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Advice for a Friend
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Advice for a Friend Alright fellow blog land I thought this would be a good place to get some feedback about this. So, my good friend had been talking to this guy over the phone for oh I'd say over two months. And this guy was calling and texting a lot. Now my friend isn't ugly, yes she is a little over weight but don't weigh no 300 pds. So this guy finally talks her into meeting. So he gets on his bike, and he drives 4hrs shows up at 4am. She was nice enough to then let him lay down and rest a bit. He gets up and says "sorry just don't think it will work, you're kinda not my size", "but we can still be friends" I'm not sure if they were doing anything or not. I have been told this guy has to take viagra, is a recovering Alcoholic has no job. And lives off his parents money oh and he's 43. And many times throughout phone conversations he liked using the word love with her. No,my friend doesn't mean a lot of guys and for this ass to show up and act like this was uncalled for. This is why I learned to not spend many hours chatting and get the meeting out of the way that way no ones expectations are let down. I mean you spend time chatting and getting to know each other you form a connection how then can you not have something when you met if you are truly honest in conversation. Always be yourself |
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Sounds to me like your friend was not the issue here at all. He is just a 43 year old school yard bully,and probably is just very insecure about himself or feels bad about living with his parents etc.. In my opinion he may of picked your friend simply because she is bigger and he assumed she too would also be insecure. Then in true bully fashion he turned all his anger and frustration onto her saying that her size was a problem.If they talked for two months he most likely was already aware of her size in the first place and maybe when he saw her something about her made him realize she wouldn't be the easy insecure target he thought(Maybe she was all dressed up). It also could of just been he was just so insecure about himself (package size maybe) that he panicked, and just took it on her so he could get the hell out of there.There are definitely a lot of different possible reasons why he acted that way, but anytime someone intentionally makes another person feel bad about themselves, especially in a situation like your friends, they are the only real problem. Hopefully your friend doesn't let it get to her. There are plenty of people in this world that will like her for who she is and not her size. I personally like a bigger woman and there are millions of other guys that feel the same way.
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4am? For a first meeting? Seriously??? Sounds like all he really wanted was a booty call, but once he got there, he couldn't get turned on. Just another lying player.  [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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Thank you _Apps_ I'll make sure to add a little of your words of wisdom when I speak with my friend. Of course not using sources. Just kind of backing up what I've been telling her. Always be yourself
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UH.. idk but it sounds really shity all together. well not her, but him. that was just downright crap. i would have to agree that it was just a booty call and that was it.
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