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kzoopair 68M/67F
25704 posts
1/11/2016 10:08 pm

Where do you go in real life to make yourself available?
Well, I don't, but honestly, it's kind of anyone's guess, isn't it? It's all very random and...chancy, isn't it? You never know where you'll meet someone spectacular.

Do you only search for quick hookups in real life and online?
I talk to strangers. I flirt with hikers, waitresses, doctors- everyone.

Do you frequent a coffee shop, a regular game night, other social events, or what have you, in order to chance upon someone interesting?
Of course!

Leave it to chance, just go out and be your friendly ol'self
You have to try to make connections. People will let you know when they are not amused.

Or like me, prefer to search online?
I do that too. I met my wife online.

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CookiesNMischief 34M  
2968 posts
1/11/2016 10:12 pm

The parameters of the new social circle takes place person to person once one let's their fingers do the walking. Knowing that now, I think there are a number of individuals who prefer to digitize how that meeting takes place via online chatting. Anyways, life is already busy - being online is an easier avenue to chat for people who are on constant go.

Imagine that on a sex site like this, it's sort of rummaging through the gourmet version of Trader Joes - the disconcerting individual has choices - it's what you make of what you see in the meat department can whet your appetite, or churn your stomach. Or if you were to walk into the produce aisle, and say, palm the cucumbers or eye the bananas. Touching and feeling are merely small parts in making sure the fruit/vegetable are ripe enough to enjoying the juice/pulp within.

Knowing that will give the online experience a little more than excitedly tapping keyboard in a wild, cyber-sex manner.

Happy hunting!

kzoopair 68M/67F
25704 posts
1/11/2016 10:27 pm

aflower2c replies on 1/12/2016 1:13 am:
"I leave it to chance when I am out in meatspace.
Of course I am one of those early 40's woman that men don't notice though so I rarely get approached anyway
Hopefully I pick the right gyms to go to in the new year though"

You think men don't notice early forties women? What's wrong with the men in Kamloops!? I sure as hell notice!

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flowerkings2012 56M  
4217 posts
1/12/2016 2:12 am

like you, quite introverted and in truth pretty much given up on real life, as, if i was successful with women there, I really wouldn't need to be here.

So, in answer to your questions, nowhere, no and no

getlucky2132 41M
4958 posts
1/12/2016 3:17 am

I've had my best luck using that faceplace, I never thought of it until last year...some for hooking up, but most to hang out with and yeah, sometimes sex too. I realized, hey I already know these people, as I won't "friend" anyone I don't know...in the list there's always those "What-if's?" Yanno? Turns out they too, well more than I thought, were thinking the same thing, too a degree. Its easy because, hey you, or I should say I, already know them, and to a large degree how compatible we already are, and the "strange factor" isn't really there. I do well in shopping situations, as I'm outgoing and while shopping sucks, I make fun of it and I know women see me and think "this guy is nuts....he must be fun" engage me or I them, its pretty easy, well for me at least!

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khuXBFXM8u 58M
10308 posts
1/12/2016 5:25 am

Who knows were the one we seek is... maybe here, maybe not. My approach... keep your game diversified. Try all different kinds of dating websites. Stay open and positive.

Find pleasure in giving pleasure

getlucky2132 41M
4958 posts
1/12/2016 8:12 am

Shopping situations would be interesting

You can find me in the meat aisle, actually that's kind of no shit...easy crazy comments! You'll never get hit on in the frozen food section though!

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getlucky2132 41M
4958 posts
1/12/2016 10:28 am

Weekly meet n greet in the produce section LOL

Oh my, meet me in the aisle with the zucchini's See how fun it'd be to run into some fool like myself....making shopping fun on punchline at a time!!

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getlucky2132 41M
4958 posts
1/13/2016 6:24 am

aflower2c replies on 1/12/2016 2:53 pm:
No comparing sizes of the fruit n veggies

Oh baby! You should see my raisins, the look huge beside my baby carrot!

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lucius8858 61M
852 posts
1/14/2016 8:30 pm

Where do I go to make myself available? Whereever you want me too! lol....I shop online mostly these days, but I do like to go to the gym, or hit up a local wine tasting gathering. Or last resort a bar....usually pick a karaoke bar, because I like love to sing and it helps especially when I do Bon Jovi...lol.
Do you only look for quick hookups online or in real-life?
No hardly ever, I prefer regular partners...whether I'm searching online or face to face....I enjoy getting to know my partners. It's safer and the sex is so much h better, because you get to know a person's likes and I think explore more.

My goodness I think women in there 40's are at their most sexiest....they typically are experienced, know what they want and love to explore...and their bodies are still smoking hot! Like you! I would be in heaven if you were my playmate...oh the fun we could have Flower!

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