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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
11/29/2014 8:49 am

I used to have firm rules but I realized like most things in my life....there seem to be more grey...and less black and white. I try to follow basic rules or boundaries, but I I try to keep an open mind

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ScorpioNOV1972 51M
415 posts
11/29/2014 9:02 am

While there are a lot of "what if's" involved with everything we do. This particular scenario is no different. Sure, there's a chance when you meet you may not be attracted to each other. There's also a chance you both might be more attracted than you initially imagined. I have to agree though. This site does help to bring things out on the "table" in regards to things of a more personal nature.

As long as you're honest with each other, nothing bad can come of it, right? I'm sure with your bubbly personality and sweet pink lips, you have nothing to worry about.

Just do what your heart tells you, AFTER you triple check it with your brain.

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flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
11/29/2014 9:35 am

I can't afford to have hard and fast rules given the poverty of my love/sex life !

Apart from the one; if I was actively looking these days then the only rule would be that my partner is female.


rm_fun4pleaser 69M
462 posts
11/29/2014 9:47 am

Well, the rule is what you have imposed, so you can change it as you see fit. The essence of the situation here is that if this works for both of you, then there is no real reason not to go for it and see how it plays out.
We always regret the choices no made, the paths not taken. Yes, there is a possibility that once you meet you will not want to move things forward, but that is just part of the adventure, right?
And while they are not cheap, one of you flying to the other is likely to cost the same as you both driving 6 hours and then not having anyplace to go if things do click. My vote is for one of you (okay, him) to fly to you and then you are still on your home turf with some comfort level.


Lynn1812 54M
4928 posts
11/29/2014 9:50 am

As a man that is stuck at the crossroads of "Waiting for the perfect girl" and "You ain't getting any younger, richer or prettier", I find myself constantly struggling with thoughts about what concepts I my have to compromise on if I want to share my life with anyone.

As it currently stands, there is one woman in the entire world that will have anything to do with me and seeing her requires passports and international air fare. To make matters worse, even though she is very cute, I'm a breast man and she's got the chest of a 12 yo boy. She has many wonderful qualities, but she also has a few annoying habits too. In short, she's NOT the perfect girl for me, but she may be my last and only chance to not die alone.

I don't know what to do.


FreddiesFling 61M
3707 posts
11/29/2014 10:06 am

I don't have any sage advice for you right now... but I do want to wish you the best of luck!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/29/2014 10:20 am

Having rules is a fine thing. Without rules how will you know if you're really enjoying yourself except by breaking them? PD and I broke the distance limit when we first stumbled over each other and it was so much fun we went all out and broke all the rest of them too. I'll be checking our list now that you've brought it up to see if we can't juice things up by violating a few more rules, social conventions or taboos.

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flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
11/29/2014 10:40 am

As you can see, i'm on the horn of a dilemma !


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
11/29/2014 1:24 pm

You really won't know until you try.


lomileage5 68M
10248 posts
11/29/2014 5:29 pm

life has taught me to "never say never" about much of anything. being a true romantic,i know I will do foolish things in pursuit of my dream


getlucky2132 45M
4996 posts
11/29/2014 6:36 pm

You seem to have a good sense of direction and stuff, but at the same time it has lead you into situations that weren't into your best interest? I dunno Pink, I like you and damn you're quite the catch......I trust your judgement......Game Theory! Remember it! Baby I only wish the best for you!

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normalisoktoo 54M

11/30/2014 9:34 am

FWIW, the best relationships I have ever had have been long distance.


funone0712 63M

11/30/2014 1:42 pm

Pink,
Your rules should be more like guidelines.
You know I will support your decision and you know I want you to be happy - my two cents says take the chance because otherwise you will never know.


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