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No Second Date
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No Second Date I met a guy last Friday and it was definitely the best date I ever had. I just thought, “Where have you been all my life? I know he liked me too because before we met, he basically said that he had a crush on me. He told me again on the date, which was a long one. We were together for like seven hours. He mentioned twice wanting to see me again but never really made plans. The conversation was amazing and we couldn’t take our hands off of each other. We even had passionate sex. At the end of the date he walked me to my car, kissed and hugged me goodnight. He said that he was glad he met me. The next morning he texted me, telling me good morning and that he hoped I made it to work on time. After that, he didn’t text me for two days so I texted him on Tuesday. I figured this wasn’t a bad thing to do, because he was the one texting me first before. But I won’t initiate texts with him after this one. He didn’t mention anything about seeing me another time or ask me when I was free again. I guess if he wanted to do that, he would have texted me first. Now it’s Friday and he hasn’t texted me or asked me out again, so he is not really into me. I don’t think a guy would do all of that and act that way just to be polite or lead me on. I think he changed his mind or is dating other people. I guess our date was also not a big deal to him, even if he did enjoy it. He is 35, he has been on tons of dates and had girlfriends before. I don’t know. I felt like I had already known him. It seemed like we were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend already. I don’t know if we were moving too fast or if it was love at first site. I have been single my whole life and never had a good experience like this with a guy. But if he doesn’t ask me out again, my (boring) life still goes on. I can’t do anything about that. But honestly, I’m sick of looking. I would just like to date this guy, even if that seems pathetic or crazy to feel this way so soon. It’s also hard for me to find a guy I like and who also feels the same way about me. I always felt that I was undateable. Wow, I am such a bad dater. |
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WELL THATS THE MALE THANG FOR SOME GET YOU TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM PUT ANOTHER NOTCH ON POST AND ADIOS 
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I think maybe it was a combination of moving too fast & lack of communication on both sides. If you wanted to see him again, say so and try to make plans. If he gives you an excuse, then you'll know he's not interested, but at least you'll know.
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First, a fact: there is no such thing as "love at first site". That shit only happens in Disney movies and shitty romcoms. Love is a function of spending quality time with someone over time: weeks, months, longer. You may have had a strong case of lust but lust is not love, don't make the mistake of confusing one for the other. Having sex on a first date is a *crapshoot*. A guy might see it as a sign of a connection but there are also a lot of men who discount a woman who has sex right away. He might be seeing it as a something to help hi get through a dry spell or he migght even wonder, "gee, if she'll do this with me, I wonder if she'll do this with any guy" So lesson learned and better luck next time.
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If you're going to say that, I wouldn't contact him again  However, there is no harm in asking him if you want to get together again or ask him if he's interested in seeing you again upfront
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I'm empathize with you. It has happened more times than I care to admit. It's like they wake up with amnesia. I wish I could wake up with amnesia every time
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Guess, it was little one sided. He did all right things. I wonder what happen with him. Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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Trust me, it's not you !! This guy either is married, engaged, or has several women he goes out with, kind of like a player. Knows which buttons to push, when. Just don't give up hope yet, when you least expect it, someone will come around.
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 . Well I'm sorry to see it didn't work out but never give up, and don't be foolish and contact him, if he wants you let him come to you. Your knight in shinning armor Will come . 
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 no you didn't do anything wrong..he is just playing a game, that's all
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