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What is there to fear?  

sexy4uplay 65F  
126 posts
8/14/2019 8:20 am
What is there to fear?

Hi my friends,
I was wondering what are the fears for guys to overcome as they face the reality they have accepted an invitation to a "sharing" party? ( is a party where<b> multiple </font></b>men respectfully share a woman or sometimes two women)

Is there a fear more complicated than their guy won't stand at attention?

I had a very fun get together. It was wonderful but there were several guys who initially accepted invitations and seemed excited to come but in the end they cancelled. They were literally begging for an invitation and on Thursday they got one and immediately accepted ... then one cancelled Friday night and one Saturday morning, and one on Saturday afternoon.

your thoughts and suggestions on how I can make the guys feel better about coming out and joining in the fun?

Hope you are all having a wonderful day.

Sexie

sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
8/14/2019 12:39 pm

 Just the way some people are, they can't wait to be invited to something, then back out at the last minute, maybe "Crowd fear"--eh ?


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
8/14/2019 3:42 pm

 I say it is performance anxiety. Fear of getting caught, getting a disease, maybe not as intriguing as it sounded at first. Sometimes our mouth will overload our ass. A lot of men will set up a meet here, then flake. No easy answers.


FordtruckWorld9j 79M  
72 posts
11/10/2019 5:24 am

 They have a complex for group play. It's hard to go into a room full of guys and women and be ready for action. Some are like that, but you all ways have the one that are right at home for playtime fun, LOL... Hell, I would love an invite, always ready, whew, LMAO..


Sillyideas 62M
3 posts
11/23/2019 1:35 pm

 Coming from someone who has never flaked, I can only speculate.

They weren’t really single and could not sneak away?
Had always fantasied about group sex but got cold feet?
Fear of same sex contact during sex?

I remember my first MFM 45 years ago, was awkward having to account for extra appendages. But once you’ve gotten past that, the addition of an extra person(s) is so incredible, you long for it again and again.


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