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Blogs > redmustang91 > Wild Red Mustang thoughts!

Soulmates or hookups?  

redmustang91 64M
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8/1/2020 5:19 am

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8/2/2020 5:22 am
Soulmates or hookups?

People come AdultFriendFinder with very different goals. Some want a soulmate and a lifetime of monagamy. These may be better off with M*tch or another place.

Some seek random immediate hookups. These are usually disappointed unless the profile is a young attractive girl.

What is in between? FWB or what used be called a love affair.

How is the FWB different from the love affair? The emotional engagement. The jealousy and the intensity. Fwb can last a while but is usually a transitional state.

I my experience just sex for fun is more of a male dream than a female one. Unless she is a commitment phobic lass like Samantha of Sex and the City fame.

Some women do have sex like a man, but not usually good wife material unless the couple are swingers.

No judgment intended say one person should be in a particular category, but usually best if both seek the same goal.

Also over time people often change goals. The 23 year party girl may want marry and be less promiscuous at age 38.

booby_01 48M/46F
75 posts
8/1/2020 7:56 pm

 well said


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