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You Fucking Slut…
You Fucking Slut… Ladies is being call a slut or a a turn on? Why? I keep reading blog after blog written by women, where you say your partner is fucking you in a spirited fashion, pulling your hair, slapping your ass, and then calling you a “fucking slut”, and it really turns you on. I’m all in when it comes to vocalizing and getting primal during a spirited affair… dirty talk, YES… get into it; but calling my partner a slut or a . Why is this a turn on for you? Explain it to me please. Find pleasure in giving pleasure |
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Some get turn on by that. Some men can't cum if they don't do it. I prefer moaners to dirty talkers, being called a slut or what ever they call one while getting shag is more a turn off for me. I appreciate so much our ability to fake orgasms in such moments, just survive the moment and stamp him....sex test failed. PS: Hoping I hasn't been too blunt.
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Some get turn on by that. Some men can't cum if they don't do it. I prefer moaners to dirty talkers, being called a slut or what ever they call one while getting shag is more a turn off for me. I appreciate so much our ability to fake orgasms in such moments, just survive the moment and stamp him....sex test failed. PS: Hoping I hasn't been too blunt. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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While I will never let my partner call me a whore (in play or not), being called a slut while playing is a term of endearment to many. The 'w' word just has too many bad images that just go through my mind. Some women when playing enjoy the 'w' word cause it may give them a feeling of submission to their partner. But that is just my opinion. Thank for your input, and welcome to my blog. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Uh, no. Not a turn on for me. I love it when my partner says, "Are you loving my cock up in side you? Fucking you? Sending you to cumming!?" Or "Fuck my cock! Let me drive it into you" or "Am I sucking your clit good? Are you loving that? Want me to fuck you some more?" Stuff like that. Calling me a name? Niet. No. Nein. That is so not happening. I wouldn't call you an asshole. Don't call me a whore, a bitch, a slut, or a cunt. Please call me endearing names like, honey, sweetie, love, pretty one. I don't get it, either. It might be that whole "I don't want to take control of my sexuality, so if you call me a slut, then I must act like one". That's not a judgement, just an observation. Kitkat Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I want to be with a wicked and naughty woman. I guess I just don't separate the sexual me from the rest of me in everyday life. So slut and whore carries the same meaning for me in and out of the bedroom. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Kinky, I always saw both words as interchangeable based on it use in the everyday world, and you see the as separate and distinct. To me, they were always words used to control or limit the sexuality of women, you know the whole stud/slut = good/bad dichotomy. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Hearing heartfelt vocalization that make you good about yourself and your efforts is definitely at turn-on. I guess there are differences in what we individually find endearing. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Is that the best! "feels sooooo gooood" Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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They'll be very excited about your profile over on Match. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I agree. Those words don't give me a warm fuzzy feeling, but it seems for some it does. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I guess it has to do with the intent(?)... context that the word is used. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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khu blunt answer never call me that! I find it very offensive when someone calls me a fucking slut. For some it is a turn on but not for me... grrrrrrr hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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khu blunt answer never call me that! I find it very offensive when someone calls me a fucking slut. For some it is a turn on but not for me... grrrrrrr hugs V Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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For most of us on here you will find that word slut is a bad word. I remember when this site signed up to another site without asking our permission and called Fuck a slut. Now you can just think what the female population had to say. I have no clue why some like to be abused this way .. hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Understood, that why my curiosity. I knew use of the term was a common practice in the BDSM world, but I thought it was just the language that was adopted. Kind of like black people dropping N-bombs as a term of endearment. What threw me is the bloggers I see using it, don't seem to identify with BDSM world. But being turned on by the use of the word(s) was hard to wrap my head around. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I definitely do NOT find being called such names a turn on. ~~Anais Nin~~
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I definitely do NOT find being called such names a turn on. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Sandra, why is it a turn for you? Does it turn you on more than other words spoken in the heat of the moment? Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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hmmmm let's see,...it's because it's just for fun,...and the way it's said,...I don't like it if it's said meanly,...or in a "harsh" way,...I never thought I would like it at all actually but one friend has used it to good effect,...not while hair pulling and ass slapping and I guess sort of toned down a bit as in "slutty girl" not just slut and in this case the tone is praise not derogatory I was also suprised in the past when I was turned on by play partner calling me a cocksucker,...and my partner in crime calls me her sexy bitch,...none of those phrases would be welcome outside of the sexual forum and certianly if the tone of voice were not appreciative or praising they would not have a positive effect on my libido,... I think it's the taboo and the surprise, that make them effective Good girls go to heaven,....Bad girls go EVERYWHERE! I love to travel Come visit my blog tigger678902
