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Well, That Was Embarrassing
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Well, That Was Embarrassing So I just invited a guy over my place tonight and it as SO BAD!! I mean he wasn't a psychopath or anything. He was a nice guy but we were supposed to have sex and we didn't!! But seriously, I was basically catfished. And maybe he thought that same thing about me!! lol Well, I met him on Hinge and talked to him for about a week I'd say, but he got right to the point in his first few messages. He wanted to hookup and I told him yes. I mean when I saw his pictures, I thought wow he's really cute. He sure looks like a jerk though so maybe he's good in bed. But then I thought he's only 22. He might have had sex loads of times but it also could have been only a few times. Who knows. Today, when we met I knew right away, it wasn't going to be good. I saw him get out of his car and walk up to my front door and I was NOT attracted to him. I immediately thought this was going to be a challenge. This is not easy to have sex with someone you are not very attracted to, just met, and they are also not an expert. All those things are no good together!! lol I did have some apprehension of what he would be like of course. I always feel that way when I meet someone new. But for some reason what I was thinking what if he was a completely different person. Well, he was the same guy as his pictures just less attractive. Those were damn good photos, I have to say!! lol It's like, I just have to ask myself, can't you tell those were his BEST pictures?!! They were not very natural looking photos, idiot. So he basically looked different from his pictures and had a different personality, than what I thought. When it came down to the sex, like I said, it didn't happen and I was not attracted to him. But I still wanted to give him a chance and try since that's why I invited him over. I just couldn't get in the mood with him. His body hair, his teeth, and nose were a huge turn off. I couldn't get past it. I mean, this makes me feel very mean and shallow but that's the truth. It made me look like I was bad at sex. I'm not that bad!! I just need the right partner!! I think of the one night stand with the handsome Israeli and sex just felt so natural with him. I felt sexual chemistry with him. It wasn't perfect but we had something there. For all I know, he probably thought I was gross! lol This other guy I've been seeing is pretty good too. The worst thing wasn't his looks or my lack of arousal. We probably could have had sex if he didn't have ED. Poor guy. He did explain it to me in person, and I could definitely see what he was talking about. He also revealed to me, that he only had sex twice. We must have tried like five times to get it in me. After giving up on that, I just decided to suck his dick. Besides the lack of chemistry in the bedroom, he was nice to talk to. We had good conversation. I don't know why I can't talk the same way to men I'm actually attracted to!! I did feel bad when he asked me if his dick was small. He was definitely on the smaller side. Of course, I didn't tell him that. I just said he was normal. But anyway, he was a cool guy and he texted me when he got home, that he was sorry for such a bad time. I told him not to worry and it takes two to make it happen. HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO SAY THIS, MARIAM? Always ask to trade pictures with a potential meet up and talk to them on the phone!! At least do one of those!! That's how you avoid an awkward time!! Stupid. LOL Well, I'm meeting another guy next week, also in his early 20s. He snapped me some pictures so that's good. At least I know exactly what he looks like. Maybe I should also ask him how many times he's had sex. It wouldn't be a bad idea to ask!! |
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Maybe you need an older man? Teddy
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7/4/2021 12:11 am |
By the sounds of it hes very inexperienced with woman for a 22 year old. Unfortunately you learn about what good sex is all about as you get experience. Clearly this bloke has a lot to learn.
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Ah shame it didn't turn out the way you wanted. Not sure I'd ever meet someone for the first time with the "guarantee" of sex. I think I'd always want to meet in a public place first and then if they didn't turn out to be how they described themselves or match the mental image I had of them, then there's no loss. Of course if things turn out much better than you expected, then you can always suggest you take it somewhere more private. Hoping you have better fortune next time.
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next time could be better !!
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7/4/2021 4:22 pm |
You probably should go after an older, more experienced man. It also sounds like you could use a little more experience yourself. Maybe you need someone to help you and show you some things.
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 ok so you answered your own questions and others have made some good comments, need i say anything more......
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1 post 7/4/2021 5:40 pm |
if u really read these, i wanna meet up. i cant drive to meet u anywhere cause my parents are strict, but i can sneak out and we can fuck. pls message me or join my streams so we can chat, i really wanna fuck.
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7/4/2021 5:45 pm |
I never said or even implied that you were lame. I'm just saying that someone older and more experienced will be better for you.
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7/20/2021 5:49 pm |
Damn that's crazy. Does body hair usually turn you off? I think the guy was too busy thinking with his head rather than his dick.
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