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Is Casual Sex bad for Orgasms?
Is Casual Sex bad for Orgasms? I came across an article, which seems to make sense, but I want to put it out to all you intelligent people and get your opinion. Kim Wallen a professor at Emory University, conducted a study of 600 college students, and found that women were 50% less likely to orgasm from oral or vaginal sex during a casual sexual hook-up. Her results were fairly consistent with a larger study of 24,000 female college students, where only 40% were able to reach orgasm during casual sex, compared to 75% of the women reaching orgasm while in a relationship. Ladies and gentleman what do you feel may be the things that influence the frequency of orgasm while in a relationship, versus a casual hook-up? Find pleasure in giving pleasure |
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Its all about comfort and patients. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Wait, you mean all those 'expert" videos are wrong Communications is always the key to everything. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Not very concerned about college student studies. The subjects are very young and inexperienced, both the male and the female. I don't know the answer, but I don't take these type studies very seriously
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Being single myself and "addicted" to casual sexual hook-up I think that Mr Kim Wallen a professor at Emory University does not refer any other considerations (at least in your comment) about other issues related to youngsters such as the environment, drugs,alcohol and (in)experience! Also the length of the sexual involvement is vital when I know it takes time to pleasure and be pleasured. But certainly experience and patients will play a part. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Not very concerned about college student studies. The subjects are very young and inexperienced, both the male and the female. I don't know the answer, but I don't take these type studies very seriously Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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trust, comfort and knowledge Good girls go to heaven,....Bad girls go EVERYWHERE! I love to travel Come visit my blog tigger678902
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In any relationship you need trust, and being comfortable for who your with. These studies are with a group way younger then ourselves so I never take them very seriously hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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As a highly orgasmic woman, this isn't a problem for me. However, in my experience I would say that men in casual encounters or casual "relationships" don't really CARE about how it is for their partner; they are just in it for themselves. If it's good for them? Then it was good. In this as in so much else I see lately ... YOYO. I've got mine ... You're On Your Own. *sigh* Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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trust, comfort and knowledge Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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So for you, comfort and familiarity improves things. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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The more familiar the partners are with each other, the greater the orgasmic experience. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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First we must define what is a "relationship" and that would be a grey subject(for me)!! Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Just goes to show that it is a different experience for everyone. Some can but twice as many can't. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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In any relationship you need trust, and being comfortable for who your with. These studies are with a group way younger then ourselves so I never take them very seriously hugs V Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Interesting, strength but not frequency. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Hi -E', hi -H', a double visit. I hope they aren't; I see no reason for people to be untruthful, it serves no real purpose. Certain inexperience and shyness ( which would be connected with comfort level), would influence ladies reaching orgasm. But since I'm incapable of walking a mile in a ladies shoes (the don't come in my size, lol), I can't argue the point. I look forward, as always, to reading your post and deep diving into your viewpoint. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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AS we age, are ladies more comfortable with who they choose as their sexual partners? Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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I have to be comfortable with my partner, relaxed, opened and developed trust. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Khu you got that right there. I think as we age we get to know what we like and don't like in life hugs V Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Although I have found the best orgasm's come from knowing your partner, I think that is only part of the over all equation of good sex. There has to be a desire to make your partner feel the pleasure, this usually comes from knowing them, but there are people out there that are true pleasers, and can give that same level of desire in a casual sexual encounter, but when the Pleaser gets to know their partner its a whole new level Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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That would certainly have an influence. Thanks Sandra. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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