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Afternoon in Bed?
Afternoon in Bed? My sleep patterns have been messed up recently. Today I had the luxury of being able to afford the time to lie on my bed in the afternoon for a little nap! Soon it came into my mind that it would have been good to have someone there to lie with. Not necessarily to have sex, but to be relaxed with, say a few words maybe. To trace patterns on her skin, or gently kiss at her shoulder. Maybe some play between our lips, a gradual process of getting turned on, then letting it subside again, an ebbing and flowing tide of desire, without feeling the rush to fulfill it. Not that I don't love that rush. That racing heartbeat of lust which surges into your mind and overcomes everything else, focusing everything on the need to come and make come. Lying there dreaming about this made me think of a question. Empty your mind. Lie back, with no thoughts except a growing desire to be twined in another's limbs and body. Then answer me this: Is the person you long for in that quiet moment the same person that you are currently having sex with, or that you plan or most hope to have sex with next? Despite my complicated situation and deeply seated memories, just now I think I can honestly say that it is. And if were not, why not? Why not give yourself the option to make that person the target of your lust, not just in your mind, but in reality? Because without that racing heartbeat of desire, yes, sex can be fun, but is it really worth it? It isn't the same. When you truely desire someone, it is like a painkiller, it dissolves away all inhibitions, strips out hang-ups, awkwardness and fear. The body knows how best to respond when the mind can relax. Even a one night stand can be like this if you are consumed with desire at the time. Why not seek it? Why not seek that person? |
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Wow, that sounds like there are going to be some serious fireworks! I really hope it happens for you 24 Girl, and that it is as good as you hope it will be.
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I'm looking forward to hearing what happens on Monday Sassi! Hearing and feeling their breathing change, ooooh yes, that always makes me feel good too.
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Well yes, of course when I wrote this I knew what your answer would be Nic!
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That is great news - I am genuinely happy for you mmss.
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I am so pleased to hear that Wild. I hope you are able to make the most of him.
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