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Let me tell you a little about the group fun....
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Let me tell you a little about the group fun.... This is being posted to provide information to a woman or couple who would like to know more about who we are and how we play sexually. We are real people and play often. This is not a titillating sexy email (hopefully that's the next step if this information provided allows you to feel comfortable playing with strangers) but is more about letting you know who we are and how we play. Its purpose is to hopefully help you feel comfortable/safe with us and how we play. Then we can work out the fun exciting parts of the group fun. I'm a retired HWP single man in my 60's who is sexually active with a variety of sexual interests and turn-on's. It all started with me and an older (late 60’s) female friend (FW  of mine named Sandy back in 2007. We decided we wanted to enlarge our sexual fun to include others. We did this for almost 2 years before Sandy gave it up (by then she was in her early 70’s and it was too much for her physically). We had quite a few threesomes (mfm) and a couple of swaps with other couples. The first guy (Rob) to join us for a threesome proved to be so much fun and so compatible that he continued on a repeat basis for as long as she was playing. Sandy also enjoyed Rob so much that at times they would see each other for a one on one. Sandy and I continued to invite other new men to join us and all the threesomes were fun but some more so than others. Sandy and I didn’t have an exclusive relationship and another lady friend I was seeing at the time heard from me about my threesome fun with Sandy. She wanted to experience it herself. I invited Rob to join me with this other woman and it was equally as much hot fun. Over a period of time the number of women who wanted to experience this type of fun enlarged. Rob was married (playing on the down low) and couldn’t always join me when I had a woman that wanted to experience a threesome so when he wasn’t available I invited another guy who had joined me with Sandy and had proven to be a lot of fun. Over a period of time the group of men that wanted to be invited continued to grow larger. Sandy was always happy just experiencing 2 men at once but a couple of the other women thought if 2 men are this much fun how much fun would 3, 4 or 5 men be? Due to this I needed to enlarge the number of men that wanted to be invited. In the over 9 years that this has been developing, the group of men who have joined me sharing a woman has enlarged to over 50. That’s not as large a number as it seems because most of the men are married or in a relationship (with their playing having to be done discreetly) and have career responsibilities. It is very difficult to schedule/coordinate numerous people to meet at a particular day/time (which is determined by the woman/couple's availability) when it has to be done discreetly. In other words if I invite all 50 I’m lucky to get 3 to 5 who are both interested and available. Some of the women we have shared, who continue to play on a regular basis, are bi-sexual and interested in joining us with other women or couples. My circle of friends, is a group of sane, sober, clean, disease free, horny male buddies/acquaintances of mine who get together with me to share horny open minded women friends of mine, a woman who has come with a buddy/acquaintance, or a woman or couple (female-male) who discovered us from my profile on an adult site. We get together for 1 1/2 to 3 hours of hot sex. The length of time we play is usually determined by the size of the group (the more people who are playing the longer it lasts) and how energetic and insatiable the woman/women are who are playing. It is not a party situation of heavy drinking and rowdy behavior. It can be mild to wild sexually but never includes pain, force, or bathroom sports. We are all about having a hot sexy fun time with everyone leaving but wanting to come back again. It must work, as most of the local women/couples who played with us wanted to come back at the very least on an occasional basis where as some women/couples have liked it so much that they wanted it to continue it on a regular basis. When we have a woman or couple who have decided they would like to play, I try to find out what specifically the woman/couple enjoy sexually and more importantly what they don’t enjoy and communicate that to the attending members of the "Health Club" (that’s what we call our group) and we honor all limits that the woman/couple may have or if we can’t live with the limits she/they have, we don’t invite them to join us. Here are a couple examples of what I’m talking about….if the woman doesn’t do anal, I make sure the guys know and that they not only honor the wish but also don’t push the issue. Another example is a woman swallowing cum, if the woman doesn't swallow I make sure the guys know and they don't cum in her mouth but I need to know where she does enjoy them Cumming. This requires several emails back and forth to develope this information but it's worth the effort/time. Even though a lot of the women we have shared have been submissive, we are a group of men who are not only into using the woman sexually but also into pleasing & satisfying the woman completely before we cum. We enjoy a woman who enjoys acting and being treated aa slut in private