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So true! I met lots of woman on AdultFriendFinder who tell me this is one of their reasons for their search for FWB's! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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Through my eyes, it's all about perspective. Initially after my divorce a few yrs back, a married girl was perfect... built in limits, emotionally neutral and something that wasn't going to get out of hand. Whatever time we had, we had. I'm a people watcher. And an analyst at work. And I swing as a single guy. I often see things "differently". After a bunch of chatting and a few meets (a couple even lasted over 2 years, even with the limitations), this is what I learned: Bring your AAA game. ALWAYS!!!! If hubby becomes a slacker, there'll be a line around the corner just waiting for a shot. I've explained to friends, I'm not the cause of a bad marriage- the cause started under their roof and long before I was around. And, if I wasn't there, someone else would be. Someday, I'll wind up in something long term. That's when all of my AF F experiences matter: She'll never ever have a reason to wander (I like to share too much LOL ). AAA games take work. And communication. There is no room for becoming lazy. Family, then Friends, then Work... with those priorities in order and always putting effort into them, things are way simpler. Work people That's my 2 cents. Maybe a nickel's worth this time? ~Lotsa
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