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Changes This site has changed so much over the years.. Not how the site functions but the people who are on it... Chat rooms use to be full, there were meet and greets all the time. People actually wanted to talk and get to know each other and be friends and have fun together, even if it didn't always include sex after.. What happened to all of that? I know this is an adult site, but that doesn't mean everything has to be about sex all the time. Sometimes just talking to another adult and enjoying time with other adults are fun as well. Sex is great, but it should be a bonus not the only thing people care about. I think a lot of people ( mostly men) seem to forget that we are people, with feelings, and emotions, and wants and desires.. Just because we arent looking for long term relationships, doesn't mean we are easy and just open up for anyone that shows interest. We fill out profiles and answer questions because we want you to use them as a starter guide... If you don't fit what we are looking for then why bother emailing us and getting upset when your told we arent interested... What happened to actually talking to a person? Why do people feel that if you don't agree to meet them with in a few mins of a conversation, then your a fake and shouldn't be on this site because your not serious about meeting... That's total BS. I have made a lot of great friends from this site over the years, but have encountered many more annoying or down right rude and ignorant people.. And that's really sad.. There are a lot of wonderful people on this site and if guys would just slow down and stop acting like they are at a drive through, they would find that they will get a lot more interested and a lot more results.. Stop thinking with the head in your pants instead of the one on your shoulders, it will always take you down the wrong path.. Be adults and understand that the people you are emailing are not obligated to give you or show you anything just because you graced them with an email... There is still work and effort that needs to put in to your encounters... This site is not a promise for sex, it connects you with people who are like minded and interested in the same things, but still never a sure thing. Work for it or get use to your hand... I'm not trying to be a bitch, just honest.. If what I said stepped on anyone's toes, maybe you should change your approach.. |
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Hi HS: You're correct that the site has changed. I trace it back to the sale to Penthouse. The whole thing became about numbers. One of the issues that I have with the Excel Spreadsheet Weenies and metrics is that they tend to measure the wrong things. I've had some great times at some of the M&Gs. I think that your advice is pretty much spot on. I can just jerk-off if I'm only looking to get off. If I'm looking to have really good sex then I want to get to know my partner. I think that you may be mistaken about what is promised though. AdultFriendFinder's marketing is that they DO promise you'll get laid or else they time add to your membership subscription. It IS a promise for sex. Have a great day. Ciao, a presto, Bella. G
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Well anyone who believes an advertisement is stupid in my view.. I mean your not dealing with hookers.. THEY are a promise for sex... When you deal with people who have free will and arent being paid then you should be smart enough to know that there is never a promise. Also if the men would take the advise the women on this site try and put out there, we are pretty much telling them how to get laid... Why wouldnt they wanna listen is my question... If I have what you want and Im telling you what you have to do to get it, you would be the stupidest person on earth to not listen and do the opposite of what Im saying.. Just because the site says come join us and you can get laid, that doesnt mean that its effortless.. If you dont wanna have to put any work in to it then I suggest going down the street and picking up the first street walker you see...
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And I dont mean you personally dear, just generally speaking here hun. Didnt mean to make that sound like I was directing that just at you. 
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