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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

Sometimes I want to say, what the fuck are you thinking.  

thegrlsnme 67F
2762 posts
10/6/2018 9:27 am
Sometimes I want to say, what the fuck are you thinking.

good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. It's been a month. That's way too long for me.

That should be rectified tomorrow.

So it seems, I get several messages a day from both AdultFriendFinder and the vanilla site. With that being said, I would rather meet someone over a drink. But, meet n greets don't happen like my mind thanks they should.

It's great to receive messages. But it's daunting to answer all the messages, especially with a pleasant answer.

I really want to say, what the fuck are you thinking, or doing.

For me, anyone under 50, is younger than I'm interested in. What I don't understand are the 19 to 25 year olds. In my mind, I'm looking at you like you are 12. I don't do boys. I'm just saying, not even for a one time thing.

Distance is another thing. For me, it didn't matter. But for most of you men, it's again a one night thing. Im not the one looking, you are.

I did do 2 meet and greets, it's been crap, 2 months ago when I was home. Both lived almost 2 hours away. There again, if it was a one time thing it would be doable.

I also did 2 meet and greets last month. Both nice guys, just didn't get the I want to fuck the hell out of you reaction. Damn.

One guy spoke to me for the two weeks I was off, never asked for a meet n greet. It was a last minute invite on a Saturday. I was out. I saw him at a club the following Saturday, where I was. He never saw me. Then he was all over wanting to meet, after I left the club. Too late. I told him, you could have asked for a meet.

I find if you men live even an hour away, it's an issue for you. You either want to come by my house, or want me to go to your house. Like some thought just because I spoke to them briefly on line. Not me.

Then, I have the men that want pictures, or to text, or talk.

A few couples, with the man especially interested.

That leaves the attached ones. They think they can have a FWB relationship. For me it doesn't work, unless you can come and go at free will.

Oh my God, I know there are awesome cool men out there. I guess it's just the timing. Or, the right place at the right time.

We all are on these sites for our own agenda. As long as both parties are happy that is all that matters.

Thank God, I'm making changes in my life. It may take the next couple months to get things ironed out, but change is coming. Yaaaay.

Until then, happy smile making.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
mc_justmc 63M

10/6/2018 12:46 pm

 I quit going to meets, dates, etc. Everybody in our age range is so set in their ways it's hard to find a regular partner, much less someone really compatible.


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
10/10/2018 7:32 pm
    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I quit going to meets, dates, etc. Everybody in our age range is so set in their ways it's hard to find a regular partner, much less someone really compatible.
I have found that to be true.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
10/30/2018 7:46 pm

 all smiles here and your so right distance sucks. I met a woman I had to drive an hour 20min. get a room early morning I didn't mind it for two hour of fun under the sheets. try for much closer it hard to seam the closer there less to meet for me.


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
11/7/2018 4:11 am
    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    all smiles here and your so right distance sucks. I met a woman I had to drive an hour 20min. get a room early morning I didn't mind it for two hour of fun under the sheets. try for much closer it hard to seam the closer there less to meet for me.
You do what you choose to do. Enjoy
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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