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Han54boat 67M
11667 posts
11/21/2015 3:20 pm

I buy drinks and dinner for many dates. Unless the woman makes twice than me then we share. At this stage, having fun and enjoy in life is important.


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gardenboy321 56M  
41183 posts
11/21/2015 5:23 pm

Wow, so many people are posting the first day thing so early. lol I thought it was on the 29th?

Anyways, I don't do dates either. Does anyone on this site do dates? I'm like you... I do coffee meets.

Thoughts from the Garden...


redrockrascal 61M
21255 posts
11/21/2015 5:50 pm

    Quoting gardenboy321:
    Wow, so many people are posting the first day thing so early. lol I thought it was on the 29th?

    Anyways, I don't do dates either. Does anyone on this site do dates? I'm like you... I do coffee meets.
I treat my "meets" like "dates". Doing that has worked out pretty well for me so far.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

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redrockrascal 61M
21255 posts
11/21/2015 8:08 pm

aflower2c replies on 11/21/2015 8:27 pm:
I have had nice proper dates after I have met someone. Whether a tailgate picnic or dinner on the town, but I don't ask for that at the first meet. I think it creates too much expectations and leaves room for awkward silence or forced conversation. I prefer to save the pleasantries until after.
It's tough to cut a first dinner date short when the chemistry isn't there, plus I am polite so I will feign the interest through dinner. So after doing that a few times, I learned just to meet on neutral ground.

I try to establish if there is any chemistry when I am on the phone, before any “date/meet” is asked or agreed to. If there are expectations after talking then you (the general you) are probably with the wrong person.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


lordjack1957 62M

11/22/2015 6:22 am

Can you write a story about a first date or does it have to be one you have had or would like to have?

LJ


spunkycumfun 59M/65F  
36127 posts
11/29/2015 4:44 am

I'm always a little unclear what a date is. I tend to casually go with the flow!


ERoosevelt 51F
299 posts
11/29/2015 7:49 am

I always let them pay for the first date - coffee, drinks, meal, entertainment, etc. Complaining about this to me would be a big red flag. Funny, on my first date with a woman, I insisted on paying.

"Will he allow me to be me?" I think is the quintessential question of the first date. Yes? We're good to go. No? I am too old (and amazing) to settle.

Great blog post!


azriel1970 49M  
29075 posts
11/29/2015 9:02 am

I like your not first dates but first meets idea. I have had lots of first meets. Most sadly are not successful I am not referring to sex but the ability to feel this is someone who I could be myself with.

I hope you find the one or ones you are looking for!


keithcancook 63M
18142 posts
11/29/2015 5:33 pm

I loved your musings. I prefer partners close to my age and experience. That has always worked best for me. Thanks, I enjoyed this post.

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5927 posts
11/29/2015 10:53 pm

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10308 posts
11/30/2015 10:55 am

Be careful of putting people in little boxes! Not all men are looking for casual disinterest as you call it.

Frequency to cum may diminish with age, but not stamina. Not in my experience anyway. I suspect the "old" men who left you unfulfilled left women unfulfilled when they were younger too.

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humorlife 115M
5719 posts
12/2/2015 2:10 am

I'm looking forward to hearing more about your adventures as a would-be cougar... and if you end up taking the cougar cruise, I'd definitely like to hear more about the activities (scheduled and not) on board!

A question, though: On these cruises, are all parties clear about looking for love vs. sex? Seems to me that on sites like this folks can be fairly upfront about what they're seeking (which makes first dates a lot more viable), but on a cruise there's more room for gameplaying, and not of the good sort...

Great contribution to the virtual symposium!

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kzoopair 68M/67F
25704 posts
12/2/2015 5:22 pm

This was a valuable Symposium as a learning experience for me. I am so glad i'm not dating anymore!!! I gotta go find my wife and thank her again for rescuing me from all that!

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SweetCirce 78F  
7445 posts
12/3/2015 9:01 am

I think men AND women sometimes go on these coffee meets knowing that there's not a lot interest (but who knows?). What I really don't like is the assumption that a first meet will not even include coffee, but will proceed immediately to sex.

And I think you have a large contingent of women here who would join you on a cougar cruise!


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