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Kinks - just thinking about it  

partygald 41F
3082 posts
12/28/2018 8:24 pm

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Kinks - just thinking about it


Hey yo! The husband and the boyfriend have gone surfing this morning so, figured I'd use this time to pop out a blog. I had intended to sleep in but...once I got up, I thought I'd get a bit of work done. And once the computer was on, well...here I

I also got a text from a friend at the gym asking me when I'd be back there working out. Innocent enough question, but she literally texted me "when is the nipples of steel coming back to the gym?" Which is a weird thing to ask. First up, I think her grammar is wrong. Isn't it supposed to be "when ARE"?

The first thing that popped into my mind was, how would she know I like my nipples pinched or nibbled hard? (Ok, not all the time, but at times, I do. But that's another story for another time). Then it became apparent that she was merely referring to how my nipples poke through my workout tops. I remove the paddings from most of my exercise tops and sports bras. not crazy about them sliding around. I realise that's a personal preference, so fine. What I didn't know was, how it had become a thing in the gym. And it's not like I can control them (Both, my nipples, AND their reactions). So yeah, that's that. I'll see if I remember it the next time I head back there. It's a lil hard to squeeze in gym time with both the boys around.

Speaking of which, last night we were talking and I was asking the bf what happened the the lady he was having a fling with earlier this year back in HK. He was dating this married lady (he's got a thing for older ladies so, no surprises there. I mean, duh right? ) She was married so they kept things under wraps for the duration of their...thing. He ended it (by just not calling her back, which I think is quite rude, but under the circumstances...) cos she had a thing for scrubbing his dick with...items. So the last straw for him was when she forced him down and insisted on rubbing his dick and balls with a steel wool. Yes, the kind you use to scrub metal pots and pans

LOL. The husband and I both laughed at the story, but evidently it was very painful, and traumatising
Which also kinda made me think about our sexual preferences. Which are also kinks, right? Could be something as outrageous as that, or as simple as hair pulling. Wouldn't all that be lumped into that general term? That's why I've always found it a lil hard to tell people about it when they ask (not that people ask. I mean, it's not a usual conversation topic with most people I meet and converse with).

But anyhow. In the process, also trying really hard to not overthink it, like dig too deep into what our lil kinks are, know what I mean? Like I like having two dicks to with. I like riding one and sucking on another, or one pounding into me another down my throat. I also like having a lot of hands on me. Or being double stuffed. I like the attention, amongst other things. I won't try and list all of what I like here, it'll take too long I think Also, I'd have to really think about it.

What saying is, we like what we like. I try not to think too much into it cos it might take the joy out of it, know what I mean?

partygald 41F
1963 posts
12/28/2018 8:25 pm

Do you dig into it much? Like Analyse psychologically what's what? Fuck. I'm mildly interested, but I also think that kinda takes the sexy out of it. Kinda like naked yoga.


Bud_Bot 47M
211 posts
12/28/2018 8:45 pm

Never think about or dig into it too much. Just go with what feels good at the moment.


mrplumber2016 61M

12/28/2018 9:01 pm

I think about it a lot. I think that is very important to a healthy sex life that you do.


Tonift 46M
2 posts
12/28/2018 10:23 pm

Love it


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
12/29/2018 5:38 am

*Checks if NipplesOfSteel handle has already been used on the site.*

Nah, not into hair pulling or anything like that. Just not my thing really, but each to their own.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
12/29/2018 12:32 pm

To each his own or do your own thing. Nipples of steel, very interesting. Enjoy!


ClitLickB4DickU 65M  
1392 posts
12/29/2018 8:54 pm

Yeah....I guess Kinks are just what "spins your wheels" to get there. I rarely plan or discuss the order of play with my partners. With my regular girl we tend to only go as far as "what shall I come as? ", so she can plan which costume to bring (that's her kink - she's into dressing up ), but in general I am very oral and Love a good Face Fuck, giving and receiving (from a female I should add) and making a Girl Squirt gives me a certain sense of achievement


ClitLickB4DickU 65M  
1392 posts
12/29/2018 8:57 pm

Oh, and i'm really into being a 3rd wheel with 2 bi-girls, although infrequently achieved. I guess you've got the 2 Dick thing pretty much sorted for the holidays


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
1/2/2019 9:44 am

I don't think it can be just me....... but I like the thought of a woman who can't control the reactions of her "nipples of steel." (I don't mean that I assume there are woman who can - although there may be - only that it has always turned me on to think of the automatic slow hardening of nipples, however caused. Not that I want to dig into it too much, or as you say, that might take the sexy out of it, lol.

As to the grammar, doesn't it depend on whether she was referring to the nipples themselves, in which case you are right, surely it should have been "are." But could she have been nicknaming you "The Nipples of Steel," in which case is would have been correct. But then she ought to have used capital letters. If she could be bothered.


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