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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

what would you do  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
3/25/2015 3:02 pm
what would you do

hello, I hope this finds you well. I am in<b> wisconsin. </font></b>It's my daddy's 85th birthday party on saturday. He let us know at christmas he was having a party at the VFW, so, we knew he wanted a party. Driving and seeing all the snow in the fields made me realize I did not miss it. I am one of those people that got winter depression while growing up. I love my family and I love all the activities and crap we do up here, I just prefer not be to around the snow and cold. I will figure something out one day.

I have a what would you do question. I have been talking to a dude for a long time now. it's a distance thing. I hate distance things, I have not had one work out as of yet. Anyway, we did meet 4 months ago, and both said we liked each other.

Have we seen each other since then. No. have we talked, yes and texted. The thing is he didn't show up when he was supposed to. He apologized after the fact. That was his first bie. I told you I give bie's. the other thing is I really like the guy.

I just don't think he is that into me, even though he says he is. One can never tell if you are not looking that person in the face.

We had a semi planned meet. I was going to see him on he way through to another destination. First it was yes drive here, and then it was text me when you get to Indianapolis. I sent the text, anyhow, I sent the text and didn't get a response. I made the turn.

I get a phone call a couple hours later. I'm too tired, go on. I will catch up with you this weekend. I'm like seriously. He goes, I will text you tomorrow. After a minute, I sent a message back and told him not to bother.

Today, I received two messages, both saying I am sorry. blah, blah. I have not answered back.

Does he deserve another chance, I don't think so, but I am open for comments. Please don't ream my ass for considering one more bie.

I wish you luck in what you are searching for here...............thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
LadyTeddieBear 66F  
1131 posts
3/25/2015 3:21 pm

 MMM i think he needs another chance. I have had things come up when i had a date with someone and we finally got together over the past weekend and wow is all i can say about him. I was missing out. We had been emailing for a year before we finally met
LadyTeddieBear


rm_fun4pleaser 69M
462 posts
3/25/2015 3:41 pm

 I would have to say the reasons for his failure to be there are the deciding factors.
I'm too tired when you just drove a fairly long distance doesn't cut it. Unless he was extremely sick, he should have dragged his ass out at least to meet with you if he is that interested in you. How tired could he be? Did he just work 36 straight hours? Have to work the ER all night with multiple injury cases? Be on a stakeout until dawn and then have to pull another shift?
Sorry just isn't enough here, I appears you are right that he is not that interested unless it is very convenient for him.
And, of course, your decision


Travel_Couple69 58M
1604 posts
3/25/2015 3:54 pm

 yur gurl-spidy sense is tingling for a reason.....its your gut telling you this is likely to go no where, or worse, its going to lead to a fall....its up to you of course, but any guy whom is really into a woman, will make his interest well known.


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
3/25/2015 6:06 pm
    Quoting LadyTeddieBear:
    MMM i think he needs another chance. I have had things come up when i had a date with someone and we finally got together over the past weekend and wow is all i can say about him. I was missing out. We had been emailing for a year before we finally met
I have no decided, I am leaning that way, but I won't want to here any more excuses..................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
3/25/2015 6:18 pm
    Quoting rm_fun4pleaser:
    I would have to say the reasons for his failure to be there are the deciding factors.
    I'm too tired when you just drove a fairly long distance doesn't cut it. Unless he was extremely sick, he should have dragged his ass out at least to meet with you if he is that interested in you. How tired could he be? Did he just work 36 straight hours? Have to work the ER all night with multiple injury cases? Be on a stakeout until dawn and then have to pull another shift?
    Sorry just isn't enough here, I appears you are right that he is not that interested unless it is very convenient for him.
    And, of course, your decision
I agree, the reason would have to be good. I didn't drive to his house, I was an hour and a half away. I just kept going to my destination.........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
3/25/2015 6:43 pm
    Quoting Travel_Couple69:
    yur gurl-spidy sense is tingling for a reason.....its your gut telling you this is likely to go no where, or worse, its going to lead to a fall....its up to you of course, but any guy whom is really into a woman, will make his interest well known.
I don't know where it's going if it does go.........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
3/25/2015 6:44 pm
    Quoting sweettexgal:
    I've always believed if a guy wants to be with you, he'll find a way to make it happen. I rarely give men a second chance on here.
The only reason I do, I I have had to cancel and reschedule...............thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
3/25/2015 6:46 pm
    Quoting saw_guy:
    I would have gave up the first time. Spread the word up there....Badgers will be CAT food.............GO..BIG...BLUE.
ohhhhhhhhhh you are a tough one...............thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
3/25/2015 6:58 pm
    Quoting mcmaniac:
    I won't do the distance thing ............... again. I met a woman about 200 miles away, and the worst thing happened, I liked her. I hated that drive, but no way I was moving there and she was stuck there. Fortunately, she had a short temper and after she got snippy with me I was able to walk away. I don't even want to drive across town.
I am willing to relocate. Personally, I have not met anybody from the central Kentucky area on line. There is nothing keeping me here. All my family is in wisconsin......................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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