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My guide to hosting your own swinger's party
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My guide to hosting your own swinger's party Here is a sample party invitation: Please send us your fantasy, written down, with as much detail as possible. We will be choosing random fantasies and getting others to participate without the writer's knowledge. The more honest you are with your fantasy, the more everyone will enjoy it ! **** SEX GAMES**** 1) PLEASE RSVP AS SOON AS POSSIBLE: *** PLEASE READ ALL OF THIS !!!*** Please confirm that you have read, understood and agree with all of the following. We realize that it is lengthy - but there are many people who have not attended this sort of party before. There are many questions as to how this works - what the etiquette is - what the "rules" are. This should answer most of your questions but PLEASE do not hesitate or be embarrassed to ask if there is something we failed to cover. If you can not make it PLEASE let us know ASAP so that we can invite another to take your place. If we are expecting you and you don't show up - the Lady's will be left hanging. That just wouldn't be right now would it ? We realize this is new to many of the guests. Understandably many of you are nervous. Some of the guests have experience with this type of party - some don't. But even those with experience do remember what it was like the first time --- and there is a first time for everybody. So please don't get scared and "flake out" on us...You'll be suprized at what a great night this turns out to be and you will have a blast !!! If we do not hear back from you by (give a date) - we will give your space to another person. 2) We will be sending you a 'WISH LIST" as well as the limits for each woman attending. Just so you will have a basic idea going in what each woman wants, desires, likes and what she will or will not allow. If you have any wishes, desires or limits please let us know these as well ! 3) We will be sending out some food suggestions These types of parties sure work up an appetite ! Nobody wants to break and get dressed to go out grocery shopping because everybody is starving. If everyone brings some food to share ( and not just a bag of chips) we'll all be well nourished and have a high level of energy (grin) to allow us to go well into the night. Hot foods are usually really lacking at these kinds of parties - chicken, meatballs, potato wedges or any hot item from your local deli would be great ! Fruit, veggies, queso, chips, sweets, finger sandwiches and other assorted munchies will also be needed as well as paper plates, cups, napkins, plastic silverware, etc. Please don't feel as if you have to spend a lot of money. Most of these items can be obtained very cheap ! 4. People are responsible for bringing their own beverage. Whatever you like to drink. Soda, water, beer or wine. We realize that some people may need some liquid encouragement to unwind, relax and get ready to play but this is a sex party, not a drinking party. Only bring the amount of alcohol that you need to have. Any one who arrives obviously intoxicated or who gets that way during the course of the party will be asked to leave. 5) Please bring anything else that you may need. Condoms, lube, towels if you wish to shower before leaving, miscellaneous toys, extra pillow, toothbrush, etc. You are more than welcome to spend the night, or two. You may wish to bring an extra pillow or two, a few blankets, and a comfortable change of clothes for the ride home. 6) Date - Time - Location Date: ________________ Time: We will expect all guests to arrive between 7:00pm and 8:30pm. as we don't want to be suprised by and unexpected knock at the door. We will probably talk, eat and socialize for about an hour or so, and then get the play started around 8:30pm -- the play will last until we all give out, or approx dawn on the third day. The exact location will be disclosed in our final email invitation to you. 7) THIS IS A PRIVATE PARTY. A) PLEASE DO NOT MENTION OUR PLANS TO ANYONE - NO ONE - NONE OF YOUR FRIENDS - PLEASE DO NOT DISCUSS THIS !!! There is no need to draw any unwanted attention to our get-together. While the party location will tolerate a certain level of noise, please be considerate of the other guests. Do NOT race thorough the parking lot or neighborhoods with music blaring, etc. You may say that you are attending a "Birthday Party". DO NOT SAY THAT YOU ARE ATTENDING A SEX PARTY !!! No need to get the local PD suspicious. We want to have a long fun hot wild sexy night but we need to respect the local property and neighborhood. C) This is a PRIVATE party. Additional guests are NOT welcome - so please, do not bring anyone with you that we are not aware of as both you and them will be denied entry ! If you have any friends who are interested in also attending, that you can personally vouch for, please have them email us for more information. D) If we find that you have violated the secrecy of our event by revealing it's location or it's nature, you will be immediately banned from attending and your name, nickname, photo and email address will be publicly posted in EVERY club, board and e-group as having done so PARTY GUESTS : Some of the guests are Bi - and this is a Bi friendly event. Now this does not mean that you have to be Bi. ( "No" means "NO" !!!! ) Rest assured that no one will pressure anyone into anything - but everyone MUST be open minded and realize that this sort of play may be going on around them. I know some of the Ladies LOVE to play with each other. . We just ask that all guests be treated with respect. 9) The most important thing to remember is when at the party is that the LADIES will be respected AT ALL TIMES. They are indeed there to participate in a cum soaked sex party and are there because they want to be there and are fulfilling a fantasy or need but they are NOT there to be abused or disrespected. These women are friends, wives, girlfriends, lovers, sisters, daughters and mothers - treat them as such. 10) Each Lady will have her own wishes, desire and limits as to what they will or will not do. A brief summary of each will be sent to you before the party. Some will want and request to be fucked in every opening, to be licked, to suck you , some love cum all over them, to be double or triple penetrated, used roughly or softly, etc. Some will only want to do some or all of those things (such as only anal or oral only, etc). Each will be very clear about what they will or will not allow, and those LIMITS WILL BE HONORED AT ALL TIMES !!! 