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gottaring 51F
10226 posts
11/18/2012 6:20 pm
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ABBC12356 41M
2268 posts
4/14/2016 6:53 am

GOOD


oilguy39 50M

11/21/2012 9:56 pm

Well he may not have killed one but I did opening morning


SuperNovaMarvel 47M
3464 posts
11/20/2012 8:46 am

I do absolutely get nervous about a first meeting (and second or thirds too). I try to not let it show, and usually cover it up with being flirty or trying to make her laugh. I smile a lot when I'm that happy kind of nervous too, so it helps make it appear that I'm comfortable, I suppose.

I'm a t-shirt and jeans kind of guy, so I try to never wear anything that would make me feel uncomfortable. I want to impress, but I also want to be myself. So a vintage-fit T, with jeans, and my birthday suit underneath!

What was your first impression of me when I came out for your bday?

"I exist as I am, that is enough." - Walt Whitman


gottaring replies on 11/21/2012 7:26 pm:
What was my first impression? Well, you were taller than i had imagined. And your eyes are much more sultry and sexy . You were also a bit quieter than I had thought you would be.

Your turn...

mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
11/19/2012 7:22 pm

gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 9:58 pm:
I take showers even when I DON'T have dates, lol. You can rest assured that I most definitely scrub up when I'm going to meet someone

This one girl told me don't do that masturbate before you come see me.

I can give you a quick blow job. Then we can down to business.

I don't know what she meant by that. LOL

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








Diogenes5959 64M

11/19/2012 5:31 pm

gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 4:32 pm:
Dude! You were TOTALLY nervous when we met- don't even try to deny it.


I was not nervous. I was shy, but I'm always shy. There is a difference.


thatdamncat 66F
3929 posts
11/19/2012 5:26 pm

Hey, Imma girl.. of COURSE I take thought to what I wear when meeting someone new. I dont think I go overboard tho, what you saw me wear at the Bash is pretty much what I wear when meeting someone

"You've seen my descent, Now watch my rising!" - Rumi

Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are forged from it - Michele K.


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 7:08 pm:
You looked pretty hot at the Bash, so I'd venture to say you knock 'em dead on a date .

thatdamncat 66F
3929 posts
11/19/2012 5:16 pm

    Quoting pcdude2130:
    I got my deer last week. An 8 pointer that I have seen around. I wasn't really even hunting, I was riding around on an old mare we have looking at my fence line. The buck just came out of the wood lot and knowing that my whole family loves venison, I took a shot, he went down and I had to throw the carcass over the front of the saddle to get it home. It's turkey and venison for Thanksgiving dinner!

    I dress the same way as when you last saw me. I wear a clean, tight pair of jeans, a clean dress shirt, my hat, and my boots. I'm not usually nervous... just a little shy in a down-home awe shucks kinda way.
And FYI PCDude... we like ya that way!

"You've seen my descent, Now watch my rising!" - Rumi

Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are forged from it - Michele K.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
11/19/2012 4:43 pm

I do get nervous but like to make an effort every time and not just on the first date. I've never been a big suit wearer (weddings & funerals!), so it's smart and casual for me.


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 7:07 pm:
There's 'casual', and there's 'smart and casual'. I'm glad you know the difference .

whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
11/19/2012 7:44 am

Sounds like douchebags all of them. Deletes warranted.

As for myself, I don't have much of a wardrobe so, I wear what I think is the best item I have. But I do preen and primp a bit if I know I'm meeting someone, yes.

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


Agent


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 2:35 pm:
Thanks for admitting it! Some guys just refuse to admit to being as vain as women are, lol!

gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
11/19/2012 7:19 am

I really don't get nervous with a first meet, as I have learned to go into it with no expectations. I am more likely to get nervous with the initial phone call. And no, I don't hem and haw over what to wear... because I know exactly what to wear.

Thoughts from the Garden...


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 2:34 pm:
You could wear a clown suit and no one would notice anything other than those beautiful eyes, GB.

rm_Quixy101 71M
9036 posts
11/19/2012 7:13 am

Its been awhile...but I definately want to look my best. Clean pressed shirt, maybe a tie or full suit. I have even gone so far as to get a haircut...lol. But then I'm pretty hygenic all the time so that's not that unusual. I do have my favorite meet the beautiful girl clothes and of course the freshly washed "lucky" underwear...but other than that nothing special...


