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Whats in a "smirk"?
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Whats in a "smirk"? There's just something about a smirk. It's one of the most powerful sexual tools a man can possess. When used properly, it can cause arousal, anxiety, excitement, and more. No, really, it can. It can make your heart race and feel like it's going to explode out of your chest. A good smirk can do this. It drives you crazy. It says: I know how I affect you. I know you're attracted to me. I know you want me. In your mind so much more is going on. But right now we're a foot or two apart. I know how to drive you crazy. And that's exactly why I'm doing it. The important thing about the smirk is it must be backed up by reality. You really must hold that kind of sway over the other person. You must really have a good idea how to drive them crazy, and know that the smirk is a part of it. If you have all that, the smirk becomes a tool of great power. It's powerful enough that even talking about such a smirk in conversation can cause the blush, the arousal, the anxiety. It's powerful enough that I can become fully, achingly, throbbingly aroused with just a well-placed smirk; no touching necessary. A number of people from my past (no names mentioned) were good at the smirk. Sometimes I miss those damn smirks so badly. I need a good smirker. Something that is even sexier is the tease. There is nothing in this world sexier than a man who knows he can make you scream like you've never screamed before and tantalizes you with the knowledge. Notice that I said knows, not thinks - the chasm between the two makes the difference between full-of-himself asshole and confident, dangerously sexy man. I love being teased. I love teasing others. Frankly, I've had much better luck finding partners who like to be teased than ones who are adept at the teasing themselves, but in my years I've met one or two who frankly had the power to make my toes clench in their little shoes as I discovered that my teeth can actually sweat. They had such power over me. And sometimes they didn't even know it. Some of my fondest sexual memories are of teasing or being teased. The time M. and I watched porn with some of our high school friends (he spent the entire movie secretly playing with little bits of my body). The time S. and I learned why a long-drawn out blow job is better. There was pain involved in this discovery as well and hell that may have helped. The time C. discovered just why I love fingers so much (oh my God). Even my favorite movie and book scenes have way more to do with teasing and way less to do with the actual sexual acts. Case in point: The tease takes effort. It means that you have taken the time to get inside my mind and explore the places I may not readily share. You have discovered my secrets and you know exactly how to use them against me. I suppose my love of the tease goes hand in hand with my love of the perfect mind<b> fuck </font></b>(that is another story all in it's self). Good teasing is so rare. Some people will try, but if they're not well tuned into what cranks you up, it's just not the same. If you find an excellent tease, hold on to him or her. They will have a finesse with your body that you may never have dreamed of. Amazingly enough, when someone is able to sneak into the facets of one's mind, the possibilities are endless. So curl up, enjoy the ride and seek and you shall find M. Welcome to my humble abode where desires lurk endlessly waiting to be found. But of course, if you're not interested, you could always give them my number.  Reach out and open the door that no one thought could be opened. Life is behind it! |
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