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Lockdown is as lockdown does
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Lockdown is as lockdown does Shit is hitting the fan eh? one hand I’m quite happy actually see the earth healing. the other, shitload of people getting sick and dying ain’t good. Anyway. I’ll leave the heavy thinking people who are a bit more qualified do so. I’ve only got shit closer home (literally) deal with so I’ll just deal with that This is probably one of the longest stretch of time that the husband and I have spent together after we got married, as ironic as it sounds. This extended duration of being in each other’s presence had led to many things. Some of which is quite surprised to say, is pleasantly surprising. In the past week alone, he’s surprised me with his reactions to some of the many things that we had talked about. Ok, before going there, I find a need to go back a few weeks. This was still when we were going into our respective offices sporadically. Work was a bitch (it still is) for the both of us and our business was also suffering (it still is. But then again, who isn’t in these times). So the husband went through a good week and a half of being really, really fucking unbearably cranky. Which was understandable. But still unbearable. So there was one late evening when we were in bed and I can’t even remember what, but I had asked him something and he went ballistic on me. He lashed out and started screaming and was verbally attacking me. Now this was...over a week in of crankiness on both our parts, so I was fucking tired already. He was being unreasonable and I was literally about to snap myself. But I think it was fatigue, cos I didn’t. I just sat there and gave him the whole fucking night to rant. Then in the morning (at this point neither of us had slept an ounce) I made us breakfast. Half of it was me trying to be patient and supportive, but I swear it was mostly fatigue. Of course this fucker ate and left for work and I did the same. That day felt horrible, needless to say. But when I got home I had flowers and dinner already waiting, and a massage til I slept. Ha! Who’d have thought 😋 So anyhow, since that day he’s been nicer than usual. I know he’s trying a lil harder, which makes a lot of difference. Now back to this past week. I’m still sidetracking but bear with me. My fwb has been texting me on and off. We were supposed to meet up earlier this year but didn’t get a chance. Anyways. I had a work call one morning this past week and I took it on my work laptop. It wasn’t a video call so I switched off my video. I had taken the home office so I had the door shut and the husband was working outside. While all this was going on I had the fwb on a video call on my phone but I had muted the audio (obviously 😝) and for whatever reasons (being confined for so Long I suppose) we both started stripping. Lol. Now this wasn’t new to me😝 but I just haven’t done this with him before. But it was quite...hot. We got each other off and I am kinda surprised I enjoyed watching him shoot his load on his own thighs 🤣. Now back to the husband and what we spoke about. So, one of the evenings we were lying on our balcony floor naked, in the dark, just watching other people in their flats/apartments, just doing their thing. Maybe it was how surreal it felt at the time, maybe it was just us enjoying being voyeurs, or maybe it was cos we had just satisfyingly fucked each other silly, but I remember lying on his chest when he asked me what I miss most now that everything is locked down. I was quite surprised at my own answer too but without much thought, i told him at that moment, I actually missed clubbing. Lol. 😑. Not like in general, but...more the feel of when I used to club, back when I was clubbing more often. I then told him about the time a loooong time ago, when I went down on this pair of twins in a club 😝. That was also the same night I walked out with cum on my cheeks 🙄. Lol. We went through a few more stories when the conversation got directed to the feeling of reckless abandonment that I like. Normally, I h like really hate it when he paychoanalyses everything like that. BUT!! This time round, it led something....excitingly positive. I told him about my fwb. He knows vaguely who my fwb is, as someone I used to date but he wasn’t aware that we were still seeing each other. At this point, I should add that the husband...has been prone to a bit of jealousy. It took him (the husband) years to get comfortable with my boyfriend (who is thankfully fine but still stuck in HK, FY  so I I didn’t think he would have reacted so positively (to me, anyway 😉). Side note: the fwb is a big, black guy. He stands close to 2m tall and lifts weights so. A big dude 😘 Anyhow, I told him about the fwb and how I want (and I stressed “want”, not “miss”) his dick. Like I want to fuck him hard, and I want to be fucked hard by him. I wasn’t thinking lying there on his chest, naked in the dark, but I remember getting aroused again as I was telling him. To my surprise, the husband said he was sure we could arrange that once things got better. Can you say woooo!! Lol 😘. So yeah, that was that. Of course I told the fwb about it and you know, we’re making arrangements but we’ll see. Here’s one more (big? 😋) reason to hope things get better soon. Yes yes...it’s rather selfish but...what the hell. I’ve been so riled I’ve been draining the husbands nuts dry. Lol. Maybe THAT was his ploy along. Heh. Anyways. Thanks for reading. Hope everyone stays safe. |
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Oh! And update. I think we were seen in our balcony. That, or they’ve seen us walking around at home without clothes on, or as of late, with not so regular clothing on. The husband and I have been....dressing up at home. Like lingerie (for me, not him. Lol) and chokers and collars and such. Anyways. I’ve noticed a few people from a few apartments across and adjacent to us looking in more often. Just standing by their windows, looking in. 😳 Hmm....
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Interesting take on being locked-down. Same for me too, it's the most time i've spent with my wife in the 20+ years we've been married, due to our usual respective work schedules. Mind you, she's locked in Zoom meetings all day long and so I only see her at meal times and bed-time (if i'm still awake) anyway LOL Maybe when it's over you can meet your voyeurs from the opposite apartments, or encourage them with a sign to reciprocate 
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U need a another fwb
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Pollution levels are down, people are making fewer trips to A&E and people everywhere are finding a new appreciation for health service workers and other key personnel. So there are some "positives" to come out of this. On the other side, there is some justified concern for relationships falling apart due to the enforced confinement and the implications that has. Be interesting to see what effect if any, this drama has on the divorce rates. And the birth rates in nine months! But looks like you're getting on top of things and I hope that continues.
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glad you and hubby are keeping each other occupied during this time of shut down. Always enjoy!
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Interesting take on being locked-down. Same for me too, it's the most time i've spent with my wife in the 20+ years we've been married, due to our usual respective work schedules. Mind you, she's locked in Zoom meetings all day long and so I only see her at meal times and bed-time (if i'm still awake) anyway LOL Maybe when it's over you can meet your voyeurs from the opposite apartments, or encourage them with a sign to reciprocate
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Pollution levels are down, people are making fewer trips to A&E and people everywhere are finding a new appreciation for health service workers and other key personnel. So there are some "positives" to come out of this. On the other side, there is some justified concern for relationships falling apart due to the enforced confinement and the implications that has. Be interesting to see what effect if any, this drama has on the divorce rates. And the birth rates in nine months! But looks like you're getting on top of things and I hope that continues. Thank for stopping by 😘
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glad you and hubby are keeping each other occupied during this time of shut down. Always enjoy!
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Thank you. Hoping you’re doing well too. A disclaimer though, it’s not to say I haven’t felt like smacking him on more than a few occasions. Lol. But I’m Glad it’s going the way it is. Thanks for stopping by
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Some path to making the relationship exclusive, isn't it? Social distancing isn't so good for sexual variety. Anyway, it's good that it's working for you. Wife and I get on each other's nerves at times, but it's mostly good for us too. Getting lots of stuff around the house done.
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4/26/2020 11:47 am |
Well, we ARE living in interesting times, hey? Best to you xo
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Woooo!
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