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It takes a certain kind of person to be able to handle a married lover. I prefer the attached/married playmate, it just makes the playing field even. I warn the single ones about the rules of engagement here, some say they can handle it, but in reality they can't. I've been the one to have to call the one at home to profess love while the playmate waits, it comes with the territory. The single one can't handle that though, so again, I prefer one who is attached.
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Now I know where I went wrong building a single storey house. But seriously I agree with your sentiment and can take it even further. Being faithfully is all about priorities, such as putting your spouse first. But there are many reasons why it is not always practical to always be on hand to satisfy each other's physical needs as you have described.......and they are needs. So where do you draw the line? Is wanking to porn unfaithfull? Is fantasising about an imaginary encounter unfaithful. Or perhaps it is even acceptable to go to a massage parlour and get a hand job. And of course Bill Clinton famously declared that oral sex was not infidelity. Like you I also believe we need to shake off these taboos and accept that purely physical gratification is a normal body function, just so long as you dont deprive your spouse of time/money/attention/affection and give it to someone else instead. Of course it is not as simple as that though because as we all know, one thing leads to another. Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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12/11/2011 5:12 am |
I'll hang out with you for Xmas
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Casual sex is great - you don't have to wear a tie! You'd think I'd be an ideal candidate as a FWB. No ties!
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I agree with MzGoddess....it does take a certain kind of person to have a married lover.....I never thought I could, until I met one I "could" with....But, as a rule, that is something I just shy away from....Mainly because now I want that one permanent partner.....even if we both other have playmates....kinda bizarre, huh?? Could also be cause I once fell.....hard.... for a married man....whose marriage was supposedly as irreparable as mine.....turns out his wasn't....Even after numerous conversations about it; a refusal to "get involved"; discussing ways he could salvage his marriage...Ihad no intention of falling for him.....but eventually did, when he assured me his marriage was inoperable.... Now?? I just try to avoid that scenario alltogether....
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Oh how I wish we were closer! We could go a snorkeling!
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12/21/2011 12:55 pm |
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