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Why cant people be honest?  

Cruiser_850 55M
16 posts
1/17/2020 7:12 pm

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Why cant people be honest?


I spent about 3 weeks getting know a woman through another site. We messaged on that site for about 2 weeks. Then we exchanged and started texting. We were trying get the feel of each other and learn about each other. No big deal? Right?

Before we met. I told her about past and what it did life as well as real life. I told her that the last 20 years have not been that great on . A lot of people<b> whine </font></b>about the stress they are because a store ran of their favorite beer or clothing or the traffic slowed them down by 5 minutes. The stress I been was enough kill an elephant. So the stress mixed with age done a on testosterone. Well, that took from a marathon man down the dreaded "come on lets get it on and get it over" minute man. So I told her all this to be honest with her and make sure that I might not be bringing "A" game and it bothers me.

She had yet tell about much of anything about her. I knew she use work in the legal field before she moved Washington. At the present time she was unemployed. I knew she was divorced. She was living with her parents and helping them . I also knew she had a that lived close by. Nothing else.

We got together the Friday after new years. We had a nice dinner and conversation. She was cute. She was thick? Hmmm. She had a weird build. But I wasn't judging on that. Besides, I was judging harsher than her. Dinner wrapped up and we ended up at place. We tried stream a movie. But tv wasn't cooperating. So we found something on cable. Watched it for a while. Then she put hand on her tits when she took off her bra. Ok. It not the first time to get naughty with a woman on the first date.

After a bit we ended up naked in bed. I was already hard on myself because I didn't get hard when we were playing in the living room. She started giving a blow job. Cock jumped up like it was made of steel. Figured she was doing ok. 3 hours later, cock is not as hard as it was when she started. She failed listen when I told her and showed her what was working and what was not.

She kept telling that cock was huge and she choked on it when she deep throated. But yet I know how big cock is. But, it was not the first time I heard that either. So I let that go the back of mind as I kept trying show her what worked. But again she wasn't listening.

after 4 hours of an ok BJ gone a bad bj. she gave up. I ended up having jack myself off. I kept trying tell her if she would do it this particular way, she would have gotten off 3.5 hours ago. But when it not good, then I end up being like an all day sucker.

Anyways, she got up and got dressed and I got cleaned up. Put shorts on and went the living room. She went the door without telling her it was bed time. We kissed good night and she left and I went bed.

She didn't text for a days. I didn't text her either. But, I was thinking over that night for a few days. And the more frustrated I got trying think about if there was something I could have done make that night better. I know I sure tried please her. She told that I went way above her expectations. But still something just bugged me.

After 3 days, she texted me and I texted her back. Being friendly and still trying learn about her. But didn't ask her about that Friday night. The next day was a day from hell at work and she texted . I responded back a little on the short side. As the day from hell progressed I started thinking about that Friday night again. Now frustration went from just frustrated "how dare she make feel inadequate". So when I got home, I sent her a text. I told her I had a question pertaining to the PG rated we had that Friday night. She told ask away.

So, I did. Asked her why she was wet when we first started. But not even a half hour into it she was as dry as a desert. And that everything I done including playing with the G spot, she didn't get wet. And asked if it was because she got bored because she couldn't get off. This is where things came in the open. Or at least a story that may have been true. But given the evidence or lack of made it suspicious.

She told she had a partial hysterectomy and it caused her to go into menopause which makes her dry and she has to use lubed for . Then she admitted being lame in the bedroom that night. She didn't even try and tell me that she would make up for it on the next weekend. She didn't apologize. She just had excuses. I asked her if that was true, why didn't she have lube with us in the bedroom knowing she was going need it if we got into intercourse.

I never heard back from her. I wasn't being mean. I was just trying to get to know what I need to do to ignite her fire for passionate . I am not gods gift women and do not know all the ways over heat a woman's internal engine. If I knew all that, then I would not have a problem getting a decent playmate that could lead more.

If she had been honest with begin with. Like I was with her. I could have read up on her situation and could have come from it from a different angle. But instead of getting know each other better and learn how ignite each others passion. She chose vanish. But she was the that kept saying she wants keep getting know each other. Right up she gave that story.

No wonder I prefer to world of Warcraft than deal with the bullshit I been coming across.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
1/17/2020 7:53 pm




superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
1/17/2020 9:31 pm

Some people have a hard time talking about sex..... that's not being dishonest.

But a 4 hour blowjob?! That's going above and beyond. I would've quit after 30 minutes.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
1/18/2020 6:22 am

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Some people have a hard time talking about sex..... that's not being dishonest.

    But a 4 hour blowjob?! That's going above and beyond. I would've quit after 30 minutes.
I agree! I would've got lockjaw

Maybe the buildup was too much and expectations were high on both accounts. Maybe just dinner would have been better on the first date to get to know each other face to face first.


Cruiser_850 55M
8 posts
1/18/2020 9:18 am

I had no expectations. I tried to show her what I like and what works. If she had listened she would have gotten me off in less than 15 minutes. It just shows she didn't know what she was doing. Nor would listen to her partner.

I have had 4 hour blow jobs before. But they got me off 3 times doing it.

One thing I didn't put in my post is this. She told me her ex husband told her she was extremely lacking in the bedroom as he handed her divorce papers while his new lover was standing next to her.


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