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CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
5/9/2010 7:13 am

Great advice.

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Mygentlecaress 50M
13880 posts
5/20/2010 2:39 pm

A wonderfully well thought out and eloquent post if I may say so

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hackenslash4u 57M

6/23/2010 3:36 am

the past may not exist in the terms you define nor can it be relived...but it can be remembered,..just like the future can be altered...its the past that represents a model of reference that we acknowledge as a learning experience to avoid making the same mistakes in the future.

there's a thin line between nationalism and fascism....


passenger1969 54M

7/22/2010 9:21 am

Greetings and Blessings my sweet friend.
I just read your blog and couldnt believe i found a jewel in the lotus.
I enjoyed your sexy mind and really connected to those feelings.
I have been working on my dissolving my ego. Like children we must live through the heart,expanding and loving in all situations.Would love to share a hug sometime and connect through the heart. We are told that our brain controls the body. This is false thinking , as the heart is the energetic center of creation.I would love to meet sometime and share a conversation while enjoying the beauty of your presence.
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passenger1969 54M

7/22/2010 9:32 am

"Drop the idea of becoming someone, because you already are a masterpiece.You cannot be improved.You have only to come to it, to realize it." OSHO


passenger1969 54M

7/22/2010 9:42 am

Namaste my love

8 At this juncture, an old woman who had approached the group, the better to hear Issa, was pushed aside by one of the spies, who placed himself before her.

9 Then Issa held forth: "It is not meet that a son should set aside his mother, taking her place. Whosoever respecteth not his mother, the most sacred being after his God, is unworthy of the name of son.

10 "Listen, then, to what I say unto you: Respect woman, for she is the mother of the universe, and all the truth of divine creation lies in her.

11 "She is the basis of all that is good and beautiful, as she is also the germ of life and death. On her depends the whole existence of man, for she is his natural and moral support.

12 "She gives birth to you in the midst of suffering. By the sweat of her brow she rears you, and until her death you cause her the gravest anxieties. Bless her and worship her, for she is your one friend, your one support on earth.

13 "Respect her, uphold her. In acting thus you will win her love and her heart. You will find favor in the sight of God and many sins shall be forgiven you.

14 "In the same way, love your wives and respect them; for they will be mothers tomorrow, and each later on the ancestress of a race.

15 "Be lenient towards woman. Her love ennobles man, softens his hardened heart, tames the brute in him, and makes of him a lamb.

16 "The wife and the mother are the inappreciable treasures given unto you by God. They are the fairest ornaments of existence, and of them shall be born all the inhabitants of the world.

17 "Even as the God of armies separated of old the light from the darkness and the land from the waters, woman possesses the divine faculty of separating in a man good intentions from evil thoughts.

18 "Wherefore I say unto you, after God your best thoughts should belong to the women and the wives, woman being for you the temple wherein you will obtain the most easily perfect happiness.

19 "Imbue yourselves in this temple with moral strength. Here you will forget your sorrows and your failures, and you will recover the lost energy necessary to enable you to help your neighbor.

20 "Do not expose her to humiliation. In acting thus you would humiliate yourselves and lose the sentiment of love, without which nothing exists here below.

21 "Protect your wife, in order that she may protect you and all your family. All that you do for your wife, your mother, for a widow or another woman in distress, you will have done unto your God."


passenger1969 54M

7/22/2010 4:02 pm

Would love to chat more beautiful. Please email me so i can get to know your heart and mind a little better.


bond10926 59M

8/11/2010 4:11 pm

good afternoon sexy- I just finished browsing your blog, and quite enjoyed your writings.
I'd love to correspond and exchange meanderings if of interest to you.

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bond10926 59M

8/13/2010 4:43 pm

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JudeL5 53M
1629 posts
9/17/2010 11:31 pm

Some very cool thoughts

Thanks! I needed that

Hey! How about the next time you n SandraD go for a NON-ego trip together, you two bring me along


fenris_call 49M
10587 posts
11/18/2010 3:12 pm

If the glass is big enough then I expect 3 drinks is a lot! In fact 2 large glasses of vodka is about all I can handle...

Take care of yourself but don't forget to live your life... The future may never come but if you live to a ripe old age without enjoying your life then it won't be very fulfilling.

