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Enough already, quit your bitching!
Enough already, quit your bitching! How many more blogs and comments am I going to see about people getting contacted by someone who doesn't meet their "list" of criteria and how upsetting or disillusioning it is? One of the basic premises of this site is hope; the hope you will be contacting a real person, not some fake profile, the hope that things will work out and you will get wild night of sex, that gangbang, that intimate evening, etc. Because of that, many people will contact you because they hope, if you give them a chance, they will be able to convince you that they are worth bending your rules. There are of course, other reasons they may be contacting you. I posted a blog last year about how too many people don't bother to read my profile before sending me a message. Of course, since then, it has happened many times still. Ok, I get it. Standard members can't read my profile so they are responding to whatever pictures they see or comments on my blog or seeing me in chat. So quite often, they don't know what I am looking for. No problem, it happens a lot and I politely decline if they are nice, bluntly decline if they are assholes or just block them if they are uber assholes. Then there are those folks who are just dumbasses. They use a shotgun approach, shoot out as many messages as possible, ignoring anything you have listed in your profile and just kind of hope for the best. Yes, they are annoying. I block them. Having said all this, I can assure you of one thing...no matter what you put on your profile, no matter how stringent your "list" is, and no matter how many times you bitch about it, you will be contacted by someone who you don't want to be contacted by. It's the nature of the site and the people on the site. So do what you have, block them, delete them, ignore them. Whatever. Just quit bitching about it already. So take what you can from the site, enjoy, laugh at it, have a great time or fucking quit. Just quit your bitching. Just my opinion And the pic is just because I like posting them Kisses, Coco Love "A hard man is good to find..." |
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I agree...I get contacted by many who haven't/can't read my profile or who I quite simply cannot imagine how they ever saw us as a fit but whining about it certainly does no good. I think those who whine are actually doing it for different reasons. It is a sad attempt at boosting their self image (something that goes on a lot here). By going on and on about all the unwanted contacts they are simply trying to convince themselves and others that they are incredibly desirable! We all want to feel desirable but that is not the way to accomplish it in my opinion.
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I agree... there are far too many "bitching" posts. Thoughts from the Garden...
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=-)) Makes me chuckle. I get junk mail in my inbox, but have yet to be contacted by anyone wanting to meet me, let alone anyone who has read my profile. Rest assured though, I know where the delete button is, if I am ever offended
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it happens. I don't get too upset about it. if they aren't what I'm looking for I just don't normally e-mail them back. I learnt a long time ago that politely telling them I wasn't interested cause them to get pretty irate. *shrug* oh well! ..just join me on my blog bustybettyboop and still looking for some hot,sexy,creative contestants for my next contest...come join us! need a blog mentor or want to be one?
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And as far as the pics..... well we enjoy them and like you posting them as well, lol. Smilesa thank you. Sexy and delicious as always!
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And I though all of us just came here to get away from the negativity at work etc.. Well I do! Absolutely love ALL your pics hun thanks for posting. What a fantasy!
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