and a lady in public. To me "Slut" is an endearing term as it's a woman who knows what she likes, wants, craves, and fantasizes about having happen and is not afraid to let it be known and acted upon. With this being the case our language and actions can be both graphic and controlling (if a woman enjoys this type of sexual role playing), yet we always treat our guests with complete respect, as the slut play is just a form of sexual role playing. One of the many protocols I have for the men joining me to share a woman, women, and couples is that they don't contact the women or couples away from the "Health Club" as we don't want the women/couples to feel any pressure what so ever. If a woman/couple has already played with a man and he then contacts her wanting to play away from the "Health Club" that's pressure. If the woman/couple would like to see one of the members away from the "Health Club" that's fine but it is the woman/couple who make that decision and is the one to initiate the contact or they will let me know that they are interested and I put them in touch with each other. Another protocol for the men is that all male members are required to wear a condom for penetration (except between couples that come together or if they've had a prior sexual relationship that did not include condoms) or provide results to me from a very recent (within 60 days) complete STD test/work-up showing they are disease free. It’s a reflection on my age but I hate wearing a condom and due to this have a complete test every 6 to 8 weeks so that my partners can feel comfortable with me having penetration without a condom and that's the frequency I require of the guys who want to have unprotected sex. We've entertained a few women/couples who preferred bareback and I shared that information with the group but it was still the individual man's decision to make. We are normal looking guys and not members of the beautiful people. We are not card carrying members of the lifestyle. We are not experienced sexual athletes or professional porn stars but do enjoy many forms of hot sex. The male members range in age from in their late 20’s to in their 60’s. I am in my 60’s so there is always an older member attending. Most of the men are in their 40's & 50's. Most of the guys have cut cocks but a few don’t. Many have shaved pubic areas but some don't. Presently most of the men are white or Latino. In most cases you’re talking about an average size or a little above average size cock. If you are a size queen and are only interested in very large cocks we aren't the group for you. Most of the men are married or in a relationship and playing without their partners knowledge. These are not married guys who are out whoring around; they don’t want this play to cause problems in their marriages/relationships and behave accordingly. They each have their own reasons for wanting to play. This is a problem for some women & couples so I want you to know up front. Some of the men find it easier to play during the day (mostly weekdays). They find it easier to sneak away from work for several hours of sexual fun during the day than to sneak away from their family responsibilities at night or on the weekends. The day meetings are usually in the early afternoon Monday through Saturday. We also have some sessions at night (which are early evening) to accommodate the people who can’t get away during the day. This has become more prevalent as we’ve entertained more couples. With most of the guys being married or in a relationship and not being able to entertain at their place 99% of our sessions have taken place at my townhouse in Coconut Creek, FL 33066. Like the other people who attend, I have a life that does not revolve around the "Health Club" and enjoy one on one sex a lot more often than I enjoy group sex. There is usually at least one session a week but at times there might be several in a week. We do not have a specific day or evening where we meet and it’s not an open house for people to come and go. Each session is built around a woman, women, or a couple and their availability, desires, and limitations. It's not the typical lifestyle house party where couples & singles attend, have drinks/wine & appetizers, socialize/mingle, and pair up for the party or for in the future. Our fun is already planned and we usually start the fun quickly. So if you want to sit around and get to know everyone before taking off your clothes and having fun, we aren't the group for you. The women we’ve played with have ranged in age from their early 20’s to early 70’s; they’ve ranged from younger, very attractive, & shapely to older, average, & larger sized women and anywhere in-between. Like the men, the women in many cases are more real looking people than beautiful people. Most of the single women I’ve known/shared by inviting to the health club in the past have tended to be submissive. They also enjoy being treated and acting like a slut in private (as a form of role playing and not a lifestyle) and a lady in public. This happens frequently as it is one type of woman that really appeals to me sexually and it’s a natural progression from my one on one role playing with this type of woman to fantasize about additional men helping out and then turn it into reality by inviting another man or men to join us. It is not required or expected for the woman to be submissive; it has just worked out that way. In my dictionary, slut is an endearing