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that was my ex !!!
that was my ex !!! |
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I kind of lean toward Yes, I want to know, because if she tells me that she's fooled around with someone that pretty much gives me permission to do a bit of the same. But in some cases I might not want to know; sometimes that might just be icky to think about. In that case, I suppose I'd rather just not know who it was, just that it happened and that I have a pass for an equal amount of outside fun. But I don't actually think she'd fool around without permission anyway, and I wouldn't either.
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I tend to agree a little with discretesteve. Idf it was everyday people that you met it would be nice to ".know that they know" If it was that they had sex with her before hand that is ok but too the issue of her having had sex with one person while you were with her. At least in your mind you wont feel "out /indifferent" when dealing with them and you dont need to bring it up. They havent got something on you. And you should know.
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Yes....I don't like anyone thinking they're getting something over on me. I've been divorced for several years and all the women I get involved with can know anything and everything. No secrets. I play on occasion with several women now and they all know about the others. Some have played together. One is married to a friend and he's OK with it, but I must hear from him verbally that it's OK. No email, no text.
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Doctor oh hell yes free medical for life .
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Maybe? it would likely be on a case to case basis.
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one would like to know basically to avoid uncomfortable situations and remove the fear factor or possible blackmail
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i guess i want to know but deep down inside , i don't think i would want the answer.
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11/1/2017 3:22 pm |
i definitely want to know...i am 50% of the relationship...a third party cant be in partial control of my life or wife (woman)
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Absolutely, and you should do the same. I believe in full disclosure. I know that is contrary to most but openness and honesty keeps down most of the drama.
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I m not interested in that.. I am more interested in what i get..
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My last marriage was an 'open' marriage, and I was acquainted with most of her playmates over the 6 yrs we were married. She usually didnt no mine however, but new of them at least !
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