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Of course that's what happened  

xdrearydancerx 35F
629 posts
10/6/2015 9:22 pm
Of course that's what happened


Well, he finally responded to me and I had a strange feeling he wouldn't be interested anymore. I made a total ass of myself in my responses to him. I admit I came across as extremely creepy and desperate. I should have said something about being friends or that I might want to have ....but the part would be a terrible lie.

Here are our last texts.

10/2
Me: Hey, how are you? How are things turning out?

9:48 pm
Me: I'm sorry if you're going through a rough time.....

9:55 pm
Him: Hey. I don't want to lead you on. It was fun talking to you but I'm looking for someone I have more in common with. Nothing personal.

9:57 pm
Me: Oh, I thought we had enough in common. I don't think that is your reason though.

9:59 pm
Him: No, it is. After what happened to my dad it got me thinking that I need to get serious about finding a woman that wants a family to settle down with.

10:01 pm
Me: Oh, because I'm not sure about .....

10:01 pm
Me: I didn't want to say this because it sounds rude but I was thinking your dad died...

10:02 pm
Me: Okay bye....

10:05 pm
Me: Well, I mean I was kind of right. I was thinking you would change your mind about me because something happened to your dad.

10:07 pm
Me: I thought I finally met someone nice on POF.

10:13 pm
Me: I'm always wrong.

10:24 pm
Me: I kind of wish you never talked to me.

10:25 pm
Him: Me too. Stop texting me.

10:26 pm
Me: I'm sorry. I thought I liked you. I'm sorry for being weird.

He blocked me on POF too and deleted me on skype. This is so funny for me. It was so easy for me to meet all those guys I didn't like and now that I met someone I thought was really great, he changed his mind and wasn't into me. We talked for less than two weeks and never met. Heehee. =/ I wish I wasn't so impulsive with my texts. I just felt so bad and I still feel terrible, so I said everything that was on my mind. I wish it didn't end on such a bad note and that he at least said I'm sorry and wasn't so cold.

It's also very funny how many guys hurt my feelings and make me feel awful, without being my boyfriends or anything. I should do a review at the end of the year and make a list of all the guys I went on dates with and talked to, and why each one didn't work out. But I think I am done with dating and meeting guys for now.

bustybettyboop 57F
59311 posts
10/6/2015 9:31 pm

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HeartracerX 45M  
224 posts
10/6/2015 9:39 pm

It can be hard, sometimes. You have to treat them like you don't need them to see if they're willing to fight for your attention. You're not weird, just disappointed. Your reaction was justified. Good Luck in your search.

- X


danteszippo 59M

10/7/2015 1:26 am

you're proving my point about meeting people online. It takes a little finessing but you'll do better running across people who seem to show interest and taking it from there, friends first and foremost, then let thigns happen. it's worked for thousands of years.

in real life I have had it take up to a year before kids are even mentioned, the web cn speed things up by laying it all out there but time spent getting to know someone can be enjoyable in it's own way, discovering each other is what cheezy people call it, but it can be exciting and even fun. what do you got to lose?


danteszippo 59M

10/8/2015 3:30 am

I've been on this site for years and only met a few exciting ones, online is not easy by any means. it might be where you are located, and you are just not cut out for that 'type' of typical guy that is coomon to that place. Wish I was there, i bet I could figure this out.


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