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"Who'se fault is it"?  

scoupe42 60M
6747 posts
5/19/2019 8:53 am

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5/20/2019 7:14 pm

"Who'se fault is it"?

The other night I was talking to a buddy on the phone, he sell alarm system, and It was getting late. I asked, was he heading home? He said, he going to get a little sex before he heads home, piece of shit! He has a wife at home, she got to be nieve! For he be cheating for years. He said, and box of candy, flowers once in a while and he could do what the fuck he wants to do!

I talked to her on the phone a few months back, she said, he haven't changed in over 20 years. He know she threating him but she not going anywhere, so he cover his tracks. I asked him, why not get a divorced? Let her find someone better. But he feels like he's doing his part with bills, and he said, she not the lovely- dovey type, he figured he can do what he wants!

People like Leopards, they don't change their stripes! I wish one day she'll be like Popeyes, and say, "There so much I can stand, I can't stands no more"! Popeyes say this before he<b> whips </font></b>Bluto's ass! There's another buddy, a piece of shit too! He was living rent free with girlfriend after getting out of the military. While she was at work, he decided to have a woman at their apartment.

Unfortunate, her and her sister come by for lunch, and they caught him eating the girl's pie! She threw them both out and told him to get his stuff! He eventually got his own apartment. 6 months later, he called me, and ask can I still be the best man at the wedding. I said, What? She still wants to marry you? He said yeah. So they got married on a Saturday, on Sunday he disappear for a few days.

I know for sure Tuesday, he cheated. Over the years, he once in a while didn't come home, now she pregnant with his baby. One day, she came to my apartment and said, Jack is no good! He cheats and not a good husband, everything happened is Jack's fault! I told her "Wrong'! It's you fault! "Why would you marry him? He cheated as your boyfriend, why wouldn't he cheat as a husband?????











2trythis 60F
5109 posts
5/19/2019 4:57 pm

Based on your descriptions it seems that both parties in each scenario are at fault. What is it they say, there are three sides to every story: his, hers, and the truth.


scoupe42 replies on 5/19/2019 6:42 pm:
I can see that! Thx for viewing and the comment.

sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
5/19/2019 1:15 pm

It's difficult to say who was wrong....but to marry a man who cheats on you before you got married is stupid in my opinion.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


scoupe42 replies on 5/19/2019 1:25 pm:
Hi my friend, It's always nice to have you view! I agree, why would someone marry some who cheats?

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
5/19/2019 1:09 pm

All four of them are wrong. Think about it #1 wife for putting up with it for 20 years. #1 husband for not trying better communication with the wife years ago so she might get to be lovey dovey.
#2 girlfriends was right to evict him and wrong to marry him #2 guy thinks he got away with it Wrong. There is an entire roomful of KARMA going to visit these folks before they realize it Great Post

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scoupe42 replies on 5/19/2019 1:21 pm:
Absolutely! Putting up with stuff and doing stuff is both wrong! But the wife, and she still married to him, now 24 year, she not happy, but she's now at fault for not getting a divorce. And the second situation, after so many years of him doing her wrong. Believe or not, "He" divorced her! He said, he felt bad for ruin 7 years of her life. They been divorced many years now. He slowed down to a crawl, because his body and mind is not the same. Thanks for the awesome feedback!

positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
5/19/2019 12:58 pm

People will treat you as you allow them to. Both of them are wrong. He will find himself old and alone one day. Wondering what happened.


scoupe42 replies on 5/19/2019 1:01 pm:
Thx for viewing and feedback.

CampoGirl 57F
43434 posts
5/19/2019 12:06 pm

Maybe you dont know everything about some couples... they could have agreements about sharing and swinging long before. Most men I have been with wanted a 3rd party.

But people label People like me a "CHEATER" too. My husband doesnt care...nor keep a married mans schedule either!!! Im HAPPY he is happy!!!
He's happy when I am too... even if its not him making me happy.

Not many can understand. TRULY and not all are "CHEATERS" You dont know their bed secrets!

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scoupe42 replies on 5/19/2019 12:35 pm:
You have some great points, but the wife involved, doesn't know the husband messes around, and in the other situation the wife told me he's a cheater!

scoupe42 replies on 5/19/2019 1:10 pm:
If you and your husband have that type of relationship, this is totally different! But if someone doing something behind someone's back, that different!

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/19/2019 10:36 am

Sometimes... ya just gotta walk away... 🤔


scoupe42 replies on 5/19/2019 10:40 am:
yes, it's the best thing to do!

Michaelmjblucas1 54M

5/19/2019 10:17 am

This is a REALLY good topic, scoupe42 ! Who's fault is it ? That first guy... he's a piece of crap ! He's married, yet sex means more to him ! His reason is that he's doing his part with bills and such, so it's no bit deal ! ? Well, he's going to have a bad life! The sad part, is he's so stupid, he doesn't even know it !

Your 2nd friend is a not a good one either, as you know. He has a girlfriend - an HONARABLE person too, yet he cheats on her! AND.... she STILL wants to marry him ! ? She must be an angel, for being so forgiving.., or very naïve and stupid to think he REALLY loves HER, right ! She must be in idiot too, as both don't know what love IS ! So maybe they were meant for each other !
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The reason why some women stay with some guys like Jack, is because they are insecure. They think with their feelings, instead of their brain. The saying, "Love is blind," is SO true ! She'll learn the hard way, which most do!

scoupe42, try not to judge them. Be a friend to them, but stick with your principles. Do not interfere with their relationship! If you're right, they will have an unhappy life. if you interfere, such people will make your life miserable too!

It's better to stay above that stuff.

Being curious and asking questions is a good thing!


scoupe42 replies on 5/19/2019 10:40 am:
Wow, love the feed back!!!!! thx for viewing.

dogslife2live01 71M

5/19/2019 9:31 am

why is someone always to blame? at the time being Mrs. took priority in her life...and now something else is of higher importance. was he less of a dog when she was a miss. welcome to the 21st century when pregnancy is a choice.
one does what one does to fill their needs... if their needs change why is it always someone else that is at fault?
if one believes that they have the power to change someone else
if one believes that a child will force a stronger bond
then who is at fault the one that does not change...or the one who forces change?

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


scoupe42 replies on 5/19/2019 9:39 am:
Sir, I appreciate your feedback, people might agree or disagree on things, but to me I always love someone views on any topic, thanks for viewing too!

Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
5/19/2019 9:01 am

That is one man that needs to learn some lessons in life, its shame that he did that to his wife. Some people just never learn my friend, that's not the kind of man I would ever want to be with. I hope you have a peaceful day..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


scoupe42 replies on 5/19/2019 9:14 am:
Hi Temp, he's is a dog! Thx for feedback and viewing. have a great day!

scoupe42 60M

5/19/2019 8:57 am

So any situation, who is more wrong, the person who do someone wrong, or the person who allow someone to do them wrong?


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