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 2:33 pm:
Lucky underwear, huh? Never thought of that. Then again, I find that not wearing any underwear tends to work just fine .

Diogenes5959 64M

11/19/2012 6:50 am

I am never nervous, only because I set it up with little expectations in the first place. It's just a meeting, I'm not getting laid on the first date anyway.

I have never thought of my shoes when going out, and I don't wear the standard "going out clothes".(You know, untucked, button down shirt, jeans, dress shoes). That's not me, ever. I stick with jeans, sweater or maybe a sweatshirt depending on where we're going. I don't wear dress shoes, or even leather shoes, with jeans. It's tennies or skater shoes.

Wait a minute... I think I see why I never get a 2nd date...


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 2:32 pm:
Dude! You were TOTALLY nervous when we met- don't even try to deny it.

It's too bad you don't do the 'untucked dress shirt with jeans' look because you have the perfect build for it. Broad shoulders, nice pecs, narrow waistline, nice ass . Throw on the Chuck Taylors and you're good to go!

Tell ya what...Next time we meet, if you wear an untucked Oxford shirt, I will too .

sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
11/19/2012 5:18 am

If I'm meeting someone new....the hair and make up are done but I'd just wear something suitable for the occasion. If it's coffee....smart but casual. If it's dinner...well you can't beat the LBD. But I am terribly nervous because I'm so shy.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 7:01 pm:
Most of my meets are coffee dats, so jeans and a blouse seem to serve me well. When I know someone well enough (like THAT GUY), I go all out and dress to knock his socks off. Doesn't always work, but I feel sexier and that comes through in my attitude .

jim50plus 66M
2358 posts
11/19/2012 5:07 am

Course men get nervous when meeting someone new....but they could never, ever hem and haw over what shoes to wear. That's just wrong.

And if you made short ribs just to make a sauce for pasta, that's just showing off.


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 6:59 pm:
Good cooking is always about showing off, Dad. Why else would we put in the time and effort?

mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
11/19/2012 4:27 am

Take a shower.

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 6:58 pm:
I take showers even when I DON'T have dates, lol. You can rest assured that I most definitely scrub up when I'm going to meet someone .

mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
11/19/2012 4:26 am

    Quoting  :

LOL I do the same thing.

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 6:58 pm:
I have a feeling you're not alone. I think most guys jerk off before a date, lol.

lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
11/18/2012 10:10 pm

It's been so long since I was to meet someone new!
I wouldn't have to worry about getting a haircut though (got none)
I wouldn't wear a suit, but no sweats either!
I would have to decide what type of shirt to go with dress pants or cargo-pants.
I always wear a hat (feel naked without one) but would take it off upon meeting.
Would you say hi to snugglebuni for me when you see her?
Your meals sound yummy!!


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 6:57 pm:
I will absolutely convey your greeting to Buni . We're going to have a blast!

b3astly 31M

11/18/2012 10:10 pm

Men are usually more concerned about what to say than their looks.


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 6:57 pm:
Think so? I'll take your word for it . I worry about coming off like a spastic moron, lol. It's easy to be witty and engaging via messenger or text because you have the luxury of time. In person, it's a whole 'nother ball game!

Thanks for stopping by!

daveroswell 55M
4567 posts
11/18/2012 9:52 pm

Do men get nervous before a date? I sure do. Clothing? Yes and no. Most of the dates I seem to have are semi-casual. My style of dress is usually an oxford shirt, nice jeans, dark socks, and dress shoes. No athletic shoes on a first date. I just don't feel young or hip enough to wear trendy button-down shirts. I don't have any. I have the fashion sense of an engineer (because that's what I am). I probably need female intervention when it comes to date clothes.


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 6:55 pm:
Given your age and career, I think what you've described is perfectly appropriate for a first date. Let's just say that I wouldn't leave you standing alone for very long .

justskin1 72M
13175 posts
11/18/2012 8:58 pm

Interesting emails.
I hope the guy that gets all excited by your Packer cap never gets to Lambeau Field. It wouldn't be safe.
The one who can't spell must be a Lions fan. Bitter is such a turn off.
As for the last one, Hemorrhoids just don't get the charming thing.

