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why can't someone take rejection....
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why can't someone take rejection.... Me not interested 7/11/2016 9:33 am S then eat shit 7/11/2016 12:13 pm S I like you 7/11/2016 12:18 pm I have tried the 'thank you but not interested', and get 'fuck you', then I tried just the 'not interested' and get that.... The one thing I wont do is ignore, but have problem blocking.... so if you are one of those that do get a 'not interested' from someone, either dont respond or just say thanks for the response. There is no need to be nasty!!! This by far is my favorite (lol) Gotta love those legs! 7/3/2016 1:35 pm Me Auto-reply message: Thank you for contacting me, if you are a Daddy Dom, I will respond as soon as I can. If you are not a Daddy, that is fine, you will be hearing from me IF a response is necessary. If you want to beat me into submission, fuck off. If you have a cock picture as the first picture you want me to see, you clearly are not what I am looking for, so you will not hear from me. Have a great day.7/3/2016 1:35 pm Lo Your a fucken slut!!! Only thing u need is a big cock and u bent over taking it hard !! |
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I believe people like that have very fragile egos and cannot truly see beyond themselves. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well. 
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How about: Thank you very much for your interest, I am truly flattered. I/We have just met someone and made a commitment to meet or am involved with someone. If this should not work out I will contact you. Additionally we have made lots of friends on the site and this is how we stay in contact. If you see me, say hello! Once again I really appreciate you contacting me and wish you well in your search. Have a great day and better week. This should eliminate any need for anything other than a friendly, thank you. It has worked for us.
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That is why I have to block the person that I am saying "no" or "not interested" to. The next question is "why"? You answer that question and its still not good enough. Just goes downhill from there. I have had some, what appear to be decent guys, say "ok thanks for at least replying", etc., but then a few days later get a snarky message from them. So yeah, have to block.
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they gain nothing . We accidently brushed over a profile trying to get to another and the guy wrote us , I said single guys cant read and he sent a real nasty email back, he was reported to AdultFriendFinder . Its very easy to drag your mouse over a profile not trying to look at it and it looks like you did look . Even just browsing a profile doesn't mean we want to be contacted, read the profile 1st to see what we are looking for . It only happens with single guys . the majority are like vultures looking to pounce on a cpl . We aren't looking for single guys ( we got burnt out ) , mostly want to try a fmf , never done one 
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Thank you, I only wish there were more ladies on here like you. There is nothing worse than being totally ignored when a message is sent. I have always said a simple "no thank you" or "thanks, but no" is all I would ever expect to a message sent to someone. Have a wonderful day, and best of luck to you...
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I don't defend the asshole's being asshole's by any means. I will say that some don't mean to be a pest or a stalker but I have to admit that as a standard member I have noticed that AdultFriendFinder is playing with people's accounts and notifications. I wont name a name but they are showing one person views my profile about every week but it seems AdultFriendFinder has blocked me or she has blocked me. I have tried to contact her many times and now it shows her account is off but she just commented here so I would luv for her to contact me or just send a an IM that says not interested.
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The answer to your question is because rejection hurts. The solution to your problem is not to attempt to control everyone else ("either dont respond or just say thanks for the response"), but to control yourself ("The one thing I wont do is ignore, but have problem blocking"). I know you'll say "why should I?" and in an ideal world that's right, but we're not in an ideal world so maybe it's best to be pragmatic
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