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Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
5/15/2020 2:07 pm

I'd say the desired outcome is - what it is ; nothing . Right ?
Welcome to THIS place. It is filled with strange and unusual people filled with marginal interpersonal skills .


Mr00Fun4U 64M

5/15/2020 2:25 pm

Well lovely Lady you at least got to experience a little of your desired outcome. Way to put yourself out there...especially in a site that sometimes leaves a lot to be desired.

Me...I’m hanging in there waiting for the lockdown to be lifted but enjoy dropping in on the blogs. You did a nice job with yours...stay healthy and be safe.

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lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
5/15/2020 2:27 pm

I think you and most would come to about the same conclusion on each of the 7 scenario's To put it simply, Thanks but no thanks.
I can't imagine some one that would act this way and realistic expect a positive results..
Sorry you are baffled, but looks like you have listed a group of losers!!!
Have a good day , do be safe..

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ChrisOnHere801 47M
33 posts
5/15/2020 2:59 pm

Hi there 12FK2,

Unfortunately, there are many many people (often men) who are not good communicators and the limitations of internet communication only highlight their shortcomings. As a woman here you are probably bombarded by sheer volume of random attention. Many of them are probably looking for nothing more than momentary stimulation, and lack social graces. Although it's tedious, you can probably pick some gems out of all the dreck. In defense of point 6, I will say I'm my experience, the IM software component of this site seems fruatratingly laggy and unreliable, so it may not always be that the guy isn't paying attention. Good luck to you, just finding what you're looking for here can be a major challenge. Cheers,

Chris


justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
5/15/2020 4:08 pm

You have mindfully and articulately presented a common challenge that women in this community face: passive-aggressive misogyny packaged as faux-seductive come-on. I share your puzzlement as to who could possibly view the behavior you described as a *winning strategy*.

It occurs to me that we should consider the simplest answer: NO ONE.

While your *admirers* may harbor a subconscious interest in making an intimate connection at some point in their lives, unless it is on their *terms*, there is neither authentic desire nor expectation. Why not?

Because (I argue), for these trolls, sex is too much work and ultimately (because of their own inadequacies) unsatisfying. It is more fun to bully and grandstand than to actually follow through and disappoint anyone who might take a meeting with them with the pathetic realities of their physical, intellectual and/or emotional underdevelopment.

This notion ties into some recent meditations, where I have revisited my out-of-hand rejection of the contention by Christian demagogues, psychologists and others that porn is toxic to sexual relations. Having surfed the blogs here, noted the high proportion of embedded porn and listened attentively to regularly-aired grievances, I sense a large population of Incels (involuntary celibates) among us. For these unfortunates (deplorables?!) porn-titillation and self-gratification is a normal *outlet*. I can easily see their *complaints* escalating into bullying-rage and lashing out, then quelled with masturbation.

A proverbial *vicious cycle*, to be sure. And one with unacceptable collateral damage to open-minded, generous and sex-positive women as yourself.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
5/15/2020 8:12 pm

when someone shows you whom they are...believe em! They are basically saying....i can treat you like chyt....but still will ya f&*k me ?

The desired outcome no matter how circuitous the route is ..sex....for alot of em. A few would like a relationship and to make love, but those few are hard to locate~~

As Bj's tag says...around here the females odds are good.....BUT the goods are odd !


Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
6/3/2020 11:30 pm

LOL I will definitely have to use what is sure to be an ice breaker of a chat up line by first saying..I am bored.. If a woman doesn't drop her knickers there and then well than I will be very shocked.

Think as you obviously know all too well that many men simply do not understand nor are willing to learn how to converse with a woman. Some are scared, others just aren't good at listening & then those with only one thought on their mind regardless of anything said by a woman.


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