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Who would have thought that it would be this long between posts?  

Timetraveler2 60M  
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1/25/2017 12:47 pm

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1/25/2017 5:46 pm

Who would have thought that it would be this long between posts?


Wow, it's been over eight months since I last posted anything on here, you would have thought that I had been busy, or at least had started seeing someone. No such luck, just a lack of inspiration I guess.

Anyhow, I have been reading several blogs over that time, and have also written back and forth with a few really great people; yes, there are some interesting and caring folks on here who I am glad that I have found. As I have said in previous posts, I see this site as social network, granted one geared towards hopefully mature adults, but a social network none the less. We post status updates, memes, cartoons, and photos, not the types we want our to see, but still they do amuse us.
I did read a blog earlier that pointed out something that I hadn't really thought about before. It dealt with the NSA (no strings attached) idea, and it is why I decided to post this. I really do agree that when someone posts this they can't really think that they are going to get anywhere. While I am not looking to get married to someone, I don't know how anyone could think that they are going to find an intelligent person just willing to randomly hook up with them without any emotions involved. If all someone is looking for is a "hit & run" then it would make more sense to just hire someone and be done with it. After all, if sex is all you want, why bother paying for dinner or anything else, just pay them for their service, and they might even let you think that you pleased them also.
Maybe I am in the minority here, but I do believe that you can be "friends" with someone and still not be fully involved. It is nice to be needed or wanted, and is it really a bad thing if someone calls you to just talk, or ask for a small favor? I truly think that the sex with someone would be much better if there is something more there besides the physical deed. Of course, if all you are looking for is to get it on the side, and can't be seen in public with someone else due to the repercussions of being "found out" then again, I go back to my original point, just hire someone to get your relief from.
I am not calling anyone out, we all have our reasons for being here, I am just saying that having a friendship that comes with the extra benefits might give you more satisfaction, after all, you never know when you might need that person to be there for you too.

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