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Anticipation
Anticipation Today’s date brought back a very special memory of a first meeting. Still as real as the day it happened are the memories of this overwhelming feeling of anticipation that is captured in the Carly Simon song of the name, a snippet of which is: And I tell you how easy it feels to be with you And how right your arms feel around me But I, I rehearsed those lines just late last night When I was thinkin' about how right tonight might be Anticipation, anticipation Is makin' me late Is keepin' me waitin' What a powerful and amazing role anticipation can play in life but especially when it involves the pleasures of the flesh. That light headed surreal feeling which accompanies a mind completely lost in thoughts of what tonight might be. A quickening heartbeat and other physical signs of arousal that appear even though you are miles apart. Concentration becomes difficult as your mind is already where your body longs to be. Anticipation can be an amazing form of foreplay when it is shared. Informal communications or gestures that capture your excitement days in advance that grow in frequency and intensity as the hour you will meet approaches. Is there a more intoxicating form of arousal than knowing that your partner is overwhelmed constantly by just the thought of holding you, sharing you, becoming part of you. And on those nights where you both know where the night might will lead after the dinner and the dancing, the anticipation can be electrifying as it accompanies every smile, every casual touch, the warmth flowing from body to body. Many years ago at a restaurant bar waiting for our table, my partner excused herself for a few minutes. While she was gone, the bartender leaned towards me and said the he had waited his whole life to have a woman look at him the way my companion looked at me. He was kind enough at my request to share that with her when she returned. How amazing when in a room full of people, you can totally get lost in the the anticipation which accompanies every adoring gaze, the nervous energy that slightly alters your speech, the subconscious impulse that has you constantly stirring your drink. Fueled further by the energy of a playful touch, a wink, a discrete exposure, or a softly whispered desire. Perhaps the greatest form of anticipation is as an act of pleasure. A blogger on another site, in describing a kiss said so beautifully that she felt the warmth and tenderness of his kiss long before their lips ever touched. Arousal is our body’s natural reaction in anticipation of a touch, a kiss or the joys of penetration. A master of the art of pleasure knows how to use that anticipation to create the optimal level of arousal. Too slow can be a torturous tease, too fast is a lost opportunity to push the envelope, but when you read her body just right, a moment of anticipation can create a tidal wave of pleasure. Letting the warmth of your breath flow down her neck just before kissing her tenderly behind the ear. Fingers that tenderly explore every inch of her body before giving into the gravity of your desire to touch her in the most precious places. The deep eye contact as your body hovers just above her waiting for the look in her eyes to beg you to take her now. Anticipation will leave her longing to be in your arms, sensing your kiss before your lips meet, quivering at the first touch and over flowing with the precious juices of passion. Here's to keeping her waitin', at least just a little. |
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Dear Dreamon, what a beautiful verbal expression. That is true seduction. A sometimes lost art in todays busy world. To feel your heart beat fast and your palms become damp in anticipation of something wonderful is a very special feeling. To connect in mind and body is exciting and so erotic. You, my dear man, have a beautiful and expressive mind. Thanks for the gentle and alluring daydream. D {=}
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Beautifully said...it is just that which I so crave. How special that you have such an amazing memory of that special time. I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)
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9/15/2011 1:22 pm |
Dear Dreamon, what a beautiful verbal expression. That is true seduction. A sometimes lost art in todays busy world. To feel your heart beat fast and your palms become damp in anticipation of something wonderful is a very special feeling. To connect in mind and body is exciting and so erotic. You, my dear man, have a beautiful and expressive mind. Thanks for the gentle and alluring daydream. D {=}
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