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Would I like to delete the recording ? No , I would LOVE to delete it  

40Deuce 46M
4634 posts
8/13/2018 6:18 pm

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8/17/2018 1:30 pm

Would I like to delete the recording ? No , I would LOVE to delete it


Last night I watched a documentary about a supposedly semi-famous/infamous dude from the great state of Iowa who I had never heard of - which calls his fame into question yeah ?

He was a big time psychologist (psychiatricist ? therapist ? ) back in the 80's when everyone was into that . He was credited for all kind of research on how people tried to manipulate each other and why it worked .

Guess what he did in this spare time ?

They had several interviews with his now ex-wife , the woman he was<b> cheating </font></b>on said wife with at the time and the woman with whom he was having a "non-penetrative sexual affair with" at that same time . That's how they phrased it . They must have said "non-penetrative sexual affair with" at least 30 times .

And why ? A good 30% of the "film" were graphic retellings of all the stuff he did with lady #2 so why didn't they just say what he was up to with lady #3 ? Did they just do that to make it seem more interesting than "oh had another lady that just did mouth stuff" ? It was odd .

But the whole thing was odd - the documentary I mean . Such as a lot of it was dedicated to testimony from a trial but the never said what he was on trial for . At first I assumed he had killed his wife but they had present day interviews with all three women . What the heck was he on trial for ? They never said .

"40 you just weren't paying attention and you missed that part"

Wrong ! not one of you multi-taskers or someone who has the TV on "for background noise" when watching TV I have laser focus . TV is my real mom , I owe it to her .

Remember on American Gods when the chick that played Scully , representing the new god of media , said that people give her a sacrifice better than burnt offerings or money - they give her time . I do .

Also riddle me this , aren't recording devices banned on courtrooms ? So why do they always have recordings of court testimony to play ? Are they really playing a deposition or something and just saying "well this is pretty much what they said in court ?"

Anyway , they had a lot of woman talking about how good this guy was at manipulating people but it seemed kind of lame to me . This main move seemed to be giving someone a couple grand they were supposed to give to someone else and then people were over the moon because he trusted them with a pile of . Doesn't that seem kind of rudimentary ? I suppose the real trick was finding the right people who didn't expect anyone to ever trust them ?

Speaking of I saw ANOTHER profile where a dude was saying he wants a woman who's "trusting" . Do all these guys really mean trustworthy or are they really just being upfront about wanting someone gullible they can lie to ?

Anyway , listening to women talk about this fellow's "skills" put me in a mind of the times I've heard one of the my dirtbag acquaintances on the phone with one of their baby-mommas/meal-tickets/ mommas and they talking about how much they love them and they need them and yada yada yada and I always thought "this seems very obviously manipulative to me , why does anyone fall for it ?' And again , I assume the key is finding the right victim .

Plus , just like me and the Stacy Webber scenario I mentioned probably they DO know they're being manipulated but they want so badly for that to be the case they just go along with it .

Something I've been pondering lately - if people magically lost the ability for self-delusion do you think the world would be a better place or worse ?

Some people confronted with the true reality of their nature would probably dedicate themselves to trying to be better .

But I feel like a lot more people once their comfy blanket of lies was taken away would lean into their shittiness and become even worse .

I mean obviously in the long run it would be better once you built a society to support people without the capacity for deluding themselves but I think things would get so bad in the short team maybe we wouldn't make it .

I wonder what thing most deluded about . The frustrating part is I'll probably never know . My brain's a real dick like that .

I've got the place surrounded brain - don't make me come in there and get you .

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40Deuce 46M
5725 posts
8/13/2018 6:19 pm

I was tired to being woken up at 6 AM every Saturday morning to I got some black-out shade for my bedroom . Surprise , surprise it's dark as hell in there now .

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smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
8/13/2018 7:17 pm

Clearly Iowa doesn't have any true super-villains if this guy is the best they can come up with for a documentary.

And, I would argue that "mouth stuff" (at least that the woman performs on the man) is still penetration. Hand jobs would qualify as non penetrative I guess.


40Deuce replies on 8/14/2018 5:38 pm:
That would be an interesting version of the "X from all 50 states" listicles you see all over the place - each state's worse criminal

superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
8/13/2018 7:52 pm

If self delusion were gone - I'd have to change my user name to mediocrebutenthusiasticbj. and Imagine the profiles!

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


40Deuce replies on 8/14/2018 5:38 pm:
Imagining . . . . I like it

HedonicHeathen 56M
198 posts
8/14/2018 12:28 am

OMG seriously ... pics OR it didn't happen.
links OR it don't link
flicks OR no pick
WTF ... or ... FTW

You can't title and signify this docurama so that others can share in you'allusion?

I see the formulas like recipe in the gripe and know that at best I should skim and avoid the dive for perls. The three main things I learned from NLP was to generally delete what the distortions prevail, or maybe something along parallel lines I just can't recall.

If I could post an image I could have saved space for what I'm putting down here.

anyway, werk sets one free [sic]
regards


40Deuce replies on 8/14/2018 5:40 pm:
I could probably but I don't advertise for free - once I get my check from the producers I'll reconsider

FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
8/14/2018 8:52 pm

We only need ONE person to lose the ability for self-delusion. His initials are DT.

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40Deuce replies on 8/15/2018 6:22 pm:
What good would that do , there would still be all the people that voted for him .

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