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Blogs > whoisagentj > The Dossier of Agent J

Wow, ok, so some of you hate my guts! LOL!  

whoisagentj 54M
661 posts
11/10/2017 7:07 pm

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11/11/2017 6:43 pm
Wow, ok, so some of you hate my guts! LOL!

Let me start this with a recap of the last blog...

First, I'm a human being. Human beings make mistakes. That's everyone. There's only one human being I know without sin, and he died for our sins and they put him on a cross.

With that said...could I have handled the situation better? Yes. In hindsight, I could have been more understanding and nicer. HOWEVER...with that said, the amount of people defending the man who rudely propositioned me for a blowjob without introducing himself first in crazy and full of double standards. If I had done that to a woman and blog posted about it, I would have been roasted alive by you blog readers. So if that is the case, why is it different that he should not be held by the same standards? That's just it...he should. And so should everyone else.

The issue isn't me being homophobic. Which I'm not in the least. If you think I'm homophobic, when my nephew came out as gay to his family, I supported him and his gay friends. I helped welcome him at our house at Christmas when his dad first shunned him and I counselled his father to where they are both on speaking terms. It's not been easy for both of them, but my nephew is welcome in our home with open arms. When I was younger, it was the gay night<b> clubs </font></b>that gave me my first break when I was a young DJ when other<b> clubs </font></b>wouldn't give me any breaks. To this day I have many gay friends, hung out with them, had dinner with them, been to parties with them. So if you think I'm homophobic...you're an idiot.

In fact, when I lashed out at this gay man for being rude to me, I treated him as I would have treated a woman if she had done the same thing to me. I do not tolerate people being rude in any fashion. Have some common sense and dignity and be polite when you talk to me first. After we have gotten to know each other and developed a relationship, then you can ask to suck my dick. LOL! I can't believe I have to even say this.

Finally, I've had to ban two people from my blog because of the last blog post. And one of those people decided to send me a private message telling me that I am a terrible person, and that I deserve to be lonely and that I deserve to die alone and fuck off. So I had to ban that person completely from even messaging me. I will not tolerate being disrespected, insulted, or attacked and assume that I am a homophobic asshole, when in fact, it is an absolute fallacy. and if you attack me, I will attack back as I will not stand to be attacked.

Look, everyone can learn new things. Everyone can make mistakes and learn from them. That is what life is, it's about making mistakes and learning from them, becoming better, and educating your and the younger generations to become BETTER than you were.

But I try to live my life in a manner that I will be give respect to those that treat me with respect. When you start off a conversation in a rude manner, it's hard to be the better man. It's hard to compose yourself with understanding, especially when you feel disrespected. It's not easy. Everyone will react differently. All I can do is chalk this up to life experience, learn from it, and move on so that the next time, if there is a next time this happens, is to do the right thing and act accordingly.

Are we clear? I hope this ends this matter. But if some of you persist in attacking me further, you will be reported for harassment.

End of discussion.
Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...

Agent


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/10/2017 11:49 pm

 It'll definitely be in next years sexual harassment
training package.This year we were introduced to stan only he
likes to be called stacy now.

Ya, you still have a few years left. It was definitely better
to cave.Now almost thirteen out of every twenty men here
are doormats.
Using more than all the road!


whoisagentj replies on 11/11/2017 1:47 pm:
Sorry, I'm no one's doormat. I was married for 7 years to a woman who wanted me to be a doormat, we divorced because I had enough of that with the lying to each other. Sorry never again. But hey, if 13 out of 20 guys want to be doormats, let them. Just that I'm not going to be one of them.

classicalrebel4 68M
1755 posts
11/10/2017 7:30 pm

 Some people just don't understand.
Please don't let me be misunderstood.


whoisagentj replies on 11/10/2017 9:15 pm:
Well classical, in my first original post, I wasn't 100 percent clear as to how I felt. Add to it my profile wasn't fully clarified that I am not into men. I have since updated that. So I can at least see both sides of the situation. If this person did view my profile while staying hidden, which I doubt, but it's possible, then I could partially be in the wrong, which I admit freely. And I could have been nicer. BUT, ultimately, I still view him in the wrong for just rudely messaging me like that.

I admit, it was a learning experience. But like you said, some people just don't understand. And then add to it, others wanted to vilify me as the bad guy for jumping on a homosexual man, taking for granted that I might have been homophobic, which I'm not. It was a hot mess to begin with, or as I like to put it...FUBAR.

whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
11/10/2017 7:08 pm

 I hope this ends this matter once and for all.
Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...

Agent


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