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bulehyatt 65M  
1717 posts
2/1/2020 5:18 am

“When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.”
- Gibran


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
2/1/2020 5:31 am

If life was a polished granite highway, we'd all be perched on marbles, gliding smoothly towards the end.
But it's not.
It's more like an ocean with huge waves all around us. We choose to ride one... wait for the perfect one... or just give up and sink. It's all about finding a wave that suits you - in spite of the stormy weather all around.
I don't surf, so THAT analogy is worthless for me. You might want to pick one that works for you and make it happen.
It's about balance, isn't it? 🤔


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/1/2020 5:49 am

Age, the number, is a way to quantify the amount of experience a person MAY have had. And hopefully have enjoyed and learned from.

Glad you survived the PE.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
2/1/2020 7:19 am

Hang in there, we are all going through some dark times. I hope you do not leave this site, but if you have too, I understand.


DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
2/1/2020 7:21 am

It does seem like things pile up like this all at once.

My dog will probably reach her conclusion within the year. Other things at home will also come due soon. My last job reached a conclusion 6 mos ago, but it was a welcome change and took a lot of depression off my shoulders.

I just take one day at a time and keep going, its all you can do. {=}


MrBlue5050 62M

2/1/2020 11:28 am

I am sorry to hear that you are going through all these different issues. If you were here, I would give you a big hug and tell you that you are not alone in your struggles. There are days that I have thought about just ending everything because of all my problems adding up. Please know that someone loves you and cares about you. They will always be there for you no matter what to mend the broken pieces. It may take time to heal but you will learn who you are and who to truly trust. God bless you!!!


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
2/1/2020 2:43 pm

I understand your post....completely....it resonates within me. My stance for the past 3 yrs has been.....a breath at a time. I didnt think i would make it...but those breaths add up. This is a new decade 2020, the year of clarity ..20/20 vision and i am making a concerted effort to enter into this new decade leaving the baggage of the last, back there. Just rem......a moment at a time, a breath at a time and b4 you know it....the weeks , months and years have happened and each time u get knocked down, the strength to get up....is just that.....strength. U are stronger than you know ~~


GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
2/1/2020 2:48 pm

Everyone's life has it's 'Ups & Downs', but it is how we deal with it, is what defines us. Never be afraid nor ashamed to ask for help, even if it is but a shoulder to lean or cry on. We all survive when we help each other. *hugs*


MyNameIsKay 62F  
11887 posts
2/1/2020 6:12 pm

Life intrudes. It's one of the things I say when it all piles up at once. Or when it interrupts so rudely.

I don't know if it qualifies, but one of my conclusions recently is that you can't underestimate the power of virtual friends. A blogger friend of mine died in January. We'd never got around to meeting, although we had intended to do so. He'd been sick a lot on and off since before I met him here. He was a fighter...never gave up...made the choice to fight and keep a positive attitude. It makes me wonder about me and some of my "choices." I don't think I always fight for the right thing when it's for myself. My kids? Absolutely. But me?

It's overwhelming when it all happens at once. You will take one thing at a time and find the good in it. Muah.

Swim...Bike...Done


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
2/2/2020 6:42 pm

I think all things collude.... that is inevitable..... what is in our control is the journey to the collusion


Urhungness 39M  
40 posts
2/3/2020 4:02 pm

I can absolutely relate, as I myself just went through a very rough period. For weeks I was asking myself "what could I have done to deserve such a lengthy period of "dark cloud days"..... But I remembered a quote I read online...
"As we get older, life doesn't get easier. We get stronger". So whenever I had a moment where I felt like I was at rock bottom, I told myself, it's just a character building moment, don't fail this test. I wish you a change in fortune my dear, your sunny days will be here sooner than you know it


merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
2/23/2020 11:59 am

....our journeys are not always smooth or predictable....although some things are inevitable, the path in between will have unexpected surprises, both good and less desirable... some you can see coming from 100 miles away.... and others smack you in the face unexpectedly.... but each day is a new beginning... and at an age more elevated than yours, life is still loaded with new beginnings and happy surprises.... look for the silver linings.... you just might find a pathway to something incredible... now off to the gym... LOL


RideACowboy3021 62M
820 posts
3/14/2020 5:07 pm

You know that if you need... let me know and you are welcome out at my place to listen to the birds, frogs, and coyotes all sing.

Save a horse, ride a cowboy!!


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