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easy_going2014 53M
13447 posts
7/6/2020 11:57 am


thanks for posting today

Do you know where you're going ? I haven't given it much thought, but, I am happy with who I am, and recognize the life changes ocurring with and around me
Do you like the things that life is showing you? I try to be positive. At a much younger age, I questioned older people, to determine why they were happy or sad. I don't know why I did, but, I did. I resolved to try to stay relevant, and focus on being in that "Happy" state (I've always believed it to be a choice)
Where are you going ? I am continuing to develop as a person (I hope), I'm writing here, as I have an outlet that interests me, and, lately, I'm writing for me, not caring so much about who reads and comments, so much as how it made me feel after I read it, and, it's interesting to see changes over the years, from made up fantasy stories with Dream Boy and Azhar, to Haikus, to lyric interpretations, to who knows what next. I've begun to read for pleasure now, having spent a career reading technical documents and having to translate for customers (makes you hesitate to read for pleasure), but, now I am. I recognize my flaws and hope to tweak them seeing the pros and cons, but, still, happy with myself. Each stage of my life as been a kicking and screaming battle, and, then, I accept it and look for those opportunities for happiness
Do you know? I'm open to ideas, but, I like seeing the change in my children and grandchildren, yikes, great-grandchildren could be another kicking and screaming stage to move into, but, I'm open for that too

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mc_justmc 60M
6307 posts
7/6/2020 12:05 pm

My gold expired a week or 2 back. I'll probably renew next week. They are offering $6 a month membership. I waste more than $6 a month on other crap I don't need, why not this crap? The site has changed since I joined in 2011. Groups are gone and they were key for meeting people and kept me hopping from party to party. I haven't been doing much here since, but it limits my time on the big stupid box when I'm on the little stupid box.

smartasswoman 62F  
33170 posts
7/6/2020 12:20 pm

I have similar feelings. Really no interest in meeting anyone from the site, although I guess I did have a coffee date about a year ago. The blogs aren't as fun as they used to be, but I'll probably continue with my occasional posts just because I get more readers here than I would trying to start fresh on a different platform.

lonlyforlove2 77M
16462 posts
7/6/2020 12:27 pm

Young Lady, Join the growing crowd of "standard membership" It is really not that bad for me, for some and maybe you, it will have a big affect on your site activities..
I did find the site to be successful for me, I like to make new friends, I enjoy casual conversation, dating , dining and dancing

From your top, Change, I don't like a lot of it, I have accepted most of it, some I may not never!! just my nature and most likely not enough time left for me to change on some of the radical things..

The price that charge for the site drastically changes form time to time.. as high as $40 per month down to as low as $ 3.95 …. I have been sitting on a $3.95 offer for 2 weeks and not sure it is worth that, If the site worked as it is laid out to , yes it would be worth a good bit more but so many uncertainties that happen each day here.

One of the biggest things you will miss ,will be the ability to message any one at any time; the top fan program allows me some leverage on this front. Also the inability to inert an image into a comment.

Give at a try , it is not that bad, you are not alone, and more will be here with us till the site finally has it's last blog..

Be sure to look in at lonlyforlove2 . It may make you smile

lonlyforlove2 77M
16462 posts
7/6/2020 12:28 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    My gold expired a week or 2 back. I'll probably renew next week. They are offering $6 a month membership. I waste more than $6 a month on other crap I don't need, why not this crap? The site has changed since I joined in 2011. Groups are gone and they were key for meeting people and kept me hopping from party to party. I haven't been doing much here since, but it limits my time on the big stupid box when I'm on the little stupid box.
They will offer 3.95 at two weeks, ……..

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thinkingofyou12 63M
1462 posts
7/6/2020 12:45 pm

The site has gone thru so many changes. The only reason I am here are the Blogs. I hope you continue blogging.

Granny872 68F  
2434 posts
7/6/2020 12:47 pm

My own Gold membership expires next week. I have points accumulated, but I'm not sure if the site will confiscate those once I turn to a Standard member or not.

If AdultFriendFinder is no longer giving free Gold to active female members, I suspect I might not be long for this site.

Like you, I don't believe other sites offer much better in terms of benefits or excitement for that matter. I do log into two other chat sites, but they don't offer much in terms of attractive dating material, IMO.

There are a handful of bloggers here I very much enjoy reading, yourself included, but like you, I have no interest in blogs full of memes, song lyrics, or naked women. That type of blog seems to be the most prevalent, sad to say.