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hmmmm let's see,...it's because it's just for fun,...and the way it's said,...I don't like it if it's said meanly,...or in a "harsh" way,...I never thought I would like it at all actually but one friend has used it to good effect,...not while hair pulling and ass slapping and I guess sort of toned down a bit as in "slutty girl" not just slut and in this case the tone is praise not derogatory I was also suprised in the past when I was turned on by play partner calling me a cocksucker,...and my partner in crime calls me her sexy bitch,...none of those phrases would be welcome outside of the sexual forum and certianly if the tone of voice were not appreciative or praising they would not have a positive effect on my libido,... I think it's the taboo and the surprise, that make them effective Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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oh that doesn't mean I don't get turned on by other words and phrases of a more acceptable background, becasue I do,...BUT slut is a word I've used playfully for years,...my girlfriends and I called ourselves sluts in that way of reclaiming the language like other "denegrated" and marginalized groups,... But the word that still doesn't work for me is cunt,...that's a terrible word Good girls go to heaven,....Bad girls go EVERYWHERE! I love to travel Come visit my blog tigger678902
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oh that doesn't mean I don't get turned on by other words and phrases of a more acceptable background, becasue I do,...BUT slut is a word I've used playfully for years,...my girlfriends and I called ourselves sluts in that way of reclaiming the language like other "denegrated" and marginalized groups,... But the word that still doesn't work for me is cunt,...that's a terrible word Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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When you were turn on by it, was it while engaged in BDSM role play? Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Khu, good question! In my experience, the vocabulary needs to be complimentary to the "mood" and the partner rather than the "mode" (BDSM, D/s, ...), the age, and the marital status. "Slut" or "naughty girl" or "My Gawd your are beautiful!" greatly depends upon her marital status and her "kinky" leanings". Kinky's comment supports her "provocative attitude" towards her marital status and "getting naughty" outside her marital "confines"; then again she is Aquarius. "Whore" and "her" (ex)husband's diminutive for "her" are totally taboo. Setting the stage for "her" to be "naughty" is always a good premise for "fun time" as long as you are giving her "ownership"; such "ownership" varies as greatly as each woman herself (and your acceptance for the way she is and wants to be). Her level of confidence is a necessary fundamental and prelude. The "tell" is in the flirting, eyes, kisses, touches, and her titillation. Yup! Women are "complicated" because they want to "feel it" and be emotionally involved. It is up to her partner to compliment and invest in her emotionality. She wants to be unique and you to recognize that uniqueness. Not to recognize such individuality is to doom her relationship with you for failure. IMHO [psst This is covered in more detail. Search "tryst" "rules" on my blog. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Interesting. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Just a personal like Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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itsjust4u1960 Thanks! Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I with you! But after this post, I understand it a little better, but I'm still not going to do it. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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" I also think that openagenda is WAY overthinking it and trying way too hard to analyze women in general." For someone whose handle "itsjust4u" and is not as familiar with openagenda's blogs then rambles on that "unique" is " a basic human need" ???? Must be heat stroke of the AZ sun.
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" I also think that openagenda is WAY overthinking it and trying way too hard to analyze women in general." For someone whose handle "itsjust4u" and is not as familiar with openagenda's blogs then rambles on that "unique" is " a basic human need" ???? Must be heat stroke of the AZ sun. Openagenda has presented his opinion on a question I put to the ladies. itsjust4u (a lady I might add), has put forth her opinion. Both of the aforementioned commenters and everyone else have put forth an opinion on the topic at hand. This post is not about Openagenda's blog, but an entirely different topic; on that issue I am the authoritative voice, since it's my topic and my blog. All opinions on a topic are welcomed. We will not all agree on a particular topic, that's the whole purpose behind discussing something. But if you are going to disagree with someone’s position, I expect it to be done respectfully and not in a fashion that hints of mean spiritedness, or troll like bulling behavior. If there is to be a bully in my blog, it will be me! I strongly encourage you to support your position when you disagree with someone’s opinion. If you want to analyze people's handles or write about another topic, start your own blog and do it there, not here! Thank you. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Khu and itsjust4u Whole heartedly agree with both of your responses to Turnedon4U. Seems those who do not invest time and effort in a blog of their own have a penchant for "hit and run" comments. Let it be clear, I don't need someone to defend my comments nor do I expect all to agree with them. Tis what blogging is about - diversity of discussion. Nuff said. Come visit openagenda: provocative thought, adult discussions, sexy pics & giggles. Is This How Friday The GET IT ON Solution MASSAGE exploring partners SEDUCTION Love What is it Relationship Rules Trust and other Issues Essence Be In Tune Does Size Matter The Facts Hand in Hand
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