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Reciprocating
Reciprocating Oh you're probably thinking I'm talking about oral sex my usual preoccupation. You go down on me....I go down on you. But, for a change I'm going to write about what's been on my mind a lot more lately. Expressing your feelings to someone and having them tell you what they're feeling in return....even if they aren't identical. And if you do care a lot and if you do miss someone and if someone means a lot to you and you've missed them.....say so. We all need to hear it. Especially if the other person has gotten up the courage to say it....it's not easy putting ourselves out there...making ourselves vulnerable....it's important that the effort is reciprocated. |
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Well put Love it!
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12/19/2010 5:25 pm |
Friendship...relationship....connection. I think women have the ability to 'connect'on a different level than men. Being Bi I have experienced both and have found 'intensity' in relationships with both sexes but there's something that can't quite be explained between two mature women. Bluette56
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8/25/2010 12:27 pm |
I'm holding back. Last year, I put myself out there and expressed my feelings, only to have my girl run away. I still think she felt the same way, but was just scared to admit it. I think if I had kept my mouth shut and just enjoyed our time together, things would have been different.
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TO make an expression of feelings is more frightening at first when you meet someone. It can be easier later, but how can you judge what the other persons response is. When I am surprised with an admonition, I am either quiet or agree without really thinking. Either can be a disaster when thinking about the other or yourself.
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No better way to learn about your 'love interest' than opening up and then listening carefully when they do the same.
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Its called the give and take of a relationship...not judging, but listening, not trying to solve or fix, but just listening and trying to understand. And if you determine that each has an agenda divergent from the other, then its time to say goodbye. And there are nice ways to do it, even if it hurts....
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7/29/2010 5:41 am |
love to chat with you sometime
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7/28/2010 9:48 pm |
recently I had a pretty bad breakup and we both called it quits even though we knew we should have worked it out. Now I make calls and they go unreturned. She says it is because it is too hard to hear my voice. I know we both have serious feelings for each other, but is hard to say what we are feeling. Sometimes we say it, and are both scared what the other will say. Man break ups are tough.
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