term. In my definition it's a woman who loves sex and is not afraid to let her desires, needs, and fantasies show & be known. Some women don't enjoy being called a slut but enjoy letting loose and acting like one and with that being the case we refrain from the name calling. We have entertained/shared quite a few couples in many different scenarios. We’ve had couples join us where the male partner just watched or took photos/video, where the male joined in and played also (completely straight), or where the male played the role of a cuckold husband/boyfriend. We've also entertained couples where the male was orally Bi and at times we can create a situation where he can indulge this side of his sexuality while we play with his wife. We're comfortable with any of those scenarios. The couples have ranged in age from in their early 20’s to late 70’s. Many of the women in the couples have been Bi-Sexual where as that hasn’t always been the case with the single women that joined us to be shared by multiple men. At times they enjoy having another woman playing but they also at times only want men. Many of the couples we have shared have been from out of town. This makes sense as this side of woman/couples sexuality is not something they want their family, friends, neighbors, or peers knowing about. They won't run into any men who shared them at the Health Club while shopping at Publix with family or friends or have to interact with us in their professional careers. At the beginning, most of our sessions were one woman and two or more men. The majority have been threesomes or foursomes (mfm & mmfm) but there have also been some larger groups and this size/type of fun continues on a frequent basis. There has also been a few times where two or three single women joined us at the same time but even so there were still more men than women. Having couples join us to play is a fairly recent phenomenon and is increasing in frequency. There have been a couple of times where we had two couples and several single men. Having two couples attend or two single women playing in some cases accommodated the women’s desire for men and women. We also at times have let a woman/couple we were interested in having join us come observe a session to determine if our group fun is for them. We would not try and accommodate this request until after we have communicated enough that we feel compatible sexually if they are comfortable with the situation. It would have to be a session with a woman/couple who doesn't mind if there is an observer (not everyone wants an observer as they feel they are being judged). We also wouldn't want someone sitting around fully clothed watching, it would have to be someone comfortable enough with their body and sexuality to at least partially disrobe and play with themselves while they watch. Sometimes this has proved to be difficult to accomplish as the woman/couple who is playing sets the time/day/evening for the session and it might not be convenient for the woman/couple wanting to observe. We also at times have been able to fulfill a specific fantasy a woman or couple may have considered/desired for quite some time. Several of these fantasies have proven to be many people's unfulfilled fantasies such as the woman wanting to be the center of attention of multiple men, a "Gang Bang", or a woman wanting to be restrained, blindfolded, and used by strangers. In this last fantasy even though the woman is restrained we are not into pain or bathroom sports, and we still honor any limits the woman/couple may have. Some of the guys who join us in our group fun are orally Bi, some are Bi friendly (enjoy receiving oral from another man but don’t reciprocate), and a few are completely straight but not homophobic. It’s just oral play, no kissing or fucking between the men. Some women/couples are really turned on by this type of play, some only tolerate it, and some are completely turned off by it. The woman or couple’s desire determines whether this type of activity is a part of our sexual fun. If they love it we encourage it, if they only tolerate we don’t encourage it to happen (unless there are more men than the woman can handle) and if they are completely turned off by it we do not include it in the fun. Most of our group fun is completely straight but it is a possibility with some of the guys, if the woman/couple want it to happen. I personally don’t suck cock but I do enjoy receiving oral from women and men. In my opinion this works great in our type of group sexual fun where there are more men than women. We truly share the woman, not just take turns (as the guys are not homophobic about contact between themselves). If it’s a large group (more men that can be playing with the woman at one time) such as a small gang bang then it is a nice addition to the fun. We take pictures of our sexual fun and afterwards I go in and crop/edit/block out the faces and any distinguishing tattoos (if requested). The pictures are for the participant’s enjoyment, used to entice new women/couples, and to show the members who were unavailable to attend. We all have separate lives that don’t revolve around these sessions so we are very discreet with the pictures. If the woman/couple feels uncomfortable with their pictures being taken (and we really want to play with them) we will not take pictures at their request which is not the case with men wanting to join us. I’m a polite smoker of cigarettes and