11) Some participants may be willing to so some things with some, but not with everyone - that's their choice, and not to be disputed. Do NOT try to talk into, or worse, force or just do, something that the participant is not willing to do. You will be immediately removed, and this removal will be unpleasant for you. When in doubt, simply ask and RESPECT the answer. 12) If a Lady is busy or engaged in play with another - please ask to join in: don't just push your way into the action. She will either ask you to join in or wait for a few - trust us - you will be taken care of ! When in doubt, ASK FIRST ! Above all, NO MEANS NO THE FIRST TIME ! 13) This is an intimate gathering where group dynamics and feelings can change very quickly. To insure that the guests are having a good time, it is assumed that if you are attending the party that you will participate sexually at the level you are comfortable doing. Not everyone has to fuck everyone. If you feel that participating is no longer right for you, then of course no one would feel insulted if you changed your mind and felt you would prefer to leave. 14) Condom use is NOT your choice. This is totally up to the ladies. If they say you wear one, then you wear one so bring them with you. And remember that a fresh condom is required for each new participant. No "double dipping" !!! 15) Not all participants will be into anal sex - but just as a reminder NO DOUBLE DIPPING ! please be sure to wash with soap and water before continuing with any play after enjoying anal sex ! 16) For some of the guests this is the first time they have ever done anything like this. They are nervous about it going well, about your behavior, etc. While ALL are also very enthusiastic about participating and are very aroused about it (to say the least (grin) they still have some worries and doubts. If we all make SURE that is goes well, that all respect is shown and that the proper behavior and decorum is shown both to the guests and the property we all ensure that everyone has a great time then we know that this will not be the last time we can do this, but rather this will be just the beginning of many fun parties ! 17) There will be a total of 5 rooms available for play. Doors to all rooms will remain closed at all times, unless someone is entering or exiting. Room # 1 will be "HE'S THE BOSS" Room #2 "SHE'S THE BOSS", Room # 3 is the main (free for all) room, Room # 4 " Newbies ONLY ". Room # 5 To be announced later. Each room will be labeled. Everyone will be given a pen and paper, to write down their interests and then put on a blindfold. This is your ONE chance at anonymity !!!!!!! While EVERYONE is blindfolded, the host will come around, take your paper, and deliver you to the room of your choice. Some people are curious, or know that this is exactly what they want, they just don't want their partner to know of their fantasy/interests. This is your chance to get what you really want !!!! 1 Both rooms, "He's the boss, and She's the boss, will have one single person in charge(for each room) of everyone's safety. This person will not drink, or take part in the play of this room, unless another person is appointed the job by the HOSTESS. This person will remain fully clothed throughout the event. There are other things to consider.. You may want to make participation mandatory for entry into the "He's the boss, and She's the boss" rooms. Suppose you and your partner want to go into the dom room. Maybe you've never discussed this with your partner. At first everyone is blind folded so no one knows which particular room their playmate went into. If you both end up in the same dom room......... it will be something to share....... not only at the party, but shared later after they go home...... rather than one person having hurt feelings because they found out "by accident" ...just looking......... verses, they BOTH have the same desires and for whatever reason...... 19) You may not enter and leave rooms 1 and 2 repeatedly, for the sake of just watching. You may enter any room ONCE. The second time you enter, you will participate. Remember, that rooms 1 and 2 will have a "Master at Arms". Someone who is not drinking or playing. Their sole job is to manage all that goes on in the room, who enters, who leaves, and who returns. 20) Everyone gets a safe word. Please do not think that you do not need it. Not only for safety's sake, it is also to be used to put an IMMEDIATE hold on the situation for whatever reason. Whether it be due to extreme muscle cramp, whatever. The safe word is " REDLIGHT " Do not use it unless it is needed, do not say it in casual conversation. This is strickly reserved for it's intended use. Please be aware of anyone saying this word. If this word is said, EVERYTHING in the room STOPS IMMEDIATELY !! No questions asked, NO HESITATION. If you do not comply, you will be escorted out. This is not to say that things can't resume after the situation is assessed. It could be a real emergency. 21) A curtain will cover the main entrance of the hall that leads to rooms 1, 2 and 3 so that the people in main room, do not see which room you were in as you re-enter the main room. Again, all doors will be kept closed at all times 22) Some of the people attending the party are Bi. If you are totally straight, not negotiable, not curious, 100% forget it.... then guys, please wear a blue ribbon around your wrist, and ladies, please wear a red ribbon around your wrist so that everyone knows what your limits are. If you do not wear the ribbon, it is understood, that you are Bi. LADIES : If you are bi-curious, and would possibly consider allowing another woman touch you.... then please wear a pink ribbon. Please do not feel that "returning the favor" is expected. It is not. This party is intended to be fun, and a great way to relax and relieve some stress, not create it. If at anytime you feel too uncomfortable with the situation, please say "redlight". Please post any suggestions you have for these rules, any additions, omissions or any questions... |
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3/6/2013 2:29 am |
sounds like you through a real good party
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