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Falling In Love, Again
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Falling In Love, Again We're never too old to fall in love. I'm falling in love with my husband, again. It wasn't love at first sight back when we met in August of 1975. It wasn't even a fast love, in fact, it was a very slow building love. A love that sneaked up on us unexpectedly. I remember the moment I realized that he was possibly the one. We weren't dating, in fact, we both were dating other people. A friend of mine was distraught after breaking an engagement. In her tears, she asked if I felt I would marry my then boyfriend. The answer came naturally, "No, I always need to be perfect with him. I see myself marrying someone like my friend R. Someone that I can be imperfect with, fight with and make up without any grudges." After I said it, I was stunned. At that point, R and I had been friends for nearly three years and had just been the best of friends. It would be over a year before we began dated. After graduating college it was him that realized we were no longer going to see each other routinely, and we would need to work at arranging occasions to meet. And so began our awkward courtship. At first we didn't realize we were dating, and then we fumbled on the maneuvering from platonic to sexually intimate. However, young libidos and intense orgasms got us quickly onto the same pathway. In October of 1980 we married and set out to conquer the world. We sought advance degrees, worked and saved for a house, struggled with infertility, dealt with ailing parents, and eventually had two . We were still one, a force to be reckoned with, parents united in a well defined goal. But there was stress, long hours, fatigue, financial strains, and temptation in the workplace. It wore us out, but we hung in there. We stayed faithful, although it got a little ho hum. Then, along came the internet. AOL, you've got mail, chat rooms, message boards. I don't recall how it happened but I remember being at the computer and<b> getting off </font></b>with strangers. Before I had a cam, I squatted over a scanner to show a horny dude I was dripping wet after squirting while masturbating, having cybersex. I had phone sex and eventually began meeting men in person. It was great and I don't have but one regret. I wish I had had sex with a woman while I was experimenting. Life is slower now. The are out of the house pretty much. We're retired. I know he's nicer to me, I suppose he'd say the same of me. Lowered stress has it's way of doing that to people. And, we're falling in love all over, again. And sex, well it is getting to be wonderful all over again. I hope everyone that reads this, had as content and loving Valentine's Day as we did.  "Don't count the days, make the days count" |
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