Sapere aude, cor ad cor loquitur. RaMbLiNgS oF a LoSt MiNd


bigplans 62M
139 posts
11/23/2010 2:30 pm

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EvaMarie_2kX 64F
54 posts
11/27/2010 7:49 pm

This is so true... thanks for reminding me where my priorities should be.


EvaMarie_2kX 64F
54 posts
11/28/2010 1:01 pm

I don't know if you were waiting for an email from AdultFriendFinder.. but I have been having lots of problems with them

Showing mail in the in box area but no mail

Posting a topic to a grp and it never goes to the board, or it takes up to two hour to post. I have one hanging still and I created it 8pm yesterday.

Receiving surveys ~ yesterday I got three. I received about eight over the last two months. Answered two ~ annoying

Sent off emails to AdultFriendFinder support so we will see.

Changing ones perspective always works... I'm learning to do that more 'n more. As well as cutting people off when it's coming from 2nd/3rd source... (dealing with a memorial service & child custody issues ~ my sisters). Keep me out of the Loop!!


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12/18/2010 5:51 pm

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escape300 48M
94 posts
12/24/2010 5:46 am

hello im new in town just wanted to say hi


deebenz 57M  
45 posts
1/25/2011 1:57 pm

Lord, you are one very blessed young lady. pretty face, nice body and tits to die for. What a woman you are. You ae HOT!!!!


flourblufftroll 58M
258 posts
4/1/2011 1:41 pm

Wow i was kinda blue till I seen your blog and pretty face and smile. Thanks for cheering up my day.


rm_MrDluxxx 44M
72 posts
4/28/2011 10:29 am

You speak the truth ma'am... Sometimes I am guilty of letting the past effect the here and now. I also share the same P.O.V. when it comes to drugs. I want clear open mind ready for anything life sends my way.

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rm_LongIsleFun2 51M
26 posts
6/3/2011 8:09 am

I love shoes too! you rock!


rm_auncock2 89M
12 posts
10/14/2011 11:38 am

I'm a little late, water under the bridge but maybe this will help. This is the only life you/one will have on this planet, live long, prosper and enjoy what you have now, tomorrow never comes. It is always today, yesterday.


wrstlng_tiger 53M

10/20/2011 2:30 am

Beautifully said, if we as a society can ever truly live and understand what you wrote, peace, self appreciation, good will to others, and love (for others and oneself ) would be accomplished. I am a glass is half full, live life to the fullest person, but every now a then words of wisdom like what you wrote can help recharge my soul when life tries to wear it down. I will definitely continue to read your blog. Thank you for sharing


WearyTraveler71 52M

1/13/2012 12:58 am

You are just too cute. Love the page. I keep my eye on it.


rm_ISORareGem 60F
8183 posts
4/18/2013 1:40 am

You do realize that depression is a mental illness, don't you? In some cases, it is not a conscious choice to be miserable.

In some cases, the past must be a part of your present to prepare you for your future.

Pretty lady, glad to hear you think life is worth living. Many who struggle on a daily basis don't. Many just want the pain to stop.

I suffer from PTSD, agoraphobia, panic attacks, night terrors, depression. And it is not my choice to be like this. And much of it is not in my power to control. Even if I were to go back in time to change things, I could not.

After many years of living in darkness, I have only recently begun to see colors again.

And for that, I thank God.

I was once asked 'am I over.......' and I came to realize I may never be 'over' some things.

We are all in a place mentally and emotionally for a reason.

Life isn't all rainbows and unicorns for some.

what the world needs now..........


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
5/23/2013 10:14 pm

What a brilliant and thought-provoking post.

Looking at things through this viewpoint tells me that I am doomed to continue to make the same mistakes, if past behaviour is any predictor of future behaviour.

I'm going to have to mark this post so I can go back and re-read it, every time I get mired in "negative self-talk". Thanks for posting this.

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itaintagame 56M

7/22/2013 7:46 pm

I will just live till I die, I don't worry about yesterday because its done and tomorrow is not here yet, so all I can actually do is live in the moment I am in which is now. I like a feel your vibe. Good Stuff!