weed/grass and hope that’s not a problem for you. If that is a deal killer I understand but if it’s just a small problem I’ll smoke in another room. A few members smoke cigarettes but more than a few do join me smoking some weed while playing. I provide the place (we play in my living room), bottle water, lube, hand towels, condoms (unless the male needs a magnum sized condom, then he needs to bring his own), toys, restraints/blindfolds, sex swing, and make my shower available before and/or after the session if needed or desired. There is very little drinking that is going on, in fact except for a few women needing a couple of glasses of wine for courage there is almost none. I’m not interested in dealing with men who have been drinking. Over the last nine years I’ve hosted quite a few of these group activities and to help defer my hosting/supply costs, I expect each of the males attending (including the male of a couple) to leave a of $25 for each session. After reading this let me know what you think and if you are interested in going forward I’ll need pictures (if you haven’t already provided) that show your face and body shape (G rated is fine). I also need to know specifically what you enjoy sexually and more importantly what you don't enjoy. I would also like to know what type of group fun interests you (the number of men or women, the sexual orientation of the men & women, the type of situation you would like to have happen, & any unfulfilled fantasy you may have that interests you). I also need to know your availability to play, such as only at night or weekends or if you are available to play during the day. Or if you are from out of town, snow bird, or visiting would need to know the same type of information about your availability. I would also like to do this communication via regular email so please provide me with an email address. We prefer local people who are interested in playing & repeating the experience either on a regular or occasional basis. But we have also discovered that some women/couples from out of town fit this criterion also. They will schedule and drive from Florida's West Coast or Central Florida to fulfill their desires for group sex. This makes sense, as many of these sessions turn out to be small gang bangs and by it happening out of town they don't run into men they have fucked when with family and friends at Publix. We also have enjoyed quite a few Snow Bird couples where South Florida is their vacation home during the winter and they won't run into family and friends with us either. We are not a perfect match for everyone and many times we haven't been able to accommodate the woman or couples wishes/requests.       |
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Sexy Blog and you have hot...sexy party's!!
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Good morning, we were looking on here this morning and we (she) expressed an interest in another mini G B. we read your most recent blog post and it seemed to us you and your friends may be right for this. we have had many MFM and few more sums (mmmm was the max) we are not in any way cuck but I love to see her enjoy herself. I have joined at times, mostly when things slowed and I thought she was not "busy enough" I will tell you about Michelles limits. no anal and no other ladies involved. she loves bareback but will forgo that for safety. her rule is not too young 50 is about the limit, and cock size is not an issue, she is not a size queen. we are semi retired and do a lot of volunteer work in the bay area and that is why this inquire. if we may be of interest I will send pics to you via e-mail. and answer an questions you may have. M & M
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1/17/2016 9:49 am |
Searching, Sounds like fun, let's make it happen, I've written you
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1/17/2016 9:48 am |
Leegs Thanks for your appreciation and you're right I'm not looking for guys unless they are local, want to play often, can play during the day or evening, and have the freedom to do so
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You have a very exciting group!! If I lived closer..and if you would have me....I would love to party with you!!!! It looks like a fun time!!!
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Good morning, we were looking on here this morning and we (she) expressed an interest in another mini G B. we read your most recent blog post and it seemed to us you and your friends may be right for this. we have had many MFM and few more sums (mmmm was the max) we are not in any way cuck but I love to see her enjoy herself. I have joined at times, mostly when things slowed and I thought she was not "busy enough" I will tell you about Michelles limits. no anal and no other ladies involved. she loves bareback but will forgo that for safety. her rule is not too young 50 is about the limit, and cock size is not an issue, she is not a size queen. we are semi retired and do a lot of volunteer work in the bay area and that is why this inquire. if we may be of interest I will send pics to you via e-mail. and answer an questions you may have. M & M
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hey . . . . . . . . at my age .. . .. . wish I have the energy and time it took to write this short message . . . . . . . I could have service the women in my suburb by now
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