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What a crazy weekend!
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What a crazy weekend! I'm back! I needed a couple of days away from the site and from everything as I was getting a bit tired. And I'm glad I had the extra day off, as I was able to use it to take it easy with my . So...Friday...I got home and I did a ton of house cleaning and outdoor work, getting the outside front and back yard mowed for the weekend. The back yard was a muddy mess, but I had to get that grass done as it was like a jungle back there as the grass was about a foot long. It took a while but I got it sort of back to shape. Saturday was...sort of a good day. I did some food<b> shopping </font></b>for Memorial day and we got my dad's car detailed and cleaned up on the inside as it was a mess. And I was able to squeeze in a well needed massage to help me relax and take it easy! I also did respond to a couple of messages here, and as of now, I'm talking to a couple of people here as possible prospects for a relationship. For now, while I'm talking to people here, a couple of the people gave me either TALK NOW or Google numbers where they are strictly just texting me, in order to feel me out, I guess. I don't know if stuff will pan out between us, because I'd rather meet in person than talk over text. I hate texting. But for now I'm playing their games, because lets face it, if they were truthful and serious about meeting me, they would have given me their real number and I would have set up a meet with them already. I also got a message from the woman who stood me up that one Sunday. She claimed she's been busy for over two weeks solid and that she's a workaholic with a crazy schedule, thus that's the reason why she's been busy. And that when I last messaged her about giving her a "second chance", she didn't like the wording that I was giving her a second chance, but rather she was giving ME a second chance. WTF? And that she was made to feel that I was coming down on her because she failed to show up and that my wording of me giving her a second chance made her feel inferior for some reason. Which wasn't the case at all. I tried to explain it to her that why she feels that I was coming down on her for failing to show up that I wasn't trying to beat her up over her not showing. And she apologized for it in a previous message to me, and that I did in truth try to give her a second chance, because I feel everyone does deserve a second chance. But it's been over two weeks since her last message to me. If she was at least sincere about working out a meeting between us, she would have made time out of her busy schedule to contact me and she could have just take two minutes out of her time to say, "Hey, things are a busy right now. I do want us to get together and see each other, but I promise to get in touch with you soon to set up another meeting." However, she didn't. And...I know she's been here on the site during the two weeks she "CLAIMS" to have been busy. So I messaged her back, told her how I felt and left it to where she needs to tell me if she wants to continue going forward or just this whole thing a wash and leave it at that and the both of us to move on in different paths. And she hasn't replied back....again. Which is why I'm talking to others as well because frankly, I can't be bothered with her trying to guilt me into feeling that I was the one that stood her up, when I didn't or that I'm making her feel like bad because I'm giving her a second chance. I told her a second chance is wiping the slate clean and starting over. But for some reason, she feels I'm making it out that she's a fault. And to be truthful, it is her fault. But at the same time, it's also my fault for not getting more info from her about the meet and getting her number to contact her. Being an adult means taking responsibility for your actions. If I can be a man and say I made a mistake not getting more info and not getting her number, then that's me owning up for my part of the mistake. But her claiming that she was too busy...that's a lame excuse, when I know I've seen her on this website in the past two weeks. If you had time to be here, you had time to take 2-3 minutes out of your life to message me and say "Hey I'm busy right now, but I am still interested, etc..." She didn't even have the time to do that. Monday was a good day, because I had my over at my house with my mom and dad. It was a good afternoon at first, as we grilled some hot dogs and hamburgers around noon, sat outside for a bit, and relaxed. Until...the rains came. HOLY mackerel, we had a tornado headed our way as the sirens went off. We gathered everything from outside, put it away, and then hunkered down inside the basement with the TV on. Luckily the tornado funnel clouds skirted a bit north of us, and we missed it by a few miles but those rains were crazy! We must have gotten at least 3+ inches of rain and the sewers were all clogged up with helicopter petals from oak trees so streets were flooded. But we still had plenty of food inside and we reheated it, and watched movies in the downstairs family room. For all of the storms we had, it was still a nice day. I then got the back to their house in the 2nd wave of the rain storms, I got soaked, and had to drive back home wet. I got back home, ripped off all of the wet clothes, took a warm shower to warm up, dry off and went back downstairs to relax with my folks and watch some more war movies with my dad. All in all, this weekend was good, as I got some stuff done and was able to at least relax and take it easy. It wasn't a perfect weekend, but I feel rested, and my mind is a lot more clearer than last week. Hopefully because this week is short, it won't be that bad. And I can hope things are on the rise for me. Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent  |
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Let me add an update to this at this time: This is the most recent message I've sent this person: Well, after some time and some further introspection on this, and without being mean on this, I think you've pretty much made your point that you are too busy, and that you actions have shown that you are not either ready or willing to meet. I wanted to give you and I a second chance. I sent my recent message to see if you would be willing to talk. It's been over 36 hours, and you haven't bothered to call me, text me, or even message me back. I get that you are busy. But for your excuses, for the two weeks you didn't contact me, I saw you here on the website multiple times. So yeah, you had the time to contact me, and you couldn't even send a message to me to say "Hey, I'm really busy, but I do want to meet you, so please be patient." But you didn't, which means I was an afterthought for you. And that's fine. You have your own life to lead, and I understand life is busy and it's messy and things happen. But I don't want to be an afterthought. And I didn't want to treat you like an afterthought either. But I am not the 'break glass in case of being lonely" type of guy, in which you message me, and I come a running. I want to be someone's first thought, not an afterthought. I deserve that. Just like you do as well. I do think you have a lot to learn about people and I do think while it's ok to be selfish and take care of yourself first, you need to learn about not playing with other people's feelings and emotions and stringing them along. I don't hate you. I'm not mad at you. I'm just...disappointed that you didn't want to meet and you squandered your chances. I wish you the best. You said you don't want to be treated like I'm giving you a second chance. Well, I gave you those chances and you decided not to take it. You've made yourself clear. I'm done. Get read receipt 5/28/2019 3:14 pm Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent
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5/28/2019 10:24 am |
such a long weekend indeed. But a great one!
