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Youth, Sex, and Condoms
Youth, Sex, and Condoms Mystirose had a post up in which she mentioned a problem she had had with older men, and them not being able to keep an erection especially when using a condom. Also that they were sometimes rougher than she liked. I smilingly objected on behalf of older men, and she very kindly responded that she had specifically NOT been referring to me, lol. (I have to point out here that Mystirose does not actually have any first hand knowledge of my ability to perform, (although I have a feeling I would have loved it if she had, ) so she is probably basing her praise for my prowess on past exploits recorded in my blog.... However, it set me thinking about myself, and this is some more of what I wrote in answer to her comments: I don't want to brag, but I haven't noticed myself having any problems yet.....okay maybe a few more minutes to re-charge, lol. And for sure older doesn't mean rougher. I love to be slow and gentle, and often have to be told "fuck me harder" if that's what is needed. I like to try to please the woman I am with, and the sexier she is then the more easily I will get hard and stay that way, lol! And her being young, enthusiastic, pretty and well formed seems to help with that too, though it is a while since I have had that pleasure, (younger, or my own age, ) other than in my imagination, so I can't be absolutely sure! However if the women I find myself lusting after in Oxford earlier today are anything to go by then youth is definitely an advantage, lol. (But those of you who are nearer my own age, read on, as if you are reading this you are almost certainly an exception... ) This doesn't only apply to sex, but to friendships as well. I think I often enjoy younger people's company or stand point becuase so many people my age are fixated with their and status. I don't have , and while yes, I do have a car and a house, those things don't make me who I am. I want to keep learning about all kinds of things in life and about how people are, and many people my age think they know all that already, which they quite clearly don't. (So do some younger people I might add! ) Interestingly one of the things I find exciting about the blogs is that many of the women of nearer my own age have kept this youthful inquisitivness - maybe that's why they are here - and that keeps them sexier than most of those who I meet in real life. In the end whether someone interests me, both mentally and sexually is a lot more subtle than where they have got to in the "game" of life. In fact I don't see life as a game, or a career, in that way. On the subject of condoms, I wonder if these days they might turn out to be a problem for me in the way Mysirose describes? I have never liked them, but of course I know they are often very necessary. However, whilst I have never had an erection problem, I can imagine that if I was only half hard, say for a second or third session in a day with someone who wasn't quite turning me on to desperation point, that act of having to put on another condom could be a problem. It isn't just that they are desensitising. They are ugly, and break the mental connection. If Prairie Girl was lying naked in front of me shouting "fuck me Dreamer" then you could probably make me wear twelve at once and I would still be straining to shoot my load, but even Cameron Diaz might find me softening a little if I was all shagged out, but she had coaxed me back to full length for a fourth and final time and then I had to fumble about with the latex. I'm not even sure if that's an age thing. |
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I have been known to raise the dead, on more than a few occasions. But I will admit, they kind of take the spontaneity out of love making a wee bit. But regrettably, it is a thing we have no choice over, if we want to play safe. I've never had a problem with sleeping with an older man. In fact, most of my past boyfriends have been a number of years older than me. I just seem to get on better with them, than some young whipper snapper!
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9/1/2010 10:14 am |
Oh Dreamer, first hand knowledge would be fun, but I would like to actually meet you first, then take you to bed, I am sure that you probably don't have the problem of condoms, it even happens to young men too though if it were a problem I would actually take the time with you to try and remedy the situation, I doubt you are a selfish man and you should be pleased @wantitindeep, most of the men I have dated have been 10 - 14 years my senior, when I refer to dating I usually mean sexual contact a one night stand ect. My actual Boyfriends have followed suit in the age department as well, and as for "raising the dead" I am more then happy to do so as long as they are willing to please me, my post which Dreamer is refering to was one of frustration and realizing that this particular man was selfish and I find sometimes alot of older men are like that because of health and so on. I normally get on with older men too, its why I date them so often, but I am not here to Hijack Dreamers post, just wanted to add my 2 cents
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Oh Dreamer, first hand knowledge would be fun, but I would like to actually meet you first, then take you to bed, I am sure that you probably don't have the problem of condoms, it even happens to young men too though if it were a problem I would actually take the time with you to try and remedy the situation, I doubt you are a selfish man and you should be pleased @wantitindeep, most of the men I have dated have been 10 - 14 years my senior, when I refer to dating I usually mean sexual contact a one night stand ect. My actual Boyfriends have followed suit in the age department as well, and as for "raising the dead" I am more then happy to do so as long as they are willing to please me, my post which Dreamer is refering to was one of frustration and realizing that this particular man was selfish and I find sometimes alot of older men are like that because of health and so on. I normally get on with older men too, its why I date them so often, but I am not here to Hijack Dreamers post, just wanted to add my 2 cents They seem to be far more interested in pleasing themselves, than pleasing me. You need to kick him into touch, or at least kick him somewhere! Most of mine have fitted into the 10-17yrs older bracket.
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Oh Dreamer, first hand knowledge would be fun, but I would like to actually meet you first, then take you to bed, I am sure that you probably don't have the problem of condoms, it even happens to young men too though if it were a problem I would actually take the time with you to try and remedy the situation, I doubt you are a selfish man and you should be pleased @wantitindeep, most of the men I have dated have been 10 - 14 years my senior, when I refer to dating I usually mean sexual contact a one night stand ect. My actual Boyfriends have followed suit in the age department as well, and as for "raising the dead" I am more then happy to do so as long as they are willing to please me, my post which Dreamer is refering to was one of frustration and realizing that this particular man was selfish and I find sometimes alot of older men are like that because of health and so on. I normally get on with older men too, its why I date them so often, but I am not here to Hijack Dreamers post, just wanted to add my 2 cents I agree I would need to meet someone before taking them to bed, lol!
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Mount Dreamer is never dormant F4!
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I have been known to raise the dead, on more than a few occasions. But I will admit, they kind of take the spontaneity out of love making a wee bit. But regrettably, it is a thing we have no choice over, if we want to play safe. I've never had a problem with sleeping with an older man. In fact, most of my past boyfriends have been a number of years older than me. I just seem to get on better with them, than some young whipper snapper!
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Experimentation simply for its own sake huh?
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