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MsJaneBondage 50F  
139 posts
2/15/2020 11:15 am

Oh My Fuking God!!!!!
You have hit the nail on the head of exactly what I think.
When a guy says that age is just a number... My thought is that they are just horney little fuckers and think I'm so sexually desperate that I would fuck them. Quite the opposite. I am, like you, interested in men that are in my age range for the similatiries we have due to our age. Even 5 years younger is sometimes difficult to find a connection.

Thank you for youur post....


NJcock4mouths 32M
12 posts
2/15/2020 11:40 am

I think it's more about a certain level of maturity, not age. It is simply a number. Like you said you're a 35 year old trapped inside an older woman's body, I happen to be the opposite. I've also gotten along better with people much older than me, and am more attracted to minds than bodies. Old souls are a thing. And, to be honest, most people my age kind of strike me as dull or synthetic.


helen_damnation 57F  
2472 posts
2/15/2020 11:57 am

Exactly. Well, I am not retired, but still, different stage altogether

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T_Louise 51F  
127 posts
2/15/2020 12:05 pm

Couldn't have said it any better myself, superbjversion2. Thank you for posting. I get many a young man asking me if I like younger men. My answer is usually no, simply because they asked, and because I know it's a fetish they want to fulfill. Age is not just a number, there is way more to it like you said. I find most people who are born after 1980, well, they just live in another world compared to what I grew up in. It's a matter of being able to relate to each other's worlds.

Mind you, NJcock4mouths has valid points. There are old souls. I've felt like an old soul ever since I can remember. Like him, I also gravitated toward older people. I grew up in a family of older people, so I was exposed a lot to older people. Like NJ, I found it difficult to relate to people my own age, at the time. On the same token though, I have met some rather immature 50 year old men. So really, it does depend a lot of mental maturity. And hopefully, they have no encumbrances at home.


GhostofH 61M
19766 posts
2/15/2020 12:17 pm

I agree with your post for the most part.... however I will admit there are a few exceptions to the rule.... just very VERY few.....


Paulxx001 63M
16628 posts
2/15/2020 1:12 pm

I get harassed by younger women half my age, periodically and - I agree - it's fricken annoying.
Of course... they're usually driving cars with flashing lights, they wear a badge and they carry a gun.

I simply explain that I'm not their type and... it was the asshole in front of me who was speeding.
Sometimes... they feel sorry for me and let me go.
Age has its benefits. 😶🌹


Granny872 67F  
2413 posts
2/15/2020 1:47 pm

    Quoting T_Louise:
    Couldn't have said it any better myself, superbjversion2. Thank you for posting. I get many a young man asking me if I like younger men. My answer is usually no, simply because they asked, and because I know it's a fetish they want to fulfill. Age is not just a number, there is way more to it like you said. I find most people who are born after 1980, well, they just live in another world compared to what I grew up in. It's a matter of being able to relate to each other's worlds.

    Mind you, NJcock4mouths has valid points. There are old souls. I've felt like an old soul ever since I can remember. Like him, I also gravitated toward older people. I grew up in a family of older people, so I was exposed a lot to older people. Like NJ, I found it difficult to relate to people my own age, at the time. On the same token though, I have met some rather immature 50 year old men. So really, it does depend a lot of mental maturity. And hopefully, they have no encumbrances at home.
and because I know it's a fetish they want to fulfill. This is exactly what I think the majority of inquiries from young men are really all about. An older woman is something on their bucket list. Ugh. They clearly don't realize how condescending that is, or they would never ask the question.


CleavageFan4U 63M  
62042 posts
2/15/2020 2:48 pm

I know how you feel. I just wish those 20-something hard-bodied girls would just leave this dirty old man alone!!

Sarcasm aside, I DO get your point babe. But fortunately at this point in my life it would be quite amazing to hear from a lady that I'm too young.

