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Finding Some Perspective.........  

MyInnerVoice 67F  
1205 posts
1/16/2016 4:00 pm
Finding Some Perspective.........

I am feeling sad, lonely and lost. A thought popped into my head -- that I need to find some perspective. Hmmm.....find some. Where do I look for it? Is it already inside of me? Is it in my mind or heart....or both? Will I find it in a book? Perhaps the Bible or a dictionary? Will I find it with friends or family? A fortune cookie? Online? Here, on this site? In prayer or meditation?

This post was meant to be serious......and again, not so serious. Any ideas for me?

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submokey 69M/62F
10383 posts
2/21/2016 9:00 pm

Sometimes, it's right before your eyes, and you don't even know it! A smile, a look, just a clue to happiness!
You'll be fine, deep down you're a good soul!


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mrlovr59 66M
320 posts
1/24/2016 1:01 pm

yep, been there... Honey, however you find your peace, always remember your friends.Lean on them for support and suggestion.I am sure you have 2 or 3 kicking around somewhere...HUGS !

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Golly06 71M
1932 posts
1/21/2016 12:22 pm

Such an interesting question and nice posts. When I would feel sad, lonely, and lost, I found myself asking, "What's wrong with me?" I came to realize the answer was, "Nothing!" It is just a cycle that I go through and I learned to embrace it, because it seemed to pass quickly enough. The positive is, this is my time to feel and it can be a time of creative thinking/doing. Then there is the how can you know happiness if you don't know sadness argument. It is all perspective, isn't it? I learned to live with a philosophy (and these have already been mentioned) of Lovingkindness and Thankfulness. I find it difficult at times to hold on to my sadness, now. To answer the specific question you asked, I would have to answer all the things you mentioned, unless you can be one dimensional and are happy with a single view.

You might like Robert Frost's, "My November Guest," for another perspective. It starts, "My Sorrow when she's here with me..."


veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
1/18/2016 4:50 am

yes, we all get lonely once awhile. When I am lonely....I call somebody and make lunch date or a dinner date!

“Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
1/17/2016 11:29 am

Going through a rough time we are always here for you Voice. Just remember your never alone. Like Kinky said start making a list that seems to get your head into way ahead. That is what I have to do now too. I will forget something if I don't write it down. hugsssss V

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LincolnImpinger 70M

1/16/2016 5:12 pm

Got me-but you ever look back on a time in your life when you thought you didn't have a clue and then think you wish you had it as much together now as you did then?

Or is that perspective?


AmorphousAmor 64M
3574 posts
1/16/2016 4:24 pm

We're the sum of everything that's been part of us... what you value informs your happiness...for some it's friends, or family and for others it's a career or success defined otherwise...step back and assess what has made you happy in the past and what makes you happy now...


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