Please, just call me diggy.


rm_auncock2 89M
12 posts
8/7/2013 12:38 pm

Today is yesterday today, the future [day] can/will never arrive. one lives in/at the moment/s. Now/this second of time is the only time I feel both pains and pleasures. My brain receives this information from my five senses. Without these five senses, to me life would not be worth living, and they as far as I know, stop with my death. I say, enjoy the moments, however, make them enjoyable moment/memories, do not do/include stupid moments.

Live long and prosper, it is the only life we/I will get.


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
8/10/2013 6:59 am

thank you

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


rm_dpg1217 59M
427 posts
9/13/2013 4:37 pm

Very elegantly stated. If you studied philosophy formally you seem to have learned well. If you haven't studied, then you have been blessed with a very philosophical outlook and the ability to articulate it beautifully.

Your thoughts on living in the here and now are reminiscent of the Tao and other eastern thoughts.

I know that I personally have wasted a lot of time thinking of the past and worrying about the future. I grew up at the start of the information age when Science and Technology where the "Careers of the future". However they didn't work for me.

I found my calling trying to protect the environment and correct the damage done by technology. I wasted a lot of time concentrating on the pursuit of happiness, rather than experiencing the happiness that was all around me.

If a problem has a solution, the solution will eventually present itself so there is no sense in worrying about it. If the problem doesn't have a solution, worrying about it won't solve the problem. So basically don't worry about it.

Impress me, by not trying to!


sexplorer09 39M
1 post
1/29/2015 2:55 am

The word use here are so fruitful and uplifting. I Appreciate it


kingcane08 40M

9/28/2016 11:34 pm

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ProfPlayful 53M
3861 posts
10/8/2016 11:43 pm

The lies of our egos would be harmless . . . if they weren't so #*%@ing loud!

Great post.

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08540Tantrafun 60M  
1072 posts
10/13/2016 11:39 am

Very eloquently said. I agree with all except one fact." We have billions of them that we don't even pause to think about why we even thought them to begin with. " We really don't have a billion thoughts. Just a few, but they run in infinite loops. People who practice mindful meditation or those under hypnosis/NLP realize that it is a few thoughts, like a computer virus running in the background in infinite loops, that prevent us from enjoying the present or moving on from a stuck state. Loved your post.

"Rules for happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”― Immanuel Kant .


08540Tantrafun 60M  
1072 posts
10/13/2016 10:15 pm

    Quoting  :

I learned this the hard way and out of necessity. I had multiple mini strokes and a major stroke in 2008. Lost 100% of my vision in my left eye, major memory loss etc. Talk about living in the present. People with dementia, Alzheimer's or stroke victims present is all they have. Did a lot of amazing things to rewire my brain and regain vision and become functional.

You are right our brain is way more complex than a computer. We have the ability to contemplate vastness of Universe and smallness of a nano particle and our minds eye can see us contemplating it.

But for most people it is "I am not smart enough, tall enough, good looking enough, rich enough, brave enough" etc running in their subconscious mind in loops, that prevent them from living their life to the fullest . They are not having millions of thoughts. It is the same few shit running endlessly in their limbic system over riding reason and logic in their pre frontal cortex. So your advise of not holding on to fears and anxiety about future is excellent advice.

"Rules for happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”― Immanuel Kant .


hotguy4u978 45M
11 posts
10/16/2016 10:10 am

Always live life to the fullest


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
10/19/2016 9:17 am

I don't think you could of said it any better, and so very true to, you have to live, love and laugh each and every day to your fullest potential. One can not dwell on the past and we never know what tomorrow is going to bring..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


cocacock190 41M

11/6/2016 5:59 pm

hmmmm nice blog babe

i love this site


goodatpoetry2 74M
16552 posts
11/7/2016 5:22 am

First things first... what a great smile! . That's a smile that would be easy to look at every day. .
( But then again, you're not married, so... you know... that usually doesn't last. . )

What a nice post! . The beginning sounds much like the middle of one of my poems...

" Yesterday is but a memory,
That's went and gone away.

And tomorrow...
Is just a maybe.
So that leaves us with today. "

So true...
But also, very hard to practice. .


lookingforuonly7 48M
25 posts
12/28/2016 12:09 am

Live your life as you like.
You will get the satisfaction of having lived as you wanted.


