/2020 6:20 pm:
Agreed. Somehow, this still eludes some people. The possibilities are endless for what people may want.

Granny872 67F  
2279 posts
5/24/2020 7:29 pm

Correction. YOU know why YOU'RE here. You have no idea why anyone else is here or their expectations. You hope their expectations and desires are the exact same as yours. But that's not how this works. Everyone is here for their own individual reasons. Their own individual desires. This is NOT a 'one size fits ' situation. Projecting what you want onto everyone else only sets you up for disappointment and misunderstandings.

Trying to convince a member here of anything that strongly contrasts with their own reason for being here is an exercise in futility and a total waste of time. Just my opinion. It's easier and quicker to wish them good luck in their endeavors and move on.

None of us are getting out alive, so let's at least try to be nice to each other while we're here.


12FK2 replies on 5/25/2020 5:38 am:
Yeah that's true. I do exactly that, I don't reason with them, I just ignore. Talking about it is just to get it out. I have no belief that stating it will convince anyone to change. Sometimes venting helps. lol

Owatalife 63M  
1557 posts
5/24/2020 10:10 pm

Of course it is extremely presumptuous of somebody to claim they know why others are here. Personally I'm so baked most of the time that I just land here by accident most days.

Also I prefer not to get wrecked in front of police stations, is just my personal preference.


12FK2 replies on 5/25/2020 5:42 am:
Smart man! Some things are best done away from a police station. lol

JustLookn439 54M

5/24/2020 10:44 pm

You didn't state whether they were MALE, FEMALE, or COUPLE profiles. I see the women tend to assume they are men, most likely as your status indicates that is what you are seeking. But it could be that you have come across couple's profiles?? If so, they likely mean the two of them...not everyone on the site. I see a lot of FEMALE profiles that use "we" in the body of their profile. Turns out it is a FEMALE profile but she has a husband that must participate (another one of my pet peeves...to me that should be a "couples" profile) ... Maybe the guys are doing the same, I wouldn't know.


12FK2 replies on 5/25/2020 5:29 am:
Because that distinction wasn't necessary for the point of this post. I'm talking about individuals who approach me by saying that or those that put that phrase as their status. Not couples referring to themselves as "we" in a profile. But rather, people, any people, who refer to the collective "we" as though we are all here for the same thing. Whether they be single or couple, if they refer to the masses in that phrase, they are assuming we all want the same thing.

jajo696 65F
2121 posts
5/25/2020 1:03 am

Frankly , im here for the bible hour, the recipes , the pretty colors of the font, and the occasional police station romp.

I want you to reply as you said....i'd LOVE to see the reaction.

Yeah it peeves me too when someone assumes we are all here for the same reasons. How plain and non creative, like those generic appendage pictures...~~


12FK2 replies on 5/25/2020 5:33 am:
Lol, exactly! Thanks for replying.

dogslife2live01 68M
1930 posts
5/25/2020 2:36 am

i'm only here because all the religious houses are closed

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


12FK2 replies on 5/25/2020 5:26 am:
Now THAT was funny! Thanks for replying.

cumfundiscreet79 43M
7 posts
5/25/2020 5:25 am

oh i hear ya, i see where you are coming from, i just was saying i wish i had as many women doing that to me


12FK2 replies on 5/25/2020 1:52 pm:
I understand. All good lol. Thanks!

clittywhisperer1 55M
1333 posts
5/25/2020 5:42 am

all the worlds indeed a stage and we are merely players, performers, and portrayers each another's audience outside the guided cage … neil peart


12FK2 replies on 5/25/2020 1:56 pm:
I've always liked that quote. Only other thought is that some players fail to see it's an ensemble performance instead of a one man show. lol

Paulxx001 63M
17045 posts
5/25/2020 8:05 am

Good point.
I'm here for the 'all you can eat buffet'. It's on the second floor, isn't it?
Still haven't found it.

... is there another way to look at it.
We Have Lost Forty Million Good Men WTF


12FK2 replies on 5/25/2020 1:54 pm:
Yes, 2nd floor. Also included are complimentary hazmat suits to enhance your buffet experience.

BiggLala 48F  
28354 posts
5/25/2020 12:33 pm

Wait...wait...wait...

Am I too late for the police station orgy? It's now evolved to orgy level status hasn't it? I mean...they got handcuffs and shit, right?!?!?

Uhhh...and yeah...I've seen some women's profiles and/or blog posts that use the "we" in the manner of which you speak. So...no...this isn't a gender thing. It's annoying AF either way when someone says it. Arrrrg!

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12FK2 replies on 5/25/2020 2:26 pm:
Police station orgy can be whatever, that's the beauty of it!

12FK2 replies on 5/25/2020 5:23 pm:
Oh no! Lala, your previous responses are not showing up. I don't know what happened to them. I just wanted to tell you I didn't delete them. I liked what you had to say and wanted them to stay. This was the site being glitchy and not me. Just fyi.

ArglBargl14 57M
269 posts
5/27/2020 5:38 am

I'm here for the ice cream social for the lactose intolerant. Or something like that.


12FK2 replies on 5/27/2020 12:51 pm:
That's a good reason. Ice cream is my favorite!

Nonpersonal87 32M  
9 posts
6/4/2020 1:53 am

That’s one small step for man... one giant leap for mankind


12FK2 replies on 6/12/2020 10:41 pm:
Not sure I understand what you mean. But thanks for reading my post!

merlot5555 64M  
744 posts
6/10/2020 5:29 am

....and 50,000 people of all persuasions dropped their trousers and lined up in front of the police station... in hope... yes, in hope, that she would change her mind.....

....and all was well in the universe.... who needs logic, when crazy will do just fine.....


12FK2 replies on 6/10/2020 8:00 am:
But, alas, her mind is made up. Thanks for replying.

Pleaseme2345 35M
4 posts
6/12/2020 10:00 pm

Great read...


12FK2 replies on 6/12/2020 10:41 pm:
Thank you!

merlot5555 64M  
744 posts
6/24/2020 6:19 am

    Quoting merlot5555:
    ....and 50,000 people of all persuasions dropped their trousers and lined up in front of the police station... in hope... yes, in hope, that she would change her mind.....

    ....and all was well in the universe.... who needs logic, when crazy will do just fine.....
12FK2 replies on 6/10/2020 11:00 am:
But, alas, her mind is made up. Thanks for replying.

................

But of course... all said in playful jest.... as many others to your post.... luv your word play... and your message.... as for me... occasional post... blogs.... and perhaps out of the mosaic, a rock that shines brightly.....

....now stay away from police stations....lol...


trixietrixster 52F  
1355 posts
6/30/2020 5:17 pm

When I get a message like that, I think to myself ... ya, your to infect with a fucking disease based upon your pics of unprotected sex with a million girls, for starters. Oh ... a man in uniform orgy ... or ... did I miss it?!

In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...


12FK2 replies on 6/30/2020 5:56 pm:
You said that right! You didn't miss anything at the police station orgy. Most of the men were "no shows" and the ones who did show up didnt look like their picture. lol

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