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If this thing with her is this bumbled this early in your interaction, pretty sure it will be a mess into it. She sounds difficult. Red flag. RUN. Keep running. If you fall down, get up and keep running. My opinion. But then, she may be your soulmate. 🤷♀️
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5/28/2019 8:49 am |
Glad you're having fun with this site. I still undecided but at least your blog gives me an opportunity to get some points.
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5/28/2019 8:12 am |
I am not sure how i would have responded to that woman if it were my situation..I think some people sense when we are vunerable and just go out of their way to make things more complicated , maybe their lives are ,more complicated than we realize .Now on a second note I dont believe in giving someone any second chance when they have " ghosted " me for that long.I am a nice person and dont deserve that and call me " can" everyone gets a kick at the can better make it a good kick unless its a real legit excuse for standing me up..There is nice and then there is not nice...respect for any person is key to what that person will repeatedly do throughout any friendship or relationship....habits and spots are hard to change into something else resembling respect for another human being who is trying hard to create something pleasurable in their lives thats been in turmoil for as long as yours and mine has been...I lost my husband and only daughter 8 months apart and a bad accident all within 14 months ..I think those that misused my good nature to make me feel used dont deserve my respect either..keep on though dont give up or in you deserve better ...i keep telling myself that and truly believe someone will come into my life at a good point and treat me as i need to be treated and respected...smile , even if its the worst day ever.
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Ok, I thought you wanted a second chance here. I gave you my number, and then you've dropped of the face of the Earth. What happened? 5/22/2019 6:39 pm I am not super active, I work crazy and been a workaholic, with that said, I am not very comfortable with your choice of words, Second chance, hell Yeah even you are getting one and you seem to take high grounds. Id never want to be with someone who makes feel like a"second chance" Id rather be with someone who feels taking that one chance is worthy. it's about how happy you make others feel Like I loved your blogs, the way you appreciated mine, the way you were upset when things didn't work as we thought. but what I didnt like is the way you are making feel about second chances despite sending an apology/ explanation. With that said, you admonished me publicly on my blogs, people do read em. I ain't offended but just telling you that youre getting a second chance despite being opinionated, judgemental and rude. Id rather be friendless, sexless than be treated like this. I am worth what I am and absolutely real. 5/26/2019 6:10 pm OK, I want to be clear here. I was upset our meet didn't happen. To be blunt, yes you are getting a second chance. At the same time....so am I. Now, I understand, you are "super busy". But to go from where I gave you my information on the 11th, over two weeks ago and it's now the 26th. Am I disappointed it's taking over two weeks for you to contact me, and you're now responding? Yes, yes I am. I get you have a life to life. I do to. But I gave you my number. Yes, that's my real cell phone number. I'm opening myself to you...to trust you with that number. I would have thought that you would have at least contacted me, texted me to say, "Hey, I'm sorry I've been really busy, but I still do want to see you and that while things are crazy now, I do sincerely want us to talk and meet." If you had sent that to me, I would have been totally cool. But not once did you even take 2 minutes to write me here or text me at my number. So then I ask "Are you ok?" and there's no response. So my concern turned to frustration. I don't give out my number lightly. Now I have said that you haven't reached out to me. But not once have I mentioned your name, because I don't like to out people to attack them. All I ever wanted was to meet you, get to know you and see if we could see if a relationship is possible. Now, am I opinionated, judgemental and rude? I'll admit it, yes, yes I am sometimes, and I've stated that in my blog. I'm not perfect. No one is. I've made a lot of mistakes in my time, and I'll make a million more. But the thing is...when I make a mistake, I owe up to it. Like a man should. So once again, my intent was not to make you fee like a "second chance". My concern is indeed genuine when I wanted to meet you. At the same time...if you were concerned about me, you would have taken the time to message me here or text me, but you haven't. You tell me that you'd rather be friendless and sexless than be treated like this. Yet what about my consideration or my feelings? If you were concerned about that, you would have contacted me sooner. You point the finger at me, yet you do not acknowledge your blame or fault in this. Look, I'm not trying to attack you or make you feel bad. I too would rather be sexless and not have friends than being treated as someone where I feel like I'm guy that "you can break the glass in case of an emergency of being lonely" or someone where "I'm an afterthought" with you You want to point the finger at me and make me the bad guy in this, and to be blunt, I'm not going to take the blame for that. You wanted a second chance, I wanted to give it to you and at the same time, I wanted a second chance with you as well, because let's face it I find you are an intelligent person which I want the opportunity to get to know. We both wanted a second chance, but I gave you over two weeks and you haven't contacted me until today, because "you were super busy". Let's do this... Do you want to wipe the slate clean here or would you rather not move forward anymore? I ask this because I want to know how you feel. If you feel you don't want to move forward, I'll accept that and move on and that's that. However, if you do want to move forward, text me or call me tonight and we'll talk. Fair? That's word for word of our conversation. And she hasn't called me, texted me, or messaged me here. I suppose she's too busy... Who can you call on to save the day? Why none other than... Agent
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