Must admit that the Pack did have me a bit nervous in the 4th.

For an initial meet not too nervous if it gets to a date then I'm more likely to be nervous.


If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 6:53 pm:
I get nervous before meets and dates, but it's tempered by having a lot of prior knowledge and conversations with the dude beforehand. I rarely, if ever, meet anyone without having spoken to them in depth for a while, so I usually know what I'm getting myself in to .

spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
11/18/2012 7:56 pm

men get nervous, they better or they arent in it to win it. sorry to hear about hubby going blank. hunting season up here means lots of yummys in the work kitchen. have fun with buni. I would totally appreciate a break before christmas insanity. luckily i work away from home and i am planning a post christmas getaway.


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 6:52 pm:
I really need this getaway. Sounds weird since I just returned from Napa, but Hubby has been gone every day since we got back and I'm fed up with the whole 'single parent' gig. Plus I'm handling the hornet in his absence and you know how that goes .

JustSara1 70F
30 posts
11/18/2012 7:50 pm

I just be me,, nothing more,, if you try to impress by being someone your not, you can't carry the sham on for ever, eventually the real person comes out,, just be you,, if they don't like you they can keep walking, lots more where they came from


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 6:50 pm:
Well put, Sara! I do try to make an effort by wearing some makeup (I usually don't use any) and i might add some sassy earrings or something special like a bold scarf or a bright color, but my clothes need to reflect who I am. I can do 'dressed up' and 'dressed down' with equal ease, but I draw the line at shoes I can't walk in comfortably (or run away in, if it comes to that, lol).

Thanks for commenting!

SlenderGal88 57F  
10361 posts
11/18/2012 7:13 pm

I meet offline at a coffee shop, or Starbucks, and I wear nothing seductive or screaming cum fuck me. I wear my daily clothes, they would have to like me as I am, period.

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gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 6:47 pm:
I never dress for sex, unless I know for sure I'll be having some, lol. And a first date, no matter where it takes place, is never going to end up in bed. I do the coffee place thing too- jeans and a blouse, nothing too low cut. Yoga pants are too casual and a dress is too formal. Comfortable clothes mean I'll feel comfortable and that reflects in my demeanor .

hornyguyMN 43M
16352 posts
11/18/2012 7:11 pm

Yep I get really nervous before going out to meet someone new. I don't worry too much about cloths though. I've never been a believer in the "cloths make the man" philosophy. I worry more about my shyness and if they will like me, will I like them. That kind of stuff.


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 6:45 pm:
I agree- clothes don't 'make the man'. If he's an asshole, no amount of cologne and designer duds will change that.

thax013 46M
1089 posts
11/18/2012 6:56 pm

Yeah, I turn into a nervous wreck until I go to knock on the door. Take the deep breath, calm the nerves, then when she answers, treat her like the only thing that matters, ... like she deserves. I try to find a nice looking shirt. I don't think most men fret too much about clothes, as usually thier wardrobe is limited (I only have 3 pair of shoes: 1 pair of tux/suit shoes, 1 pair of good, nice tennis shoes, 1 pair of work boots (or old lawn-work shoes)) So shoes are an easy choice.

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gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 6:44 pm:
Truthfully, I'm not as concerned with what he's wearing relative to brand names and the like. I look more at how his clothes fit and whether his outfit is appropriate to his age and what we have planned for the evening. If he's dressed like a slob, as though he couldn't care less what I think and didn't put forth any effort, it's an automatic downer for me.

The one thing that will always turn me off is if he didn't bother to shave properly. I went on a meet once and the guy looked like he shaved in the dark with a credit card- it tells me that he doesn't take pride in his appearance. Bad news, in my opinion.

lookysearchy2 59M
1 post
11/18/2012 6:46 pm

somebody at work called it holy week in wis,


gottaring replies on 11/19/2012 6:40 pm:
Nah. The Badgers lost, so it wasn't a holy week, just a pretty good one

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