TrungNguyen214 27M
11 posts
2/10/2017 2:18 am

deep


Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
3/10/2017 8:30 am

Well this post is very thought provoking. Well done. It is what I needed during my dark time lately.


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rick315875 65M

4/10/2017 10:57 am



Very deep and profound insight into life. How did you get so smart! lol! How did you come about this thoughtful insight? Something someone told, something you read about or something you thought of yourself.



rick315875 65M

4/17/2017 6:38 am



Although the past and the future do not physically exist, they do exist in our mind, in our thoughts. In our mind and in our thoughts we have the ability to go back, rewind the tape of life, pause, erase, edit and replay our lives.
Our thoughts influence our behavior and our emotions, therefore thinking about the past and the future can influence our behavior and our emotions. Is it not necessary to some degree to think about the past and think about the future in order to guide one's behavior and emotions. If I do not think about the past, how do I learn from it, and how do I not repeat the same mistakes in the future.



Cheddargoldfish6 44M
61 posts
5/1/2017 7:31 am

I love how you think. It's so nice to find that energy and wisdom here of all places. I you are also adorably sexy. Thank you for both!


Sapiogurl 61F
3997 posts
5/21/2017 7:16 am

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cocacock190 41M

5/29/2017 5:35 pm

hello pretty babe

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destinedforlust 56M
190 posts
9/5/2017 2:43 am

Very well said!


Allan2377 68M

9/18/2017 11:24 pm

Hi, this posted really connected with me because of family members that suffer from depression and anxiety. You have given me some new ideas for action. Yes I know you have described your thoughts as common sense but you have a very clear way of articulating your thoughts. Thanks for your time and effort...


ccarinhos 50M

11/21/2017 3:07 pm

wow ... I loved your blog ... dont quit

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Deepocean22 49M
19 posts
11/24/2017 2:01 am

love it


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
12/2/2017 1:14 pm

Hi Wantingsexymind2.

thanks for sharing this post...

I would luv to meet a heavenly creature who thinks like you...

people have asked me what would I change in the past to improve my present situation... what would I have done different...

My response is this: "Nothing"... everything that has happened has brought me right here... to change anything could alter this and other incredible moments... like yourself... live each moment as if it were your last... maybe, even your first... if you don't like what you see... change yourself... for what you will be open to see...

several gems could fit here... but, I chose this one...

the original video... and the story behind the making of it... are analogous to your words...

The xx - "Islands"

I don't have to leave anymore
What I have is right here
Spend my nights and days before
Searching the world for what's right here

Underneath and unexplored
Islands and cities I have looked
Here I saw
Something I couldn't over look

I am yours now
So now I don't ever have to leave
I've been found out
So now I'll never explore

See what I've done
That bridge is on fire
Going back to where I've been
I'm froze by desire
No need to leave

Where would I be
If this were to go under
That's a risk I'd take
I'm froze by desire
As if a choice I'd make

I am yours now
So now I don't ever have to leave
I've been found out
So now I'll never explore
[x2]

So now I'll never explore...

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dodivesrighin373 36M
11 posts
12/16/2017 9:52 pm

life is certainly worth living and hopefully theres even some sex sprinkled in .


MulleenofMelb 58M
3024 posts
2/20/2018 6:25 pm

we are of now, the past we carry in our memories alone, our future a road on a map as yet untracked, and depending on now perhaps never to be.

the frisson of Now, the roar, the sunburst energy, the cosmic explosion, in each falling now moment, in the now reached, and the Time shifting sliding moving ever forward, with glacial glacier certainty....

Thoughts in sensual pleasure to erotic writing writ.

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wackerpp 53M
256 posts
3/3/2018 12:00 am

Like the post and I agree with your thoughts.
My challenge is I cannot get out of my past, it has a hold on me like nothing I know.
I know I need to accept what has been , learn and forgive.
Maybe it is the ego, the belief that I was meant to be better. The jealousy and insecurity when I see others succeed, I want to be happy for them but ...
Though I never could understand what better truly means. Maybe I need to start from there.


251985sys 61M
32 posts
4/1/2018 2:41 am

you do have a special way of expressing things it does open my eyes up thanks


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