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Introductions
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Introductions Gemini is the writer, Cancer the more social.. so what you see here will be mostly Gemini, if you see us in the chat rooms it will be Cancer. Before marriage Gemini had a few unusual sexual experiences. Among them 3 MFMs, and 1FMF . As the extra man invited to join a couple I felt incredibly complimented and trusted. It was a revelation to discover that a husband could love his wife's pleasure so much that he'd ask a friend to join them. And I learned then that women are capable of so much more pleasure than we poor men are, and how erotic and fulfilling it can be to let HER pleasure be the focus. Cancer also had some past experience, but hers was unfulfilled. The experience she thought theyd have, with a friend joining THEM, played out as her and the friend alone while her husband went elsewhere to masturbate. Turned out he had been single and porn addicted so long he couldn't be a fulfilling sexual, or a good husband. We shared our stories when our 8 years as friends turned to romance, and surprised the hell out of each other. As friends we had no idea how naughty each of us could be. And we agreed that if the future brought us the opportunity to be naughty together wed consider it. We have since then mostly let fate bring our experiences. We have had intimate encounters with 5 men and 1 women. None of them went exactly as we had thought, so we are used to the idea you can never really plan out a fantasy in advance. Each had its erotic excitements for one or the other of us, but both of us came away with different opinions of the experience. A couple of the men Cancer wouldn't have picked purposely, and they actually disappointed her sexually. But Gemini did finish the evening for her were they failed, and he thought it was really erotic just to have tried. But Gemini also has to admit to a little disappointment that neither man could finish the act. One it turns out had a long term erection problem... and the other just freaked out by it. Which is one reason we feel waiting for a random chance doesn't work, if the extra party is surprised and uncomfortable, well it doesn't make for a good erection. Two of the men were involved multiple times. Cancer decided she might be more comfortable, and able to make the man more comfortable, if she was intimate with him alone first. Gemini, as open minded and erotic as he is, really isn't in to that. He really likes Cancer's orgasms, and wants to be a part, even if its just watching or holding her hand. But we gave this a try... with the first Cancer explained that Gemini was cool with them being together, but really wanted to be involved eventually. The sex was always in the house with Gemini .. and Gemini got to do a little peeping which was fun, but the friend dropped out of the picture. The next guy was in many ways a mistake, but not a regret. He was a previous lover of Cancer's, and doesn't live in the same town. Gemini was uncomfortable because he just couldn't feel a part of what was happening from so far away and not being able to be with Cancer immediately after, flush and wet with orgasm and ready for more with Gemini. But Cancer was getting a lot from this, and it became a regular boyfriend thing. Being away from home, and and stress, Cancer was more relaxed than at home. Her boyfriend had found in her new ways of pleasure, and she brought what she found home to share with Gemini. BUT.... it got out of hand... Cancer begin spending ALL of her sexual energy at the boyfriends, the boyfriend while agreeing to takes steps toward involving Gemini never went through with it... and eventually it ended badly. Finally to be said.. Cancer had a lovely girlfriend who was separated and 18 months sexless. She offered Gemini to her friend for a night. Gemini was really surprised.. it took a few weeks to work up to it. But when it did happen was truly amazed. Taking the lady by the hand, kissing her, and then taking her to the bedroom to please her. Again, things didn't go quite as planned, Gemini did please the lady in ways, but Cancer was just a little freaked to see him actually fuck another woman, so the intercourse for the night was just between Cancer and Gemini. But Cancer did make sure Gemini did all he could with the rest of his skills, and even got so aroused she helped a bit. The sum of these experiences is a more aware and mature understanding of what we want and what might happen, the good and the bad. The best times were those when we all new what was happening in advance. And when we all new the sex was for fun. In fact, Gemini was amazed with how much fun it was not to have to date, romance, seduce, worry about rejection, or the morning after. JUST FUN SEX was really really cool. We also learned that you need to keep your relationship as a couple ONLY for love and intimacy. You can go outside one partners comfort zone for the other, but not too far. WE thought wed try here to continue our journey... take random fate out of the mix, and find partners who were already up for the experience... |
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