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redrockrascal 61M
21596 posts
2/15/2020 4:22 pm

    Quoting GhostofH:
    I agree with your post for the most part.... however I will admit there are a few exceptions to the rule.... just very VERY few.....
Yeah, this, plus . . .

Age, the number, is a way to describe and/or quantify the amount of experience a person MAY have had. And hopefully they have enjoyed and learned from. The differences, based on the number, can be significant in some situations.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

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Brownie202 63F  
1822 posts
2/15/2020 4:29 pm

To me age is more then a number. No young ones for me which some younger do not like hearing. I will not change what I want just because a man loves older women. Move on to the next profile. Maybe that one is deperate. Not this one. One man said no older women near him. Like I will talk to him because he is desperate.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


secret_lade 46F
3894 posts
2/15/2020 4:51 pm

And I don't want to spend my time waiting for you to have time for me.

I couldn't agree more.


smartasswoman 62F  
33145 posts
2/15/2020 4:59 pm

I hear you. This is also one of the practical reasons that I avoid getting involved with guys who are attached - the logistics. I don't really want to try to squeeze in a "nooner" on someone's lunch hour.

Side note, there are starting to be an alarming number of men our age who still have children under college age. Apparently a lot of guys reeeaaalllly put off having kids.


MMXX2020 49M
174 posts
2/15/2020 5:04 pm

I have enjoyed long term relationships with with younger, older and my age. Since my late teens, I was attracted to older women and I still do. I accept the argument about the different stages in life and that it is possible that time might or will catch up but if two people with some age difference get along well, have chemistry and develop feelings why not? Not everyone, whether a younger man or an older women look it as part of a bucket list or a fantasy. I am not going to say that age is just a number but a great relationship is possible if two people match.


HeartCollector 63F  

2/15/2020 5:22 pm

I-am-not-a-cougar either. Youngsters are cute to look at but I don’t want one for my own.

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pagancountrygirl 62F
5216 posts
2/15/2020 5:51 pm

What you said!
I still work, but the rest applies. And since I still work, that means I would be wasting what little free time I have waiting on someone that would be cancelling on me...or be a no-show. Not only that, but my brain just automatically shouts "NO" whenever some much younger man contacts me.

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jajo696 65F
2217 posts
2/16/2020 12:46 am

Very well said...BJ. There are exceptions...as in the younger man with ' flexible time', but its also about experiences and maturity .

I also dont want to be an experiment or an experience. I find that shallow.

We all must weed thru the goods here....hoping to find compatibility~~


pal334 66M  
40538 posts
2/16/2020 6:52 am

Well said! That is the reality, nothing we can do about it, lets just accept life and enjoy it

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travellerabc123 50M
3820 posts
2/16/2020 8:27 am

Excellent as always.

Embrace the suck


CleavageFan4U 63M  
62042 posts
2/17/2020 6:29 am

superbjversion2 replies on 2/16/2020 12:58 pm:
That begs the question - would you tell someone that they are too young?

*****

I HAVE!!

But full disclosure, it was right after Backpage was shut down and the pros were flooding here. I figured that was the case, so I just sent them away using their age as a simple reason.

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azriel1970 49M  
30007 posts
2/18/2020 5:06 am

I get that fact that you are at a different stage in my life! I am starting to feel that way!


Wonder167 53F

2/19/2020 12:02 pm

I agree with some of the comments regarding the younger v older being fetish based in some instances. In others, it's opening up the playing field. As you stated, if it were about a hook up, it probably isn't as important. Maturity always comes into play and age and maturity don't always equate.

It sure does help to bring up a subject though and have the other person not look at you puzzled!


pocogato12 68F  
33754 posts
2/27/2020 1:20 pm

I am playing catch up with my seas of yellow and I am always attracted to your posts. They are full of wit, wisdom, and very relevant outlook to the way I live. This was an excellent commentary of the "age is just a number". I dont have ages, I have levels and if the mental level doesnt match mine closely, I pass. I prefer sapiosexual men over 55. Life experiences and the ability to move freely count for a lot

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