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Wanton_Wench2 58F  
1031 posts
11/11/2015 8:34 am

. Sexual confidence is easy to spot in a man, so I assume men can see it in women. Confidence attracts most men, repeals those lacking in their own self confidence.

One thing I have noticed over the years is, that men form the net are really the same as any other men.
Once they meet a women that shows she likes sex, she is automatically sexy
and older men do rather like curvy women in their 40' s + 50's.

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coptrainer56 70M  
1878 posts
11/11/2015 9:02 am

As long as the confidence stays sort of arrogance, all is GOOD. It is the same with assertive, rather than aggressive.

Be safe, relax and just have fun!

Woodyeverready 61M
1188 posts
11/11/2015 9:21 am

When I meet (or see from afar) a woman who to me appears sexually confident, I don't notice her physical appearance so much. My imagination immediately jumps to thoughts of what a great sexual experience we could have, regardless of our physical beauty or lack thereof. That's what arouses me. Generic confidence can be attractive in that if I meet a woman who is confident, I know that I can expect an interesting interaction, so I will want to engage her. Conversation will flow easily, awkward moments will be few and if we both feel the same way, it could lead to more, exciting moments.

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Woodyeverready 61M
1188 posts
11/11/2015 9:29 am

PS. If the first 3 pics are of you, I don't see an "average" body. I see a body that arouses me and that I would enjoy exploring fully. As wantonwench said, many men in my age group are not hung up on looking for perfection. You don't need a perfect body to have amazing sex, you just need a sexy mind and attitude.

Woodrow J. Evers

lordjack1957 62M

11/12/2015 7:06 am

There's nothing that perks of a man's interest more than I a woman that knows she's sexy regardless of her the body type. Style, Class and Charm is always a powerful Trump.


missthee 54F  
4117 posts
11/15/2015 10:37 am

I don't consider myself particularly confident, nor do I lack self-esteem.
Like you, I am aware I don't fit the standard image of an attractive woman. That is to say, I don't actively try to be 'an attractive woman.'
I do feel sexy when I want to be that way. I know what makes me feel sexy. Usually it's not the conventional / feminine kind of sexual confidence. For example, I don't fix my hair, or wear makeup.
If someone happens to find me attractive then that is very encouraging.
Is it my subjective kind of confidence shining through, I don't know, maybe.

lucius8858 61M
852 posts
12/28/2015 10:38 pm

You'll have to excuse me Flower, I have been catching up on blogs and really like your post here so I decided to respond....even though I am a month and a half late! lol

To me sexual confidence is being confident in who you are and what you want out of any sexual encounter, be it with a regular partner or a first time meet....and to that point I believe sexual confidence and sexual intelligence go hand in hand in being confident enough to know not only what you bring to the encounter and what you want out of it, but also intelligent enough to read what hints your partner is giving you to be able to adjust to make it a great experience for you both.

Confidence in one's self I think is extremely important and absolutely an attraction....I am an older gentleman in my late 50's and as I age I am reminded often that beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. And I often look beyond the outer perfections and imperfections....to see what is in a persons makeup.....a smile, a look, a posture....often attract me and give me a subtle clue of what might lay within....but then it is typically getting to know a person that seals the attraction for me....wit and intelligence usually breeds confidence and usually wins me over!

And I think you are a very beautiful flower...and quite lovely to behold!

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lucius8858 61M
852 posts
12/31/2015 11:47 am

Why it takes people like us My Dear...connecting, creating, initiating friction of the mind and then the wetness and true pleasure can begin!

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