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I used to have firm rules but I realized like most things in my life....there seem to be more grey...and less black and white. I try to follow basic rules or boundaries, but I I try to keep an open mind “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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While there are a lot of "what if's" involved with everything we do. This particular scenario is no different. Sure, there's a chance when you meet you may not be attracted to each other. There's also a chance you both might be more attracted than you initially imagined. I have to agree though. This site does help to bring things out on the "table" in regards to things of a more personal nature. As long as you're honest with each other, nothing bad can come of it, right? I'm sure with your bubbly personality and sweet pink lips, you have nothing to worry about. Just do what your heart tells you, AFTER you triple check it with your brain. One on one consult - For all your love and relationship needs. The one question challenge - One free question! Ask me anything!
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I can't afford to have hard and fast rules given the poverty of my love/sex life ! Apart from the one; if I was actively looking these days then the only rule would be that my partner is female.
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Well, the rule is what you have imposed, so you can change it as you see fit. The essence of the situation here is that if this works for both of you, then there is no real reason not to go for it and see how it plays out. We always regret the choices no made, the paths not taken. Yes, there is a possibility that once you meet you will not want to move things forward, but that is just part of the adventure, right? And while they are not cheap, one of you flying to the other is likely to cost the same as you both driving 6 hours and then not having anyplace to go if things do click. My vote is for one of you (okay, him) to fly to you and then you are still on your home turf with some comfort level.
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As a man that is stuck at the crossroads of "Waiting for the perfect girl" and "You ain't getting any younger, richer or prettier", I find myself constantly struggling with thoughts about what concepts I my have to compromise on if I want to share my life with anyone. As it currently stands, there is one woman in the entire world that will have anything to do with me and seeing her requires passports and international air fare. To make matters worse, even though she is very cute, I'm a breast man and she's got the chest of a 12 yo boy. She has many wonderful qualities, but she also has a few annoying habits too. In short, she's NOT the perfect girl for me, but she may be my last and only chance to not die alone. I don't know what to do.
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I don't have any sage advice for you right now... but I do want to wish you the best of luck! You can visit my blog here FreddiesFling!
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Having rules is a fine thing. Without rules how will you know if you're really enjoying yourself except by breaking them? PD and I broke the distance limit when we first stumbled over each other and it was so much fun we went all out and broke all the rest of them too. I'll be checking our list now that you've brought it up to see if we can't juice things up by violating a few more rules, social conventions or taboos. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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As you can see, i'm on the horn of a dilemma !
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You really won't know until you try.
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life has taught me to "never say never" about much of anything. being a true romantic,i know I will do foolish things in pursuit of my dream
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You seem to have a good sense of direction and stuff, but at the same time it has lead you into situations that weren't into your best interest? I dunno Pink, I like you and damn you're quite the catch......I trust your judgement......Game Theory! Remember it! Baby I only wish the best for you! Greater Than The Sum Of My Constituent Parts!
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11/30/2014 9:34 am |
FWIW, the best relationships I have ever had have been long distance.
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11/30/2014 1:42 pm |
Pink, Your rules should be more like guidelines. You know I will support your decision and you know I want you to be happy - my two cents says take the chance because otherwise you will never know.
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