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Blogs > wetnready284 > The misadventures of me...

WANTED:Male Attention  

wetnready284 39F
34 posts
11/7/2006 8:03 pm

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1/8/2012 9:46 am
WANTED:Male Attention

I'm sure I'm not the only person out there that feels like a loser without getting any attention from the opposite sex. A few weeks ago, I frequented this site habitually...at least every hour. I couldn't just sit idly by while messages were piling up in my inbox...when people were waiting for a response. Things have changed drastically since then. I met someone--rather...someone that I like has shown interest in me and he's occupied my thoughts, so I haven't really been coming on to this site as much as I was before.
What does that say about me? I'm dependent... my self-esteem is probably low. It bothers me that my happiness is conditional...if there's a guy in my life and I have someone to look forward to, I'm the happiest person there is. But, I dread those days when there's no one around... when I try and shake the ghosts of my past with no success. I hate that I miss having someone lay in bed with me...not just for sex...but for intimacy. It must be crazy for me to be a member of this site and say I miss that...I guess I just wish I was like most other people here...carefree enough to let go...to just act without thinking too much... to have a no-strings relationship. Maybe I have too many romantic notions to be so free...I don't know. It could also be because I'm young and naive...Blahhh... =/

readytoplzyou3 56M
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11/7/2006 9:46 pm

 Well what can i say but everyone loves attention. I hope everything goes well with the one you have met. I will be here if you need to maybe you and can be friends anyways. I can sincerely say good luck on your search, its a tough road but there's definitely someone for I promise. Keep me in mind anyways. I have alot of attention to give.


readytoplzyou3 56M
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11/7/2006 9:52 pm

 I wrote a comment to you and didn't even proof read it. I couldn't even understand it, lol. I sure hope your new friend is the one your looking for, I wish you all the luck with him. I will say that everyone loves attention. I have alot to give for the right lady. If things don't work out i'll be available to chat with. I would still like to see if you could use another friend anyways, everyone can use those as well. I hope everything goes your way and good luck. Just remember me.


Xeryien 59M
1448 posts
11/8/2006 9:35 am

 I had wondered what happened to you - you posted frenetically for a few days and then *poof* all gone!

No, I am sorry to tell you that you are perfectly 'normal'. Everyone enjoys the attention, company and warmth of another.

Here, on AdultFriendFinder, people are a bit more forward, but still have the same insecurities that 'normal' people have in the real world, self esteem, attachment worries, insecurity, jealousy - I have seen them all in here. You are who you are. Just online you can say and do things that you can't in the 'real world'.

Does that make any sense at all?


LookandWink 70M

11/16/2006 12:15 pm

 I agree ... I think all of us fall into the trap of thinking that the wild sex-fiends we see here are different than us ... Wrong!! Here you can create a persona that's different than the real you out in the real world. But all of us enjoy ... yearn for ... wait impatiently for someone who loves to talk, cuddle, and wake up with. We want someone who truly wants to be with us, exactly the way we truly are. Being dependent on someone for love, passion, and deep friendship is very common. Most people hide it though.

You are far from being alone there ... Join the crowd!


sizedoes11 47M

3/21/2007 12:26 pm

 i can be your Italian lover im close by call me *********** Mario Ur Italian lover xoxooooooooooooox im close by i am staying at
a house in--- Paradise Island Dr. the housing development Haines City, Fl. 33844 call me and we can hook up soon ill send a face pic with i get to my other computer call Mario


breastman20 71M  
153 posts
8/29/2008 10:11 pm

 I hope that attention is still there for you..if not i would love to give it to you..


thefilthyone 50M
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8/25/2009 12:22 pm

 I think you gave some really good advise to some of us men to just keep an open eye!! I agree with you there and I think I'll keep more of an open eye also!!


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