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It's the loneliness not being alone  

thegrlsnme 67F
2762 posts
2/24/2015 6:40 am
It's the loneliness not being alone


good morning on this fine cold morning. Now I know why my parents had 10 of us, All those cold winters in<b> wisconsin. </font></b>haha.

I was talking to someone yesterday, and they brought up a valid point about being single. He said "I am ok with being alone, it's the loneliness that is hard". I told him, I liked the way he put that.

It's that intimacy, and small moments that are missed when that someone special is not there to share it with you. I totally understand. It is nice to wake up and watch your lover sleep, or roll over and look into their eyes, or maybe be woken up with a good morning kiss.

The moments shared drinking coffee, maybe in silence, or not. The holding of a hand, or looking over with a smile, or a quick kiss when out at the movies, shopping, taking a walk, having a drink, or doing whatever you may be doing.

The hi, honey I'm home, and having someone there for a hug and a kiss that may have missed you as well. The many times you wanted to tell someone about something that happened during the day.

The times you may want to chase someone you care about naked around the house, or climb into the shower with them, when they least expect it. The snowball fight or the making of snow angels. Going for a ride, watching the stars, enjoying a flea market or car show. A lunch or a dinner, and being able to run your fingers across someones leg, or laugh over something that was said.

Just knowing there is someone there that cares about you.

What moments do you miss sharing with that someone special.

I wish you luck in what you are searching for here.............thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
2/24/2015 7:05 am

I think you covered most of the bases. I miss the sense of sharing when one or the other sees something you both love and making sure they see it too. The touch of bare skin in bed at night. Sensing their aura in the room with you.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/25/2015 4:13 am

    Quoting justskin1:
    I think you covered most of the bases. I miss the sense of sharing when one or the other sees something you both love and making sure they see it too. The touch of bare skin in bed at night. Sensing their aura in the room with you.
so do I...........................thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
2/25/2015 4:16 am

    Quoting  :

If the person in my life continues to bring me down, then they don't need to be in my life............thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


golosa1115 62F
1066 posts
3/7/2015 8:21 pm

You blog sounds a lot like mine, and so I said let me check her sign. Hi fellow Scorpio. Yes we are ppl of intimacy and lots of affection. I actually say that as well, its not being alone the problem is the feeling lonely that hurts.


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
3/9/2015 3:51 am

    Quoting golosa1115:
    You blog sounds a lot like mine, and so I said let me check her sign. Hi fellow Scorpio. Yes we are ppl of intimacy and lots of affection. I actually say that as well, its not being alone the problem is the feeling lonely that hurts.
thanks for you comments and reading my blog, yes I am a scorpio through and through, and I usually blog on whatever I feel like or what's happening at the time I will have to check our your blog......thegrls

Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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