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BostonHungfun8 39M  
498 posts
3/11/2016 11:06 am

TGIF


Woodyeverready 61M
1188 posts
3/11/2016 11:07 am

I would absolutely love getting a message from the woman first, so long as it isn't an obvious catphishing expedition from a 30 something woman "looking for love". Not sure what you meant by guys only appreciating messages from the top % of women. Top bloggers? Top viewed? Top???

Woodrow J. Evers


luvwetwild2 54M  
668 posts
3/11/2016 11:12 am

i appreciate the attention and am absolutely flattered when I am reached out to. Now for the caveat, only when it is a lady who is close to my age and shows some level of intelligence.


lookinghard6669 54M
365 posts
3/11/2016 11:21 am

I really like getting messages first!


Camman0690 54M  
68 posts
3/11/2016 11:25 am

I have always been the aggressor and most of my relationships. Lately I have really been impressed with the change in women's attitude. It's definitely a turn on when I find a woman coming after me. When I get a message first from a woman that scores her right to the top 🌷

AboveTheRest


HermanG67 52M
8009 posts
3/11/2016 12:42 pm

I like if a woman messages first, for a cpl reasons, maybe for what ever reason I thought I wasn't a match (ie. she prefers younger men) .... or maybe I missed her profile.... a first message might start a dialogue that brings us to know each other


boobwhisperer69 57M  
5911 posts
3/11/2016 1:00 pm

I luv it when a lady messages me first! It shows she has interest. And you don't have to wonder whether or not you are bothering her!


Woodyeverready 61M
1188 posts
3/11/2016 2:28 pm

    Quoting Woodyeverready:
    I would absolutely love getting a message from the woman first, so long as it isn't an obvious catphishing expedition from a 30 something woman "looking for love". Not sure what you meant by guys only appreciating messages from the top % of women. Top bloggers? Top viewed? Top???
aflower2c replies on 3/11/2016 2:21 pm:
The top 10% beautiful (young, pretty)
It's proven in some studies from dating sites that the top 10% men and women get the bulk of the messages lol

Since I consider you young, and from what little I can view I would say you are attractive and therefore any emails from you would thrill me.

Woodrow J. Evers


lucius8858 61M
852 posts
3/11/2016 4:46 pm

Honestly it is very special when a woman messages me....I like an aggressive woman....and there is nothing like the anticipation of a first meeting....I am like you...I want sensuality in a partner....knowing someone thinks about being with you is one of the biggest turn-ons for me....knowing that a woman daydreams about the way I touch her, the way I taste her, the way I make love to her....and her knowing that I am thinking the same things about her....desire is addicting with the right person!

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flowerkings2012 56M  
4217 posts
3/11/2016 4:53 pm

I would love it for women to message me if they were interested in me. No idea why this whould be such an issue. Eternally flattered when any woman shows any sign of interest in me; even more so if physical or sexual interest!

Oh to be lusted after!!!


kzoopair 68M/67F
25704 posts
3/11/2016 4:53 pm

You've read my blog. does it look to you like there was a plan?

Hell yes I like getting messages from women. And generally, they're a lot more interesting and articulate than the messages most men send. I'm friends with some great guys on this site who are smart, funny and entertaining, but the bulk of first messages from guys consists of "Hey!" or some version thereof. I don't answer those.

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flowerkings2012 56M  
4217 posts
3/11/2016 5:16 pm

But you are! Why haven't you noticed???


Golly06 67M  
1860 posts
3/11/2016 6:25 pm

Everybody likes to be desired, so yes, I do. I never message first, because first, I am a dinosaur (age wise), and second, I think women get a ton of messages to sort through as it is. I have been messaged by a few women, and have connected on different levels, so I would say go for it! You are at a wonderful age, your profile is beautiful, and you have a great mind. The preferences/compatibility section should say what the person is interested in as far as age, body type, distance, etc. even if they haven't written very much. I am excited when meeting someone, but I just expect to be friends first and then see where it goes.


gardenboy321 56M  
41181 posts
3/11/2016 8:30 pm

Of course we do.

Thoughts from the Garden...


flowerkings2012 56M  
4217 posts
3/12/2016 12:57 am

Yes, not so much fun either for those of us far away and online who do genuinely want to be touched by you... and touch you back!!!!! But I think you know my POV on your sensual effect well enough by now


khuXBFXM8u 58M
10308 posts
3/12/2016 4:31 am

There is no better feeling than being desired by a woman you desire. It's no different than it is for you.

Do I like being messaged first by a lady, yes! Assertiveness is a big turn on for me, as long as it's not overbearing. I'm an assertive person, and likes attract.

Should you approach men by messaging first... if you are an assertive lady then yes. If you are not then don't. Just be whoever you are... if the man in question can't accept you as you are, he is not deserving of your time and effort.

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


passionateaction 50M
1576 posts
3/12/2016 1:47 pm

Neither can I


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