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bjspecial1 67M/58F  
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4/2/2009 9:37 am
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Leckefein1965 59M
Ask me for a photo

4/2/2009 10:27 am

 Maybe it's their fear about repudiation or they simply cheat the people, just looking for pic's. They also could have a fear about the Situation, when their dream's become true. However, we won't know this.
Have a nice Day


Thriller531 64M  
47 posts
4/2/2009 10:52 am

 I get that all the time people saying that they want to meet and then nothing! or stands me up


bjspecial1 67M/58F  
20 posts
4/2/2009 11:10 am

 Hi Thriller. We didn't think it was only us. it just makes you wonder....


OGreatOne24 54M

4/2/2009 12:41 pm

 If I made a date I would totally stand you up. Like this:


bjspecial1 replies on 4/7/2009 10:45 am:
That would be one of the few ways we like to get stood up!

curious_n_newcou 49M/50F

4/2/2009 4:26 pm

 Even couples have done this along with singles..... Please do not waste the time of others it is rude and frustrating!!


bjspecial1 replies on 4/7/2009 10:46 am:
We have had cpls stand us up ,but only 2.

Mi48823 50M
Ask me for a photo

4/2/2009 6:18 pm

 I think it is easy to be brave when you are online, anomoyous and thinking with the smaller of your two heads.


bjspecial1 replies on 4/7/2009 10:47 am:
Your absolutely right!

ImGoodTimes 44M  
49 posts
4/2/2009 7:40 pm

 Damn bjspecial.... Thats crazy that some would stand you up at all.... Ruin's it for the good guys.....


bjspecial1 replies on 4/7/2009 10:48 am:
It does make us a bit apprehensive. But we try to give everyone a chance if there's an attraction.

ladielover694u2 71M
Ask me for a photo

4/4/2009 1:59 pm

 your not the only ones...there are a few woman or couples that break times to meat with a 3rd... some are scared others are lier's...


driveallnite67 56M
Ask me for a photo

4/6/2009 5:07 am

 I'D NEVER CANCEL IF I WERE TO GET AN INVITE, TO MANY PRETENDERS ON HERE


bjspecial1 replies on 4/7/2009 10:50 am:
Your soooo right.

bjspecial1 replies on 4/9/2009 11:06 am:
Yes...there are way to many pretenders here. S & Bj

wantathird691964 62M/60F

4/18/2009 5:25 pm

 interesting how that works... some times they don't even respond when all you ask for is honesty.... hhhhuuummm?


easystepper1000 64M/63F
147 posts
9/3/2009 8:04 pm

 Some of them just chicken out at the last minute. Fear of being able to perform i.e. short winded or stuck in neutral. It's normal the other reasons are as u stated, girlfriends or wives and maybe a guilt conscious. We call this being fickle.


easystepper1000 64M/63F
147 posts
9/3/2009 8:06 pm

 IMgoodtimes got it right, there eyes are bigger than their appetite !


Corey_O 37M
79 posts
9/29/2009 3:35 pm

 I have had females that have done that at last minute which I can understand but sometimes it does get frustrating. Get all worked up and then either they are to nervous or they just didnt like the age difference.


havenfun498372 61M/45F  
123 posts
3/15/2011 9:51 am

 well that happens all the time we think that all they want is pics to jack off to, and why would they want to jo when they could have the real deal have a great day ever one


bjspecial1 replies on 6/26/2013 6:46 am:
We agree havenfun!! It makes no sense to jack off when you can have the real thing to play with!!!!

rachael_risque 57T
Ask me for a photo

5/9/2011 6:23 am

 Funny you mention that the guys are after pictures. I get that ALL the time whenever I seem to be online. Just because I like to dress slutty at times guys automatically assume I am a girl. They don't even bother to read my profile or check out anything about me.

I can tell you that I have never stood anyone on up on here. I find it very inconsiderate when that happens.


yours4affair 56M

10/26/2011 8:21 am

 bjspecial,

I have gone to meet people. And when I get tehre they are not what they said they were, and the pictures on here have been photoshoped. That is extreemly irritating when you drive to meet someone and that happens. I think the worst is when they do not have goo dpersonal hygene.


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
8/7/2012 10:57 am

 Well there are times it does happen. Bosses force OT, car breaks down, parent gets sick. For myself I broke down once, my host came and got me. It took six months to meet another woman on here, 2 bad storms, a fall down a flight of steps for me, work, last minute Family surprise visits. But through it all we kept in touch and kept setting dates.
I think the ones that cancel and you never hear from again are just window peepers. Trying to score but afraid to meet.


bjspecial1 replies on 8/22/2012 9:37 am:
We agree on the window peepers and pioc collecters

Thriller531 64M  
47 posts
1/20/2014 9:45 am

 I'll meet you anytime you like ..on time and ready for fun


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