Hope to see you stick around and write, but if you do not, best of luck to you.

hogknot 53M  
859 posts
7/6/2020 2:13 pm

The only thing constant in life is change. The blogs have changed over the years and not for the better. It is nice to read about different things that are not political. This used to be a good place for that but politics have crept into the blogs. I still enjoy looking at a naked female body. There is beauty in all of them. It was a good use of Diana Ross song lyrics to finish your blog.

aman4u1962a 58M
1781 posts
7/6/2020 2:48 pm

You are certainly right about the changes to the site, and definitely not for the better. Not many bloggers interact with their readers the way you do. You are a rare, and vanishing breed my dear BJ. I understand we all must move on, but I sure will miss reading your posts if you decide to leave.

citizen4722 62M  
67504 posts
7/6/2020 3:19 pm

It always saddens me to read posts like this from bloggers I've been following for some time
I think it's inevitable that they will be more frequent.

CleavageFan4U 63M  
62101 posts
7/6/2020 6:15 pm

I certainly know what you mean about the blogs, but I soldier on. No good alternative I suppose.

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redrockrascal 61M
21606 posts
7/6/2020 7:28 pm

We have a number of things in common.
I handle change fairly well especially if I know it is coming. Roll with the changes

I've seen a lot of changes on the site and the blogs – unfortunately not all good or worth the price.

I have always considered this a successful site for me. Even though I am in an area that has few women as members.

My last steady partner moved to Colorado 3 years ago. I still have no steady partner.

If I come across a local-ish woman it is usually worth the effort to find a way to make contact.

There isn’t another site quite like this – I’ve looked.

The blogs keep me here for when someone interesting comes along. But most the interesting writers are gone. My desire to write is diminished too.

I'm not sure how I'll handle it. Roll with the changes

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.

Paulxx001 63M
16700 posts
7/6/2020 9:23 pm

Well... I'm headed in THAT direction.

Do I have a choice whether I should like or dislike it? I'm just coping and adjusting, and making my little space as habitable as possible. Maybe what I do will rub off on someone else?

I was going to go downstairs and pour myself a fresh cup of coffee. But it's fricken hot here tonight. Might just go with a pineapple slushie.

Some things I do, and others... not so much.That's what Google is for, isn't it?

I'm not impressed when I hear 'some' of the veteran women, brag about how quickly they'll be gone - when their crowns expire. I'd suggest - why wait? Leave now. I mean, why are 'they' here at all, if THAT's the case? Standard members do have LIVES on this island - FFS! Ya just have to think outside the box, so to speak.

A F F wants paying and playing members. It comes down to whether or not the 'old guard' figure $7 (which is what the rate will eventually be), is going to be worth the fun.

As for the blogs... well. I gave on those a while ago. But once in a while I get inspired.

So...Whatcha gonna do?
I wouldn't think about it too much. It's just a sex, hook up site after all. So unless ya got something else cooking, hang around. They're bound to open up that free buffet on the second floor - one day!
In the meantime...(while you wait for 'them' to offer you the $7 deal), hang out in the 'Standards Lounge'. They installed cable last week.

azriel1970 49M  
30011 posts
7/7/2020 5:00 am

OMG I am so there as well!!!! I deleted all of my blog posts save the first one I ever did and the last one. My membership runs out next month and I very well maybe gone with it.

I do admit I miss the blogs but like you the desire to do the posts I used to do seem no longer within me. So many great bloggers here are the same it appears. I miss those days but , like you, I totally get it. I will follow you as long as I am here and as long as you post!

pal334 66M  
40580 posts
7/7/2020 6:43 am

It is amazing how they are screwing things up on this site. It is less and less fun. Maybe there goal is to close it up. For what it is worth, my suggestion is to try to hang in and hope for better changes

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HeartCollector 63F  

7/7/2020 8:06 am

It’s just not fun for me anymore. I’ve been seeing someone since March and although that wouldn’t be reason to leave, as I said, it’s just not fun anymore.

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TicklePlease 52F  
12783 posts
7/7/2020 11:32 am

Well it's a good thing we've already met in the real world!

I don't write much any more.... mostly because I only like writing about things that are fun or happy or funny and there's been a clear lack of that in my life lately.

One thing that bugs me tho, and to be clear YOU aren't guilty of this, is when people lament the loss of the good old site/blog days but don't put any current effort into contributing to what made them "great." It's almost as if they're just lamenting the loss of the low-effort connection they got here and now that those people have moved on, they just complain that "the blogs have gone downhill" without adding anything.

PonyGirl1965 54F
11016 posts
7/8/2020 12:52 am

I'm a standard and float along. No dating. Just reading. Less writing. This site has changed in a bad way. I miss so much of the 'old days'.
Life is always changing and I plan to change with it. I plan on asking for what I want more often. I plan on relaxing more, working less.

mature_951 59F  
3350 posts
7/24/2020 3:00 pm

the slag heap... yep, that's about it my drive is not what it used to be and I'm okay with that

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