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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

surviving a breakup  

thegrlsnme 67F
2762 posts
8/11/2013 5:43 pm
surviving a breakup

I have had relationships end, like we all have had. One dude in particular made a statement after he decided to move on. (He didn't want any sort of relationship or anything, which he did not state up front). Anyway, he made the statement, that I would be all right and find somebody.

I have been seeing somebody for a year, and he just went mia, without any word what so ever. The last time I saw him, he made a remark about me being able to take care of myself, how strong and capable I was, etc.

I was driving, and thinking something I do a lot when I am driving. From what I can gather from these 2 guys as well as others, is I am a strong person, a survivor, etc.

I am a strong person and I will survive. But it does not make it any easier on me when the guys decides to end the relationship, or just disappears. I am as vulnerable as any other woman.

It seems to me, that the guys figured I would be ok. I am, but I still have the same feelings as any other woman. I still wonder what went wrong, I still miss you, I still cry, I still miss talking to you, I still miss loving you, or just fucking you. Needless to say, it is not any easier on me like you think.

Good luck in whatever you are searching for. thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
Avon_boater 71M
82 posts
8/18/2013 2:56 am

 Good Luck I am thinking that they feel it is their easiest way and not have to try to explain their thoughts.
May also be afraid that you will get mad and argue.


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